Need Advice, How Do You Turn a Woman Down at the Office?

[Huey Freeman]

I would ask my fiends this but they are all cruel pieces of so ima ask you guys.

Ok so here is the situation. I gotta a chick at work who is being very persistent in trying to get me to take her out or whatever. This woman is coming at me hard all of a sudden, and I'm honestly not interested. She is not a bad a looking woman tbh. She's a Hispanic chick with a little body on her. She is an older woman in her 30s. Not that age has anything to do with it. I'm in my mid 20s so that's not the issue.

Here is the thing, the woman is the Christian type ya know. Like real religious and . I mean, if she was down with just screwing around or whatever, I would be cool with that, but the fact is she isn't. She has alluded that fact to me numerous times. I wouldn't mind screwing her. Just not getting into a relationship with her. This woman now has my number and is bugging my ass right now as Im typing this thread. This is getting a little annoying. Tomorrow is Valentines Day and I know this chick is going to ask me to take her some where. What you do tbh?

Before giving me advice, please consider that I have to work with women everyday in an office setting. I'm not trying to make my work environment awkward and uncomfortable.

[apalisoc_9]

Just say no you can't..Just make sure you're ready for all the gay rumours tbh.

I worked at a call centre when I was 17 for a year and half and mostly worked with people around the same age..Chick I usually eat with during break told me how some of the women in the office thought I was gay ...

I was a beta ass video games playing then tbh and didn't have a GF so that made them think i was gay..Plus the fact that declined a party invitation from a chick cause of video games

Maybe older women would understand though..

[Rogue]

Just get yourself another younger and let the old one see/know that you have got a that's no her. Best if you could convince the old that you were in a serious relationship with someone else (tho getting in a serious relationship with a is a horrible thing for a man in his 20s imho, according to the honorable New Yorker/talkshow host Tom Leykis), so she would automatically back down.

[HarlemHeat37]

Just reply to the texts with ty, 1-2 word responses, tbh..everybody knows those annoying, short texts when you're trying to game</3..

At work, don't try to look good for a week or 2, and just be boring when you speak to her IMO..

Don't act like a or tell her the truth, though, just make yourself unappealing..it could take longer if she's persistent and a clinger, which is probably the case since she's a single Hispanic woman in her 30s(probably eager to birth a few kids and get fat, tbh), unfortunately..I wouldn't make it an obvious or mean-spirited rejection, since you have to work with her every day, obviously, so I'd try the subtle, "making yourself boring" approach..

[Huey Freeman]

^Im liking all 3 posts tbh

[Huey Freeman]

Just reply to the texts with ty, 1-2 word responses, tbh..everybody knows those annoying, short texts when you're trying to game</3..

At work, don't try to look good for a week or 2, and just be boring when you speak to her IMO..

Don't act like a or tell her the truth, though, just make yourself unappealing..it could take longer if she's persistent and a clinger, which is probably the case since she's a single Hispanic woman in her 30s(probably eager to birth a few kids and get fat, tbh), unfortunately..I wouldn't make it an obvious or mean-spirited rejection, since you have to work with her every day, obviously, so I'd try the subtle, "making yourself boring" approach..

I actually thought about this, but there are still chicks at the office I do want so I'm hesitant

[Huey Freeman]

Just get yourself another younger and let the old one see/know that you have got a that's no her. Best if you could convince the old that you were in a serious relationship with someone else (tho getting in a serious relationship with a is a horrible thing for a man in his 20s imho, according to the honorable New Yorker/talkshow host Tom Leykis), so she would automatically back down.

Like the idea, this to me will make uncomfortable. Idk

[Avante]

Let her hear you talking on your phone/cell phone to a girl who you obviously have a thing with. That will do it.

Yep, make it up.

[Rogue]

My suggestion wouldn't work for me though. Rogue is an honest person so I'd never deceive anyone into believing that I already had a when I don't have, and will never have. And I don't wanna ruin my reputation as a lifelong proud celibate tbh.

[Wild Cobra]

If you have not dated anyone at the office, just tell her you do not date coworkers.

[Huey Freeman]

Just say no you can't..Just make sure you're ready for all the gay rumours tbh.

I worked at a call centre when I was 17 for a year and half and mostly worked with people around the same age..Chick I usually eat with during break told me how some of the women in the office thought I was gay ...

I was a beta ass video games playing then tbh and didn't have a GF so that made them think i was gay..Plus the fact that declined a party invitation from a chick cause of video games

Maybe older women would understand though..

Not interested in any gay rumors tbh. See this is what I'm afraid of.

[Huey Freeman]

Let her hear you talking on your phone/cell phone to a girl who you obviously have a thing with. That will do it.

Yep, make it up.

Actually sound advice tbh.

[Huey Freeman]

If you have not dated anyone at the office, just tell her you do not date coworkers.

Her perspective I'm afraid this would sound like an excuse. Saying that, this is probably what I'm going to end up going with.

[Rogue]

That's why the best you can do is make people (including the who has a crush on you) believe that you're already with some other in a serious relationship (when you're in fact still single). A lie is a lie but it sounds like the best solution to a situation like this imho, at least you ain't having nothing malicious in your mind. Getting stuck in a serious relationship with a is the worst nightmare for an ambitious young dude imho, but a wouldn't care because they always prioritize their own desires over guys'.

I'd have probably played the same trick in my life but for the fear of ruining my reputation as a celibate, tbh. So instead I chose "Goddess" as a deterrent to those es in our class. I do love our Goddess but not really to such an obsessive extent imho.

[Huey Freeman]

That's why the best you can do is make people (including the who has a crush on you) believe that you're already with some other in a serious relationship (when you're in fact still single). A lie is a lie but it sounds like the best solution to a situation like this imho, at least you ain't having nothing malicious in your mind. Getting stuck in a serious relationship with a is the worst nightmare for an ambitious young dude imho, but a wouldn't care because they always prioritize their own desires over guys'.

I'd have probably played the same trick in my life but for the fear of ruining my reputation as a celibate, tbh. So instead I chose "Goddess" as a deterrent to those es in our class. I do love our Goddess but not really to such an obsessive extent imho.

I feel you, but I already ed up and told this chick I was single. At the time I had no idea this would happen. I think that's is why she started this major push.

[200 miles]

I would ask my fiends this but they are all cruel pieces of so ima ask you guys.

Ok so here is the situation. I gotta a chick at work who is being very persistent in trying to get me to take her out or whatever. This woman is coming at me hard all of a sudden, and I'm honestly not interested. She is not a bad a looking woman tbh. She's a Hispanic chick with a little body on her. She is an older woman in her 30s. Not that age has anything to do with it. I'm in my mid 20s so that's not the issue.

Here is the thing, the woman is the Christian type ya know. Like real religious and . I mean, if she was down with just screwing around or whatever, I would be cool with that, but the fact is she isn't. She has alluded that fact to me numerous times. I wouldn't mind screwing her. Just not getting into a relationship with her. This woman now has my number and is bugging my ass right now as Im typing this thread. This is getting a little annoying. Tomorrow is Valentines Day and I know this chick is going to ask me to take her some where. What you do tbh?

Before giving me advice, please consider that I have to work with women everyday in an office setting. I'm not trying to make my work environment awkward and uncomfortable.

You think that's bad?

I work part-time at a retail outlet and there's this girl I work with who constantly make passes at me. Sometimes I wondered if she was just being really friendly and liked to give me a hard time OR if she was flat out flirting with me, aggressively I might add. I found the answer to that question almost a week ago when she subtly gave me her phone number. I wouldn't mind it so much except for the fact that she looks like she is 16 (maybe she's older) and I'm pushing 30. Mainly I'm just combining the two options of avoidance and making myself unappealing if she does corner me. Then there's also wildcobra's option of a 'no dating coworkers' policy that could be the right course of action.

[200 miles]

I would ask my fiends this but they are all cruel pieces of so ima ask you guys.

Ok so here is the situation. I gotta a chick at work who is being very persistent in trying to get me to take her out or whatever. This woman is coming at me hard all of a sudden, and I'm honestly not interested. She is not a bad a looking woman tbh. She's a Hispanic chick with a little body on her. She is an older woman in her 30s. Not that age has anything to do with it. I'm in my mid 20s so that's not the issue.

Here is the thing, the woman is the Christian type ya know. Like real religious and . I mean, if she was down with just screwing around or whatever, I would be cool with that, but the fact is she isn't. She has alluded that fact to me numerous times. I wouldn't mind screwing her. Just not getting into a relationship with her. This woman now has my number and is bugging my ass right now as Im typing this thread. This is getting a little annoying. Tomorrow is Valentines Day and I know this chick is going to ask me to take her some where. What you do tbh?

Before giving me advice, please consider that I have to work with women everyday in an office setting. I'm not trying to make my work environment awkward and uncomfortable.

You think that's bad?

I work part-time at a retail outlet and there's this girl I work with who constantly make passes at me. Sometimes I wondered if she was just being really friendly and liked to give me a hard time OR if she was flat out flirting with me, aggressively I might add. I found the answer to that question almost a week ago when she subtly gave me her phone number. I wouldn't mind it so much except for the fact that she looks like she is 16 (maybe she's older) and I'm pushing 30. Mainly I'm just combining the two options of avoidance and making myself unappealing if she does corner me. Then there's also wildcobra's option of a 'no dating coworkers' policy that could be the right course of action.

[Rogue]

I feel you, but I already ed up and told this chick I was single. At the time I had no idea this would happen. I think that's is why she started this major push.

Then the only way available now to get out of this mess is that you join our fan club and become a proud fan of Goddess. Goddess is a New Yorker so you have all reasons/rights to love her imho Too bad our president (Shadowflames) ain't online at the moment otherwise he would grant you a membership right away. Just set Goddess as a standard and all the es would back off because they know they'd never get even close to that standard by any means.

[Huey Freeman]

You think that's bad?

I work part-time at a retail outlet and there's this girl I work with who constantly make passes at me. Sometimes I wondered if she was just being really friendly and liked to give me a hard time OR if she was flat out flirting with me, aggressively I might add. I found the answer to that question almost a week ago when she subtly gave me her phone number. I wouldn't mind it so much except for the fact that she looks like she is 16 (maybe she's older) and I'm pushing 30. Mainly I'm just combining the two options of avoidance and making myself unappealing if she does corner me. Then there's also wildcobra's option of a 'no dating coworkers' policy that could be the right course of action.

I agree

[Huey Freeman]

Then the only way available now to get out of this mess is that you join our fan club and become a proud fan of Goddess. Goddess is a New Yorker so you have all reasons/rights to love her imho Too bad our president (Shadowflames) ain't online at the moment otherwise he would grant you a membership right away. Just set Goddess as a standard and all the es would back off because they know they'd never get even close to that standard by any means.

To be honest, I would screw the living of Scarlett Johansson, makeup or no makeup. but idk if I can put on the pedestal you do lol, but I do understand your infatuation with with woman.

[TSA]

The fact that she told you she isn't down to means that she is down to . ing amateur hour here.

[RD2191]

The fact that she told you she isn't down to means that she is down to . ing amateur hour here.

[cute_spursfan]

Tell her u not wit it. Stop being weak

[The Reckoning]

hit it and quit it....duh

[FkLA]

Yeah, I'd probably her for a while. Even lead her on if it means you keep getting pussy. Then at some point of your choosing just let her know you'd rather just be friends.

If she's coming onto you that hard she's not that innocent tbh.