houston father shoots and kills teenager who was laying pipe to his daughter | tragic

[Koolaid_Man]

How do you handle your kids, Kool? I mean your children, not the underage girls you try to pick up.

when I jerk off before work and flush them down the toilet, or when I trap them in a condom, or when I release them in someone's mouth?

[mrsmaalox]

This thread also goes to show that just because you have an opinion, it doesn't necessarily mean you know what you are talking about.

[Koolaid_Man]

She's 14 fam, I think being strict on the cellphone is fine. I would ease up on the restrictions around 15 or 16.

restrictions are fine but this dude is taking it too far....might as well get a ball and chains... is gonna backfire and they're gonna be looking crazy in the face

[Relevancy]

you're a gotdam fool just like I suspected....kid gonna blow your brains out or have someone do it for him you try to physically intimidate him...it's 2014 dude not 1950...she's already ed him several times...you and your wife are being played for saps..sure you're daughter is not rebellious as you state but when them teens start smelling on themselves in the bathroom the scent of her own female sex organ it makes them do crazy things...she's ing brah get over it...

funny part is he'll call you dumb, blah blah blah. But what I don't get is, he makes it sound like his this outstanding father, that raised his daughter with strong moral values, and that his daughter is this perfect human being, yet she's interested in an 18 year old, and she's 14, if she's intelligent enough, she'll know its illegal in most states to date an 18 year old when you yourself are a minor.

But she doesn't see that, you know why? Because she has feelings for this guy, he can tell her blah blah what your doing is wrong, his 18 and you're 14, but at the end of the day, she'll be the one with the choice, and if I'm right she's in High School right now, so she's old enough to know what shes doing. But hey you can continue to play on the I'm the perfect dad role.

[FkLA]

Actually feel bad for bene. The way he's handling it is clearly crazy (to anyone other than him) but the thing is I'd probably handle it the same way, maybe even crazier. Daughters suck tbh.

[Koolaid_Man]

This thread also goes to show that just because you have an opinion, it doesn't necessarily mean you know what you are talking about.

you're a good woman and always have been...god bless

[I. Hustle]

when I jerk off before work and flush them down the toilet, or when I trap them in a condom, or when I release them in someone's mouth?

So you don't have kids? How is it that you are so knowledgeable? Oh I know! You have a degree in adolescent psychology don't you?

[Koolaid_Man]

funny part is he'll call you dumb, blah blah blah. But what I don't get is, he makes it sound like his this outstanding father, that raised his daughter with strong moral values, and that his daughter is this perfect human being, yet she's interested in an 18 year old, and she's 14, if she's intelligent enough, she'll know its illegal in most states to date an 18 year old when you yourself are a minor.

But she doesn't see that, you know why? Because she has feelings for this guy, he can tell her blah blah what your doing is wrong, his 18 and you're 14, but at the end of the day, she'll be the one with the choice, and if I'm right she's in High School right now, so she's old enough to know what shes doing. But hey you can continue to play on the I'm the perfect dad role.

I may be crass in my delivery but he's one dumb ..I saw this with my friends in high school and I can look back in retrospect and judge it appropriately...you're spot on..if he's been raising her right while at the same time ruling with an Iron fist then why the interest in a 18 yr old. Dude can't see the forest for the trees (I think that's how they say it) he's gonna lose this battle...she's gonna end up preggers of he doesn't change his tactics

[Koolaid_Man]

So you don't have kids? How is it that you are so knowledgeable? Oh I know! You have a degree in adolescent psychology don't you?

I have extended family, was teen myself, had many friends as teen that I learned the perils from...also have neighbors with underage daughters now and watch these "high society" failures in real time

[I. Hustle]

The funniest question that I have read on here is "Why is a 14 year old into an 18 year old if she's so smart?" If you knew anything about girls in H.S. it's that they ALL think they are more mature than all boys their age. Of course a young girl is going to go for the older boy because she thinks she is mature and if he is older then he MUST be more mature than boys her age. This is almost universal. If you think it's weird for a girl that age to be into a kid that's a couple years older then you never got with any chicks in H.S.

[I. Hustle]

I have extended family, was teen myself, had many friends as teen that I learned the perils from...also have neighbors with underage daughters now and watch these "high society" failures in real time

So you are looking at it from a teen's perspective? I see how that makes sense. Especially since teens think that they are always right and have the world figured out at that age. Makes sense.

To bad none of us were ever teens

[Koolaid_Man]

The funniest question that I have read on here is "Why is a 14 year old into an 18 year old if she's so smart?" If you knew anything about girls in H.S. it's that they ALL think they are more mature than all boys their age. Of course a young girl is going to go for the older boy because she thinks she is mature and if he is older then he MUST be more mature than boys her age. This is almost universal. If you think it's weird for a girl that age to be into a kid that's a couple years older then you never got with any chicks in H.S.

Hey numnuts....it's a rhetorical question for Bene to factor (no pun)....of course we know the answer but he's the one ruling his kid with an Iron fist and a Nazi wife as he calls her...and yet she still want's the 18 yr old...this is a classic I mean CLASSIC case of dad setting himself up for an EPIC failure and then meltdown..

I'm not trying to be mean it's just that I'm surprised he's raising her this way..it's very antiquated

[Relevancy]

This thread also goes to show that just because you have an opinion, it doesn't necessarily mean you know what you are talking about.

Sorry but that story you mentioned made me chuckle, and you did all of that just because he was only two years apart from her?

[Koolaid_Man]

So you are looking at it from a teen's perspective? I see how that makes sense. Especially since teens think that they are always right and have the world figured out at that age. Makes sense.

To bad none of us were ever teens

all if my posts are spot on in this thread...ask Bene how it worked out for him in 6 months to a yr and if he's honest he'll break down in tears

[I. Hustle]

Hey numnuts....it's a rhetorical question for Bene to factor (no pun)....of course we know the answer but he's the one ruling his kid with an Iron fist and a Nazi wife as he calls her...and yet she still want's the 18 yr old...this is a classic I mean CLASSIC case of dad setting himself up for an EPIC failure and then meltdown..

I'm not trying to be mean it's just that I'm surprised he's raising her this way..it's very antiquated

I was talking about this guy

funny part is he'll call you dumb, blah blah blah. But what I don't get is, he makes it sound like his this outstanding father, that raised his daughter with strong moral values, and that his daughter is this perfect human being, yet she's interested in an 18 year old, and she's 14, if she's intelligent enough, she'll know its illegal in most states to date an 18 year old when you yourself are a minor.

But she doesn't see that, you know why? Because she has feelings for this guy, he can tell her blah blah what your doing is wrong, his 18 and you're 14, but at the end of the day, she'll be the one with the choice, and if I'm right she's in High School right now, so she's old enough to know what shes doing. But hey you can continue to play on the I'm the perfect dad role.

But you are completely right. I left out the fact that you are a moron too.

[I. Hustle]

all if my posts are spot on in this thread...ask Bene how it worked out for him in 6 months to a yr and if he's honest he'll break down in tears

Spot on... from a teen's perspective.

Get back with me in 6 months to a year and let me know if you have gotten any yet and if you're honest... you'll break down in tears. Probably either way.

[Relevancy]

The funniest question that I have read on here is "Why is a 14 year old into an 18 year old if she's so smart?" If you knew anything about girls in H.S. it's that they ALL think they are more mature than all boys their age. Of course a young girl is going to go for the older boy because she thinks she is mature and if he is older then he MUST be more mature than boys her age. This is almost universal. If you think it's weird for a girl that age to be into a kid that's a couple years older then you never got with any chicks in H.S.

Lets just leave it like this, if she wants to get ed down she will, by anyone, so Bene's attempt saving her poor daughter who will make the final decision is comical

to top it all off he writes as if his this outstanding ing human being, hey Bene, you tell her the consequences, and if she listens and respects you, you don't have to worry about a single thing

[Koolaid_Man]

I may be a moron...who knows....but I doubt I'm wrong on this issue...I've even heard of girls accusing their dads of molestation because they were mad the dad kept them away from their boyfriends...current case in point is that crazy teen in NJ (Rachel Canning) who didn't want to live by her parents rules so moved out and is now suing her parents to force them to pay for her college...now she's claiming her dad was inappropriate with her...Bene gonna learn the hard way

[Koolaid_Man]

Spot on... from a teen's perspective.

Get back with me in 6 months to a year and let me know if you have gotten any yet and if you're honest... you'll break down in tears. Probably either way.

get over yourself already you're so immature

[mrsmaalox]

Sorry but that story you mentioned made me chuckle, and you did all of that just because he was only two years apart from her?

No I did that because from the time I met him I didn't get a good feeling about him; I'd have done the same thing if he was her age or younger if I wasn't comfortable with it. I gave him the chance to prove himself to us by abiding by these initial rules but he chose to go on his way. Fine.

[Relevancy]

I may be crass in my delivery but he's one dumb ..I saw this with my friends in high school and I can look back in retrospect and judge it appropriately...you're spot on..if he's been raising her right while at the same time ruling with an Iron fist then why the interest in a 18 yr old. Dude can't see the forest for the trees (I think that's how they say it) he's gonna lose this battle...she's gonna end up preggers of he doesn't change his tactics

truth bombs

[benefactor]

This thread also goes to show that just because you have an opinion, it doesn't necessarily mean you know what you are talking about.

ST in a nuts , tbh.

[I. Hustle]

Lets just leave it like this, if she wants to get ed down she will, by anyone, so Bene's attempt saving her poor daughter who will make the final decision is comical

to top it all off he writes as if his this outstanding ing human being, hey Bene, you tell her the consequences, and if she listens and respects you, you don't have to worry about a single thing

Here's the thing. As an actual father I might not go about it the same was as Bene did. I am bringing up my kids to be honest with me and have let them tell me whatever it is that they are feeling without giving them grief over it. Will they always be that way with me? Probably not. But I am still letting them know that I am the parent without beating them down with it. When the times comes for them to date I will be honest with them about my expectations and I will allow some things without giving too much leeway.
I grew up with just my brother and I. I was the one beat down with rules and curfews while my brother was given free range. Most people that know the both of us don't understand how we are brothers because we are so different. I attribute it to how we were both raised. The funny thing is, if it would have been backwards it would have worked better. I was always into rules and doing well in school in order to stay on the team so I would essentially discipline myself. My brother on the other hand is a bit of a wild child and could have used some rules that were set for me.

[Koolaid_Man]

ST in a nuts , tbh.

your retorts won't be so simple when you're trying to factor diapers and Similac into your household budget

[Koolaid_Man]

Here's the thing. As an actual father I might not go about it the same was as Bene did. I am bringing up my kids to be honest with me and have let them tell me whatever it is that they are feeling without giving them grief over it. Will they always be that way with me? Probably not. But I am still letting them know that I am the parent without beating them down with it. When the times comes for them to date I will be honest with them about my expectations and I will allow some things without giving too much leeway.
I grew up with just my brother and I. I was the one beat down with rules and curfews while my brother was given free range. Most people that know the both of us don't understand how we are brothers because we are so different. I attribute it to how we were both raised. The funny thing is, if it would have been backwards it would have worked better. I was always into rules and doing well in school in order to stay on the team so I would essentially discipline myself. My brother on the other hand is a bit of a wild child and could have used some rules that were set for me.

By telling your story all you did was agree with me...it's ok though I'm the evil guy here so most of you can't be seen agreeing with me publicly..I'm used to it...peer pressure can be a mutha er