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that's why a smart man will NEVER commit himself to a long term relationship with a imho. just them s for fun and dump their asses in the trashcan once you get them done
And what's your point? That I was the one who said you cant watch what you're girfriend does 24/7? Shocking revelation.
that's why a smart man will NEVER commit himself to a long term relationship with a imho. just them s for fun and dump their asses in the trashcan once you get them done
not sure why, not all girls have heaps or some male friends
How she meet you then?
Does she go to school on an all girl school, works on a all women office? You can see how its hard to avoid being friends with at least a few male dudes. She doesn't live in a bubble does she?
those would all be acquantances or casual friends, she wouldn't be "hanging out" with them at their houses aloneHow she meet you then?
Does she go to school on an all girl school, works on a all women office? You can see how its hard to avoid being friends with at least a few male dudes. She doesn't live in a bubble does she?
what m>s said, yeah she knows males but she isn't really mates with any..How she meet you then?
Does she go to school on an all girl school, works on a all women office? You can see how its hard to avoid being friends with at least a few male dudes. She doesn't live in a bubble does she?
I do not apologize for being old-fashioned. I am single and I do not believe in being alone with any guy in a relationship. I will not even go out to lunch with just the two of us. I learned the hard way when I had lunch with a guy married friend who hit on me. Lost two friends that day.
You're one classy woman.
Late to this thread...but true dat. These fools saying it's ok if they hang out because they are just friends, or been friends forever are just asking for trouble. Everyone, EVERYONE...has weak moments in a relationship for a number of reasons. One side might think its all good, but the other is having serious doubts. You avoid screwing up in those weak moments by avoiding these exact situations. Men that allow this are just asking to be cucked, trust or no trust.
depends if she's banged that dude in the past or not. i guess that's a tricky situation unto itself.
usually id say if youre treating her right and not sounding like a jealous asshole then she'll be too busy spending all of her time with you. if said dude hits on her then she'll immediately respond with how she truly feels. if she's into you, she'll say back the off. if not, then well it was for the better.
I don't know if it's an age thing as much as a maturity thing. Ever since I started dating in my teens, if I am in an exclusive relationship cheating (by me) has never been an issue. If we promise to be exclusive emotionally, sexually, whatever---I've always kept my promise no matter where I am, or how irresistible another person is. I don't believe that things "just happen" beyond our control, you want it to happen or you don't. If I find that I no longer want to be exclusive with someone, I tell them----before I someone else. It's about honesty more than loyalty.mrsmaalox forgets that not every women is as loyal and legit classy as she is; a trait common among more mature (and older) woman.
A lot of woman I know play theclassy
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So you are truly one of a kind.......or really ugly.
Well I suppose it could be either one of those, but I just think it's about not breaking my promises.
So, then, we're assuming the woman's complete lack of sexual agency?
Shocking.
Challenge accepted.^ that's the key..I dance for women in my spare time and Imma tell you they CHEAT CHEAT CHEAT like it's no bodies business..there is not a faithful woman on the planet in my view..it just depends on the degree with which they cheat...many of them as LakaLuva once pointed out engage in what we call emotional ing...once that happens it's over I don't care how married they are them panties coming off...
but here's the secret to maintaining a somewhat "happy" relationship --> Stay Sexy..as in "Magic Mike" sexy...all my female friends tell me they just love to death a man that can dance sexy for them either nude or with a g-string...they simply love it...and most important even more than a good is abs...nice abs is the key to a woman's heart...them wanting to you starts with abs
I dare any woman to come on here a dispute me
The issue with this point of view, and with the similar points of view expressed in this thread, is that it spends all the time worrying about/chasing after the phantom of possible temptation without addressing the real problem: the weak points you've mentioned. If temptation and/or dishonesty is a possibility, then the relationship has problems that extend way beyond who each person is hanging out with. If the relationship is solid, however, there will be no temptation to break whatever rules/terms to which you've agreed.
I can't speak for all women, nor would I ever attempt to, but if I'm in a good, strong relationship, and we've agreed to be sexually exclusive, all manner of attractive men and women could wave their genitalia directly in my face, and I would happily walk away. Similarly, a straight male (or gay/bi female) friend could hit on me while we were hanging out and I'd have no problem declining. In fact, in all likelihood, if the friend was close enough that we were hanging out regularly, then he/she would know my relationship status, and overstepping those lines would be enough for me to end (or at least distance myself from) that friendship in favor of my relationship. And, really, that's all my partner needs to worry about. That's what trust in a relationship is, really; knowing that I'm going to react/adapt appropriately, and honestly, no matter what the world throws at me. Worrying about whether or not someone wants to tempt me, rather than whether or not I'm able to be tempted, would suggest my partner lacked trust in both me and in the strength of our relationship, at which point I'd have to wonder why he/she would even consider either of us worth the trouble of holding on to.
Same here.
Though for me it has as much to do with laziness as with anything else. Being dishonest takes a lot of damn time and energy that I just don't have.
I think it was Chris Rock who said;
Men don't have "platonic" female friends...they just have women friends they ain't ed yet.
Women - have male platonic friends....they are known as a " in a glass jar" - break in case of emergency.
Anyone that disputes this truth is just lying - or a cuck/cuckette.
DPG is like the relationship king..dudes been cheated on so many times I fully expect him to write a novel on this thread....why don't you bump some of your old of you got cheated on....
all I do is put on my Denzel hat...even with the various women I sleep with..even though it's not cheating I lie to each one about where I'm going next...I realize that women are emotional creatures and even if not in a committed relationship they tend to take things personally or internalize things for some future use...that's been my experience..so i allow them to internalize only what I want them to...again I deserve an academy awardbut my true lady friends (even the ones I'm sleeping with) all of them...if they need me they know I'm there for them...98% of them are white and only about 25% of them ever ask me for me when they really need it
for some reason I want to believe you. But when you tell us you're addicted to pain pills and yet you've never had anal sex..you make it real hard...in my view any woman that's addicted to anything has cheated at some point in her life...because it shows a lack of discipline
all you had to do was agree with my post ..you're a straight up liar if you say women and yourself in particular don't like sexy men to dance naked for them...You all our just like us..we love when hot women shake their asses in front of us..you're no different
all I do is put on my Denzel hat...even with the various women I sleep with..even though it's not cheating I lie to each one about where I'm going next...I realize that women are emotional creatures and even if not in a committed relationship they tend to take things personally or internalize things for some future use...that's been my experience..so i allow them to internalize only what I want them to...again I deserve an academy award
^ typo..ask me for money when they really need it
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