Dating A Woman With Kids - How Is It Humanely Done?

[The Reckoning]

i knew it! so if the woman was everything you wanted and when she finally lets you meet her son, he's bi racial and you drop her like a bad habit? that's foul, cc.

brotha you'd know in a heartbeat you'd do the same. no frettin bout that.

[Koolaid_Man]

Not at all the same but thanks for trying. Capisce?

please explain the lack of moral equivalence since I'm a dumb black guy...I need someone to spell it out for me

[Trill Clinton]

brotha you'd know in a heartbeat you'd do the same. no frettin bout that.

nah. contrary to ST belief, i have no problem with women of any race. but i would never date a women with kids to ever be in that situation, but i digress.

[Koolaid_Man]

nah. contrary to ST belief, i have no problem with women of any race. but i would never date a women with kids to ever be in that situation, but i digress.

that's the difference between how decent black folk raise their kids vs. typical whites....most blacks teach their kids love all people while I suspect most whites teach their kids love only those that look like you...the Mexicans and Asians just follow whatever the white man is teaching

[I. Hustle]

please explain the lack of moral equivalence since I'm a dumb black guy...I need someone to spell it out for me

What's the point?

[I. Hustle]

that's the difference between how decent black folk raise their kids vs. typical whites....most blacks teach their kids love all people while I suspect most whites teach their kids love only those that look like you...the Mexicans and Asians just follow whatever the white man is teaching

[bigzak25]

If she's a dime you hit it for a while then make decisions as you go. At the end of the day, for the right woman, you have to love her and love her kids and just be the best dad that you can. A child's color don't matter, you just try to raise respectable kids.

[Koolaid_Man]

^ most blacks is accurate...

[Trill Clinton]

that's the difference between how decent black folk raise their kids vs. typical whites....most blacks teach their kids love all people while I suspect most whites teach their kids love only those that look like you...the Mexicans and Asians just follow whatever the white man is teaching

african americans are very open minded and welcoming of other races in our culture. when it comes to letting others into our culture and social norms, no one is as welcoming as blacks, word. at my family reunion, its not hard to see a some caucasian and hispanic people who've married into the family. no side eyes, evil stares or whispering about them at all. just genuine love and that is something we teach our children and from an early age.

[FuzzyLumpkins]

Trill and Kool making up cultural trends so as to race bait. How novel.

Now we just need kool to rip of ideas from landover again and we can be money.

[CosmicCowboy]

I respect the Skin Heads more than I do you at least they're not afraid to admit what they are...you trying to evade the question is pointless I just find it amusing that tea party racists still try to find a shred of decency they can try and hold onto by playing the silent game...

old and a coward

Like I give a about the opinion or "respect" of a rancid piece of message board troll...

[Koolaid_Man]

If she's a dime you hit it for a while then make decisions as you go. At the end of the day, for the right woman, you have to love her and love her kids and just be the best dad that you can. A child's color don't matter, you just try to raise respectable kids.

I could raise a child of any color or race...about 5 yrs ago I saw a white couple with 4 very little African boys...nappy head and all..I asked them were they the parents and they said yes..they adopted them...I was thinking to myself: "More power to ya"

[CosmicCowboy]

african americans are very open minded and welcoming of other races in our culture. when it comes to letting others into our culture and social norms, no one is as welcoming as blacks, word. at my family reunion, its not hard to see a some caucasian and hispanic people who've married into the family. no side eyes, evil stares or whispering about them at all. just genuine love and that is something we teach our children and from an early age.

So what the happened to you and Koolaid_man, you racist s.

[Trill Clinton]

Trill and Kool making up cultural trends so as to race bait. How novel.

Now we just need kool to rip of ideas from landover again and we can be money.

what is there to bait? blacks are more accepting of other cultures and i'm speaking from experience as a black male. i hope that doesn't bait someone to respond with some nonsense.

[Koolaid_Man]

Like I give a about the opinion or "respect" of a rancid piece of message board troll...

actually old man my intent "is" for you not to give a ... my job is simply to expose you for what you are and make it plain for all to see what a racist and a coward you are...in your Christian heart you know I'm right I don't need public acknowledgement from you..you and I both know you have a bad heart..to be honest

[Trill Clinton]

So what the happened to you and Koolaid_man, you racist s.

i'm not racist, just conscious.

[Koolaid_Man]

So what the happened to you and Koolaid_man, you racist s.

Nary a racist bone in my body..I grew up around whites...but not the Texas variety. You guys are real creepy beer and chili eating rednecks...

[Trill Clinton]

i always laugh when cc calls me racist when he spent several hours posting racist comments and stereotypical jokes in not one, not two, but three trayvon martin threads. dude is so low he finds time to insult and mock a dead child, disgusting.

[Koolaid_Man]

i always laugh when cc calls me racist when he spent several hours posting racist comments and stereotypical jokes in not one, not two, but three trayvon martin threads. dude is so low he finds time to insult and mock a dead child, disgusting.

yep....dude has a bad and wicked heart and he knows it...people like him always keep their racist views just under the surface as to be accepted by those whites who've progressed beyond their animalistic instincts..

but just remember this Cosmic: "Just because a cannibal eats with a fork doesn't make it progress"

[Koolaid_Man]

Yes I know, that's why I said it's the woman who needs to be careful about what she is doing to her kids.

unless a man is physically abusing the kids I think most women will sacrifice the lack of real love the man gives the kids if the sex is good...right?

[mrsmaalox]

unless a man is physically abusing the kids I think most women will sacrifice the lack of real love the man gives the kids if the sex is good...right?

Um no. Choosing the over her kids is about the worst thing a mother can do to her kids, imo

[FuzzyLumpkins]

what is there to bait? blacks are more accepting of other cultures and i'm speaking from experience as a black male. i hope that doesn't bait someone to respond with some nonsense.

my race is better than your race!

[FuzzyLumpkins]

Um no. Choosing the over her kids is about the worst thing a mother can do to her kids, imo

that completely depends on one's frame of reference.

[Koolaid_Man]

Um no. Choosing the over her kids is about the worst thing a mother can do to her kids, imo

I guess it's about perspectives...because I think only guys with kids will really get with a woman with kids anyways...it's rare a single guy will go for the ready made family and then the ensuing baby daddy drama...

[Koolaid_Man]

my race is better than your race!

God is likely black....Dark energy is black and it controls the universe....