The Beauty Of Real Relationships

[Koolaid_Man]

I know that I won't find true happiness like Lebomb and I know that love doesn't exist based on my lifestyle..the question is do I want it to...at some point maybe..I'm human too...but I like the genuine display that Lebomb shows for his fiancee..Dude is seriously in love and it's a beautiful thing to see...when it clicks it clicks...So the moral of the story (even for Kool) is don't be afraid to open your heart and llet love in at some point in your life...at some point you gotta trust someone..you shouldn't go through life never trusting or opening your heart...


BTW Lebomb - I'm very respectful but lemme say your girl has an excellent set of breasts... I appreciated those..they look all natural too...thanks for the quick peek it was all in good taste...(no PUN) you're a lucky mutha er still trying to figure out what she see's in your ass.... jk

[Avante]

Key word....maturity. As you get older and start to tire of the one nights stands and the unemotional ing ya start wanting something real. As long as she's....just some ....you can forget it. Once she starts getting treated like the woman she is now it's time to outgrow the bull and get serious.

[lebomb]

I know that I won't find true happiness like Lebomb and I know that love doesn't exist based on my lifestyle..the question is do I want it to...at some point maybe..I'm human too...but I like the genuine display that Lebomb shows for his fiancee..Dude is seriously in love and it's a beautiful thing to see...when it clicks it clicks...So the moral of the story (even for Kool) is don't be afraid to open your heart and llet love in at some point in your life...at some point you gotta trust someone..you shouldn't go through life never trusting or opening your heart...


BTW Lebomb - I'm very respectful but lemme say your girl has an excellent set of breasts... I appreciated those..they look all natural too...thanks for the quick peek it was all in good taste...(no PUN) you're a lucky mutha er still trying to figure out what she see's in your ass.... jk

The crazy thing Kool? You meet someone for you when you least expect it. Usually in a crazy place. I was about to breakup with this other female from Cali that I just could not feel anything for. I just liked her, never went to love. Well the day I was gonna drop the bomb on said female, I ran into MrsLebomb when I was at an event. It was a mutual attraction I guess, because I found out later after we were an item that she said she stared at me the entire time the event was going on ...playuh right there niggra. Anyhow, at first it was all physical....but after awhile we both realized it was love. Now I cant even imagine life without her in it.

And stop staring at my girls breastesses!!!!! Yeah they are natural DD's niggra.

[lebomb]

Kool.......... you will know when the ONE comes along. You wont even have to try hard to be with this woman, she will want to be around you constantly too. Not like these uhhhhummm..... young ladies that you are just their vaginas. It will be so easy to love this woman you wont even understand it.

[I. Hustle]

Key word....maturity. As you get older and start to tire of the one nights stands and the unemotional ing ya start wanting something real. As long as she's....just some ....you can forget it. Once she starts getting treated like the woman she is now it's time to outgrow the bull and get serious.

LOL @ Avante coming in here and giving love advice to Kool. It's like John Wayne Gacy having a heart to heart with Pee Wee Herman.

[Koolaid_Man]

Kool.......... you will know when the ONE comes along. You wont even have to try hard to be with this woman, she will want to be around you constantly too. Not like these uhhhhummm..... young ladies that you are just their vaginas. It will be so easy to love this woman you wont even understand it.

I gotta make sure it's real and not the love of my Pop's money....


hey Buddy Mignon is good peeps he's an old school playa that got the relationship game on lock...not trynna tell you what to do but holla at him on the pics...he can give you good advice...

[Koolaid_Man]

The crazy thing Kool? You meet someone for you when you least expect it. Usually in a crazy place. I was about to breakup with this other female from Cali that I just could not feel anything for. I just liked her, never went to love. Well the day I was gonna drop the bomb on said female, I ran into MrsLebomb when I was at an event. It was a mutual attraction I guess, because I found out later after we were an item that she said she stared at me the entire time the event was going on ...playuh right there niggra. Anyhow, at first it was all physical....but after awhile we both realized it was love. Now I cant even imagine life without her in it.

And stop staring at my girls breastesses!!!!! Yeah they are natural DD's niggra.

no problem... I will stop staring..pictures already deleted

[Koolaid_Man]

Key word....maturity. As you get older and start to tire of the one nights stands and the unemotional ing ya start wanting something real. As long as she's....just some ....you can forget it. Once she starts getting treated like the woman she is now it's time to outgrow the bull and get serious.

I agree...I just gotta get to that place..I've been in relationships before...but I've come back to square 1...I gotta a good problem with pussy...I'm a pussy hound..it's not outta my system don't know that it'll ever be

[lebomb]

no problem... I will stop staring..pictures already deleted

Its cool Kool...... when we are out and about, the first thing other men look at are her boobs. Niggra cant even walk through HEB with her without it happening. Its not a big deal, because I look at other womens big ol boobs when they walk by too. Its natural.

Funny, because MrsLebomb always says.........havent you seen s before when Im caught. Im like "not those".....haha

[Buddy Mignon]

I'll keep it real with you, Lebomb. Don't base your relationship just on love. Get off your ass and make some money... start a business... get into financial services... or something in sales that pays high commission. Go on long vacations out of the states. .. and weekend getaways. Hire a driver to take you to dinner at least once a month. I've dated hundreds of women and the pretty ones require a lot of attention. You have to be a go getter and for s sake... stay in shape. Know for sure that if your girl is fine... she is being eye'd every second of the day and night... and you have a lot of compe ion in the real world, buddy. Try new things together. .. yoga... run a marathon... go hiking... dancing... learn art. These are strong relationship building tools so when your relationship is tested it won't be so easy to break up. Delay having kids until you can afford them... and start planning for the kids college and your retirement. TAKE ACTION!!! And enjoy the ride, my friend.

[Trill Clinton]

i'm the first to admit i suck at relationships because i have a hard time staying faithful to one woman. i blew a good thing with my ex because i couldn't keep my thang in my pants. but i did meet a liteskin cutie a couple weeks ago and we're going out this weekend thinking about taking her to joes crab shack. that fried lobster platter looks magically delicious.

[silverblk mystix]

This thread is worthless without pics!

[lebomb]

I'll keep it real with you, Lebomb. Don't base your relationship just on love. Get off your ass and make some money... start a business... get into financial services... or something in sales that pays high commission. Go on long vacations out of the states. .. and weekend getaways. Hire a driver to take you to dinner at least once a month. I've dated hundreds of women and the pretty ones require a lot of attention. You have to be a go getter and for s sake... stay in shape. Know for sure that if your girl is fine... she is being eye'd every second of the day and night... and you have a lot of compe ion in the real world, buddy. Try new things together. .. yoga... run a marathon... go hiking... dancing... learn art. These are strong relationship building tools so when your relationship is tested it won't be so easy to break up. Delay having kids until you can afford them... and start planning for the kids college and your retirement. TAKE ACTION!!! And enjoy the ride, my friend.

Thanks man..........believe me I know everything you are talking about. We are both college grads.......good careers. We both love sports, athletics and work out daily. Its all good man. Thanks for the helpful advise.

[xmas1997]

All you need is love.
And no matter how many times you might think you have it and consequently lose it, when it appears again it seems like the very first time.
All you need is love.

[cute_spursfan]

love is for suckers.

[Koolaid_Man]

love is for suckers.

now don't you even worry I got you covered...

[xmas1997]

Mankind can't live very long without love.

[cute_spursfan]

now don't you even worry I got you covered...

your game is rather tight....

[cute_spursfan]

do men even want REAL relationships? seems like all the men i encounter just
want to sow their wild oats, and keep it movin ~

[Rogue]

Another decent thread started by kool that deserves to win back the Gordon Liu avatar for him imho. I've also thought of such things like starting a relationship myself, in my own real life, and it would be such a wondrous feeling that I've never experienced before... I also crave to have some sort of true love in my life with a girl that also loves me like "Lucy", but at the end of everyday when I'm chilling and smuggling with a pillow held in my arms, I realize that Lucy is just an image that I've built up in my novels, which's never existed in the real world and probably never will. My point is if you can't find any true love in the real world, you may as well just enjoy your life as a celibate rather than get yourself a and use her as a toilet to piss your semen in, imho.

[Rogue]

Mankind can't live very long without love.

There no longer exists such a thing like love in the monetized world that we're unfortunately living in imho, but we still need to find a way to survive. I have love in my mind but I have to confine it within my imaginary world, my novels and my reveries. I might be a bit delusional sometimes, but the majority of time when I'm not writing or masturbating I'm very sober and well aware of the boundary between reality and imagination.

[JoeChalupa]

There no longer exists such a thing like love in the monetized world that we're unfortunately living in imho, but we still need to find a way to survive. I have love in my mind but I have to confine it within my imaginary world, my novels and my reveries. I might be a bit delusional sometimes, but the majority of time when I'm not writing or masturbating I'm very sober and well aware of the boundary between reality and imagination.

BS, real true love happens everyday. I see it all the time. My parents. Couples I know. LJ and Kori. The look in the eyes of a wife when her husband returns homes from the war. If you just take the time to look you'll see ut.

[Rogue]

BS, real true love happens everyday. I see it all the time. My parents. Couples I know. LJ and Kori. The look in the eyes of a wife when her husband returns homes from the war. If you just take the time to look you'll see ut.

I might be wrong because I've been missing the word "love" for so long. My parents used to love me but nowadays they've begun to treat me like a because I'm determined to be a celibate and I'm their only kid, which means no grandchildren for them. My cousins used to be my best friends when I was a kid, but they've all got married now and they'd rather spend time with their es than playing with me anymore. Love doesn't only exist between a man and his imho.

But if that's the "love" you mean, then I have to tell you I've never experienced that since I'm a lifelong celibate, and I don't see no possibility of it being changed anytime soon. There might be true love between a man and a in the world but to me, that ain't meaning nothing.

[Koolaid_Man]

BS, real true love happens everyday. I see it all the time. My parents. Couples I know. LJ and Kori. The look in the eyes of a wife when her husband returns homes from the war. If you just take the time to look you'll see ut.

LJ & Kori with a little Koolaid when that is out on business

[JoeChalupa]

I might be wrong because I've been missing the word "love" for so long. My parents used to love me but nowadays they've begun to treat me like a because I'm determined to be a celibate and I'm their only kid, which means no grandchildren for them. My cousins used to be my best friends when I was a kid, but they've all got married now and they'd rather spend time with their es than playing with me anymore. Love doesn't only exist between a man and his imho.

But if that's the "love" you mean, then I have to tell you I've never experienced that since I'm a lifelong celibate, and I don't see no possibility of it being changed anytime soon. There might be true love between a man and a in the world but to me, that ain't meaning nothing.

It's a wonderful feeling. We've been speakers at engagement encounters and when you see a person's eyes light when the one they love walks into the room is proof. Will they have that look the rest of their lives? We hope so.