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Just go for it, if you think about it you won't ever do it.
I just want to leave. I have a ty job, ty car, and basically everyone I know can't stand me. I basically have nothing to live for. No purpose in life. I want to leave so badly. It's so sad. My family can't stand me and is close to disowning me. My work is basically the same. My car is basically shot and I'm afraid to drive it out of fear that the engine will blow up. I tell my family that and they act like I'm lying or exaggerating. I just honestly want to leave. I have been thinking about this for a couple of years now and I'm at the point where I really want to do it. Just leave. I want to be like Lenny Kravitz and fly away, yeah, yeah, yeah, brotha gotta get away. People say you can't run away from your problems or run from your past but I am willing to take that challenge and see if I can be successful at it.
Just go for it, if you think about it you won't ever do it.
I needs some monies to do it.
I hear Kool gives out free money when he gets ahold of his parent's credit card
A lot of times on here, I make threads like this because I want to vent. However, I really need to make some big changes in my life. My relationships with pretty much everyone I know are ty and damaged. I am somewhat at a crossroads in life. People around me always preach to me about changing but I feel like I'm being held back. For example, when I attempt to change, the people that supposedly demand that I change basically on me and do not give me any recognition for attempting to change. How can I change and be a nicer more positive person when the people around me that demand that I do change won't let me change because they expect me to stay the same? It's annoying as . I mean what the do these people want?
Get a haircut, get a real job.
Go
Pack your bags, hitchhike, audition, you never know!
If you are convinced that you have hit rock bottom, then you have nothing to lose and your life can only get better if you take chances
(and maybe your life is ty because you haven't taken chances yet)
This tbh. You need to stop being a coward homie. Just it. Take that chance to better your life however the case may be.
Be your own man. Stop worrying over what your family thinks, who supports you or who doesn't, pay no mind to what changes others demand----change according to your own demands, and don't expect or need recognition from anyone. Just make up your mind what you want on your own, leave others out of it. Get professional psychiatric help if necessary.
Or maybe you need to change your name
If Jacob is your real name, then it certainly explains why your life is like being in a concentration camp tbh
not a fan of the name jacob son?
Suicide is a valid option
the problem I see is that you care too much how other people think abut you. I mean how much does it matter to you what they want when it is your life, that you yourself are supposed to be responsible for? And its never too late to try some changes in your life imho and it doesn't matter how old you are. A man is as old as he feels, and your parents will support every decision you make no matter what they say. Just go back to school if possible that's my honest advice, and your parents are rich enough to pay the tuition I think. You're probably a bit "old" but you still don't have a , and probably you've never got a I guess, so you're basically still a kid imho. So don't feel no shame about counting on your parents when it is for the good of your future life. You're their child and you will always be. I know and agree with you that school is overrated, but there ain't anything better we can try that may possibly make some positive changes to our lives imho.
I was pretty much in the same situation like 1.5yrs ago when I was stuck in a hopeless job, and I still remember it was on the Independence Day of last year when I finally quit that piece of . Then I spent half a year something preparing for grad school entrance exams and got admitted at the beginning of this year, and now I'm studying in grad school and making new friends in our class. I still remember that almost EVERYONE opposed my idea when I said I wanted to quit that ing treadmill fiddling job (even including my parents), but I quit that anyway regardless, and now I'm living a much happier life. It doesn't matter how other people think about you, and you can never guarantee success for any decision, just do it and see how things work out. You life can't be any tier anyway so any change would be a positive move imho.
Swing by hooters this Saturday and I'll buy you a drink.
I already told you a year ago that your problem isn't the economy, your ty job, or your family and friends. Your problem is your untreated depressive disorder. No matter where you go, you will always be there. Which means you will be miserable unless you seek professional help. You should qualify for subsidized obamacare and obamacare covers mental health treatment so what's stopping you from getting some help? It pisses me off to no end that I have to foot the bill for your treatment but damn dude take advantage of it while you can.
If everyone around you thinks you suck, maybe the problem isn't with them.....
Start looking at something that will get you out of the minimum wage life - maybe a teaching abroad program, or signing up
for a year at Alaska working on the oil fields, anything tbh.......can't be worse than it is now.
that's not what you think it is.
you should pursue a liberal arts degree imo. I don't see how you can leave if your car isn't running.
in my expert opinion, you are just a troll. However my empathy will not allow me to just ignore it. I might be an expert but that doesn't make me uncaring. so what I think you need to do is stop asking people for their advice on how to fix your life. Do what you want to do or shut up about it. The world needs low wage earners as well so its your choice if that's what you settle with. You seem to have taken the easiest way out of everything and now you want other people to help you get away from your problems but that's never going to get you anywhere. Join the Marines they will either make a man of you or kill you. I would like to say that you could join as an officer however since your degree is basically you probably cannot.
Then go and quit complaining about it.
Put your money where your mouth is.
Jacob1983
For the majority of Americans life is routine and mundane…It’s about getting up and going to work when you are hung-over…Paying your children’s tuition and orthodontist bills…Making love to a woman who you can’t stand…Driving a car that overheats, is without A/C because you want your Daughter to be safe, she is driving the newer car that won’t break down…
Get a physical & discuss these things with your Doctor…Who knows, 10mgs of Lexipro may make you feel like the luckiest person on the planet…
Or just smoke a fat joint and count your lucky stars.
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