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Maybe when you grow up you'll understand.
first off this was inspired by a comedy routine I heard on Siruis Radio but it does beg the question......this one would be very hard for me....I love kids but from afar... I just don't think I could stand it...how do you fellas do it? and what do you do in a situation where the woman has a baby for you and and a baby for another guy...you're required to pay $1000 / mo in Child support and the other baby daddy only has to pay $200...what happens when you buy your kid a laptop for X-Mas and the other baby daddy buys their kid an etch-a-sketch...do you make a fuss if the half sibling wants to use the laptop?there's just so many different permutations when kids are involved...and if you're paying 2k / mo and the other dude is paying $200/mo you know that other kid is using the you buy for your kid while the other daddy coasts and wait for you buy all the for all the kids....and what if you want to take your kid to check out Thor and the other kid only has .50 cent...do you leave him behind....I just couldn't deal with all that
Maybe when you grow up you'll understand.
If you can't look past the fact that she made some whack ass decisions in the past why are you even dating her?
so you taking care of your baby's mama other kids? when does it stop Jr...when she has 5, 6, 7, when she gets to Dwight Howard territory kids? you'll never have any money cuz the other dudes will use you up...but you're a nice guy so no problem...right?
I just asked how was it humanely done...turning a blind eye to her bebe kids
Dating a is too risky and costly no matter what, that's why smart dudes (like Isaac Newton, Jacob and Rogue) wouldn't even get close to any pussy, not at all.
The answer is to act like an adult and to only date people who also act like adults.
If you're involved, kool, the humane thing to do would be to shoot yourself.
thats the BIGGEST deal-breaker for me if the dude has kids...
A real man knows that a woman with kids is a package deal. If you can't handle it what does that say about you?
My wife said the same thing, but she married me anyway and we are 11 1/2 years in with no regrets. My daughter was a toddler at the time.
Don't sell yourself short on a stereotype. You might miss out on someone great because of it.
Interesting topic Kool…
First, one has to receive those children as if they are yours and understand that being a father to somebody else’s children is a lifetime commitment. It is not just about etch-a-sketch. It is about being active in their lives, playing with those kids, homework, Daddy Daughter Dances. When they get older it is about teaching them to drive, buying their 1st car, college tuition. It takes a strong man with self esteem to do these things.
The humane thing to do with your at ude is to stay the out of their life. I raised my son from the age of three and don't give a that I'm not the genetic father.
the humane thing to so is kill yourself kool. genetic cleansing ftw tbh.
im never raising another man's kid unless i willingly adopt or we're somehow related.
koon is one of those wack decisions tbh
I see a lot of serious replies to a joke of a poster. /thread tbh.
i will never ever ever ever ever evvvvvverrrr, date a woman with kids. i mean, i would fck a broad with a kid but i will not handicap my life for someone else's rugrat. too much drama and i'm too young and flashy to be trying to be some kid's stepdaddy.
Easier said than done I imagine. What happens when you give all your money, time, and love...only to hear dont discipline my child or you're not my daddy. The other guy will be happy if you take care of his responsibilities but will threaten to kill you if you reasonably spank the kid. Then when the kid grows up his loyalties will be with the biological in most cases. Now if the mother has my back and the father is paying a good deal in child support payments then it might work. But I'm with with Trill on this
LOL Kool and Trill are idiots. First off, you need to get near the cooter before being able to marry a chick. Well, maybe step dad might be the ideal role for you too. She gets to bang other dudes while you two never get a taste.
Kool/Trill: "How am I this kid's stepdad when we've been married for 5 years and the kid is 3?"
Says the guy with bas kids...
No kids zone. I'd rather date a woman with herpes.
nice try but i'm not knocking all of you who play the daddy role for someone else's kid. i get it. but that lifestyle isn't for me. there are plenty of men out here who are willing and ready to play daddy, just not ya boy.
Sounds like you"re poor and live a very unhappy life. I'm very amused that you adore me
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