I don't think you understand the meaning of the word "strawman". The "mere red flag" has to have a trip point, so what's the magic number? Is it that the Spurs settled for long range bricks by Diaw and a couple others, or the fact that Tim could not hold on to the ball in the paint, or was it that Tony just didn't really attack the rim at all?
There's no strawman here. Your complaint is folly enough. If the Spurs didn't play like a girls' JV, we wouldn't even be having this discussion. Letting the Thunder get 4 or 5 offensive rebounds on some shots, including on missed free throws, that's just ty basketball. Don't try to play it off like there's a ref conspiracy afoot.