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is this really a question?
I rarely if ever expect a serious conversation on this forum, but I'm curious as to what some of you think.
As I've gotten older, I look at all my friends and family around me and they are getting engaged or married at 28-31 years old. Some of them already had their first kid by 30 and they always ask me when I plan on getting married. Personally speaking, I have had 5 ex's in my life, and I'm pretty much over it. As I'm getting older, and I've invested in my career and been fortunate to save up for a nice place, I see getting pretty attractive girls is way easier than what it was at 20-23.
I am not sure anymore if I think getting married is for me, I think I kind of like casually dating around. However, I'm always told by my beta friends wives that one day Ill 'regret' not being tied down and having kids.
Personally speaking, something about marriage seems so beta to me. Every ing guy I know is OWNED by their wife or a complete cheating prick. I think on an average, when you marry your wife eventually gets too comfy and has kids and loses interest in you. Thus leading to the guy cheating and ultimately the reason why divorce rates are triple what they once were.
Anyway, what you guys think is better? Marriage with kids and miserable or alone and dating women Bill Maher style?
is this really a question?
What does your brain (not heart) and your say? If these two ever come to a consensus you can be sure as well damned that it is the best decision you could possibily ever make.
Absolutely, according to every guy I know 'its time to grow up and stop ing around' I dont understand when it became time to stop?
being single forever and never banging no at all is my choice, tbh.
my male cousins both got married when they were about my current age and they both have kids now, so my parents (mom in particular, dad doesn't seem to even give a about my personal life anymore tbh) urge me to start dating es and they hope I'll get married before the age of 30, but no... I'm a goddamn celibate, that's my religion and what I'm genuinely proud of.
is it because they already have grandchildren and ur the fail one in the family?
1. Fornicate with females
2. Acquire currency
3. Rinse and repeat
What could possibly go wrong?
Supposedly one day you wake up in your mid 40's and you feel you 'missed out' on the true purpose of life. Honestly, I do NOT want kids and I'm ok with not marrying. But I can see myself regretting not being with 1 chick after the age of 39. It's just so against a guys nature to be with 1 girl and I dont want to deny myself that.
It's funny, because when I hang out with my friends and their wives are around they always give me that 'when the do u plan on marrying someone' talk. It's amazing because I know deep down inside they want my .
you forgot about our one child policy?
I tell my friends this all the time. Personally I dont want to settle down. I enjoy being able to sleep with different chicks, say bye (maybe ongoing fwbs thing) I dont want any kids, I like to be alone sometimes not bothered, not wasting extra money on holidays, etc
but who knows, maybe ill meet some chick that will blow me away(no pun intended) and change my mind.
Enjoy the single life while you can. Settle down when you find the woman that approves of everything you do or like.
new age feminism ensures that women are not content with being with one man. they will steal your soul and blame you for their self-induced depression. don't do it unless you're marrying into wealth.
as much as i personally want a nice girl to settle down with, i'm also aware that 99.99999% of relationships (long or short) have issues that are better off not dealing with especially if you don't want to have kids. who knows...i might be proven wrong, but ultimately women will use you to have and support their kids while they're pursuing their own endeavors. then when the kids are out of the house and you're in your 40s, she'll have a midlife crisis, blame all of her unhappiness on you and kick your ass to the curb.
then you'll think back and wonder where your life went and why you should have invested so much of yourself into one person who ultimately will hate your ass.
Don't get married before 30.
k so when ur in your late 30's/40's and ur not exactly what single chicks are going after, wtf are u gna do the rest of your life? live alone? how often to single guys in their 50's bang? and if at that point you want to settle down with a woman ur just gna end up with leftovers/sloppy seconds, es that couldn't find a dude to commit, and probably for good reason
Well there's a coin flip chance that'll still happen to the married dude in his 20s.
Unless you're socially awkward, I've found it impossible for human beings to remain monogamous. I've tried like , but the cons outweigh the pros by a lot. You only get one chance at life, and to spend that time ing only one pussy while simultaneously putting your dreams on the back-burner is my definition of tragedy. I always said my 20's would be mine and I wouldn't marry till my 30s. Now I'm in my 30's and I feel like I'm in my prime...still look and feel great, and am becoming more successful year after year. I'll wait till my 40's and marry a 27-28 y/o nurse (it's my destiny to only date nurses, unfortunately...)
Unless you're Clooney or have Clooney-like money, once you've reached a certain age, banging chicks becomes more work than worth. I don't know where I stand in this equation because I've been able to achieve both as I'm sure many have on this esteemed board, so sometimes it strikes a chord that I would like to see if the married life is worth my time. I already have 6 kids so that takes care of that variable...just kidding about the 6 children.
I just turned 29 and am getting married this October. I'm ed. Thanks Obama!
Bang as many as you can until you find that one who changes the game. Enjoy life.
How old is she?
but Clooney does it
Seriously who wants to be that creepy, old ass guy at bars or strip clubs trying to pick up women? Look at tlong tbh.
They have places for singles that are older, such as Steak Houses
Seriously.
Not being married =/= single. There are times when it's nice to have a steady gf, someone to come to, etc...but getting married young in this day and age tells me you're a stupid individial with low income and limited social/sexual options. It doesn't necessarily make it so, but that's what it looks like.
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