Well it's that time for me; my lenders are ready for me to start paying back my loans. At this point I have over 40K in loans

and they are wanting close to $500.00 a month. Not only is that ridiculous, it's impossible for me at the moment. Doing that would have me living paycheck to paycheck and even using some of my savings each month.
I know most posters here went to, graduated from, or are still in college. For those like me, who were not fortunate to have their parents pay for them, what did you do in regards to repayment? Defer until you made more money? Go into Forbearance and solely pay the interest? Not pay and run to Mexico? I'm just curious and wanted to get others input before making any big decisions.
EDIT - I'm at a good company now, and have lots of opportunity to advance in the future, but at the same time, this is my first job after college, and they are paying me accordingly.