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I can hold on if she's a sugarmama
You ever feel like everyone around you seems to be climaxing and having orgasms all the time except you? I'm here to tell you that real-life sex can almost never measure up to the passion portrayed in the movies....sex in the real world isn't perfect and people don't talk about the fact that it's likely that in an odd position you'll fart or the love of your life could have smelly vagina or halitosis.
but what if the sex is just horrible...After you've tried talking and the sex still isn't working, what then? should you stay or go?
I would first recommend you try mutual masturbation...ladies be resolved to teach your man guide his hands and tongue around your flower...fellas get a banana and show your wife how you like it sucked...still not working try a sex therapist..
Whenever you're considering a breakup or divorce you need to weigh every element of the relationship and not just the sex.... you can't have everything in life...If you have a wonderful relationship and you love each other and you have kids but the sex isn't great, maybe you can live with that. If his equipment isn't satisfying you may not have a choice...you should explain to him that he needs to improvise if possible...if all else fails it may be best to break up if you're not being satisfied...white guys need to learn how to be more passionate in bed...instead of spending all that time be racists maybe if they dedicated some of the time to learning to love things would change...
I vote to leave his ass
I can hold on if she's a sugarmama
I have never been in a relationship with bad sex- that is what dating is for. If she wasn't great the first few times we had sex- because I held up my end- I cut her loose.Period.
so you're not into teaching? sometimes super skinny girls (as in boney) need to be taught..sometimes their bones get in the way...I just need enough to hold onto...but if she can blow I will work with her...
you be slanging that pipe right? that's the only way a you gone get a SM...
Of course I was back then...why else would a 36 y/o career woman be dating a 26 y/o paramedic?
There is no relationship unless the sex is totally amazing. The three best lays I ever had I ended up marrying them. Actually got married for that reason that's why the first two didn't work out.
Last edited by Avante; 06-09-2013 at 12:55 PM.
If they had potential - I taught fast - a few dates and they improved - then I kept them around until the day they started teaching me things....
Some were experts already...they were fun too...
Imagine that.
sex should not be the main focus in the relationship..........................
You are seriously misinformed lol.
so, sex is placed above love,trust,support, and any other componant that makes a relationship?
I don't know how they do it in prison, but in the real world, that's called being buddies. Though I could see how it could be construed as a relationship in Prison. AMIRITE??
Yes.
If you want a successful relationship...if what you want is this;
Love : You will discover that what people label "love" is just a code word to get what they want- be it security, sex, material things, etc...
Trust: Is a code word that people use to blame others when they don't get what they want.
Support = "Do what I say or I will punish myself until you feel bad about it"
You don't really want the truth because any man in here - if he is honest - will say - yes - SEX first and if no SEX- then the rest is bull .
Don't ask no questions and I won't tell you no lies....lol.
LOL!!!!!
I sure hope no one listens to you.
Yes and No, CSF. If the sex is unspectacular than it's human nature to think or fantasize about other people. Sometimes those thoughts manifest themselves into actually cheating. People have needs.
He has a point, though, tbh..
All of that is important, obviously, but if you lack sex, cheating will inevitably occur, tbh..
From my experience, it's easier to regulate a woman with a good + inconsistent love and trust, rather than strong love and trust with a ty sex life..
yes.
And how long would any man stay....for example...let us say he finds a girl who looks like a supermodel, acts like mother theresa - but doesn't want to have sex?
Only an idiot would stay. Give me an avg girl who wants sex rather than a supermodel who doesn't want sex.
I don't understand why you'd even be with someone if the sex is so bad...
If you are honest and if you like sex (I can't say if you like women - because - well that is your business) but anyhoo - if you have a significant other and you are having sex - believe you me - you are paying for it. Dearly.
If the sex is bad then what is the point?
I get there is some notion of tradition but I have had all manner of friends and roommates over the years who are women. If I don't want to fornicate then she isn't going to be my girlfriend. If I really love her then she can be my friend for life. It's the same thing but now I can go find someone I do want to sleep with.
Don't get me started on marriage: God's license to bang.
seems like you have a hardened heart over love. or @ the very least, the true meaning of love!!!!
i hope you find your very own cinderella someday
Can 2 people truly love each other without a strong sexual connection, though?..
I've been in relationships where the lust eventually fizzled and I thought I loved those girls, but I got over them relatively quickly after the break-up..
My ex and I love each other and we still once a week or every 2nd week(we had sex 3-4 times a week when we were officially together) and the sex has actually progressively improved, surprisingly..I love her to death, too, tbh, but I doubt either of us would feel as strongly if we couldn't wear each other out
^^ ok but long-term speaking, when you cant get your up anymore, sex jumps out the window...#justsayin boo boo
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