i'm not down with the victim blaming under any cir stances. when women wear revealing clothes and get heckled by a group of thirsty ass men, i don't blame the woman for her wardrobe choices. the men should treat her like a lady, regardless of what she has on.
same here. the dude was cool, calm and collected and was not threatening her any physical harm until she assaulted him first. i wouldn't turn my back to that cackling hyena so she could punch me, spit on me or worse. naw. i wouldn't have knocked her out but i would have slapped the outta her. victims of abuse have every right to defend themselves.