why do you in care about what these co-workers think ? should work your self confidence tbh
Serious question?
I'm not in my best financial and career situation at 23 years old, but my date ( soon to be new GF i guess) is hanging out with late 20's and 30's some year old colleagues..I met them once last week in a get together family event for her workplace and I just wanted to punch every one of them...
"oh so you're still in school? gotta cacthup with Ashley"
i tried small talking with one of the ladies there just to make it look like I'm trying to put in effort to mingle with her co-workers...and fuxking thinks she's a freaking millionaire with her " nah, I don't like small talking with nobodys y at ude"
Maybe I'm just frustrated with my situation...but there's no reason to act like I'm a fuxking nobody just because I'm in school or some ..And worse of all they all act nice and cool when she's around with me....
I might as well quit school and pursue a business if I ever have to deal with people like these...
why do you in care about what these co-workers think ? should work your self confidence tbh
Agree with Brazil; no chick finds your pity party attractive.
can't relate. no one has ever been "too good" for me
See the Joe Biden instructional video on how to be more Alpha if you have any questions.
Don't have trouble with Girls tbh..
My point being is that my new girl expects me to hang out with these colleague of her and they are pretty much her only social circle...
having to deal with women with wrinkly pussies...![]()
Bro, I grew up poor. I dated the richest girls in school. Daughters of millionaires. If you got it you got it.
Tell her you don't hang out with bags tbh.
Girl is nowhere rich..
She just has an OK job after graduation..the same goes with her colleagues..
LMAOL some there is driving an Audi and probably only makes 65k at most...![]()
aware? Aware
Edit: thought this was a copypasta![]()
Last edited by 313; 02-19-2015 at 02:47 PM.
Tell her that her friends are heads and you have no interest in getting to know them more. Why does your girl want you to be friends with her coworkers anyway?
I think you should start acting like a man, then everything else would fall into place.
If you're gonna make the effort my two cents is this:
If those people want to talk about their careers, then ask them to talk about their careers even more and make it seem like you're really interested, even if you're not.
Network.
Just tell them you are a diehard Kawhi fan and one day you will be his agent according to your sources. That should win them over.
OP, you just have to suck it up, tbh..
Virtually every girl cares about her friends/co-workers/family liking her boyfriend and vice-versa, although the former is much more important..social status is essential in every form of dating, even if it's a serious girlfriend that you already have on lock..
I've met a lot of my girl's new co-workers this year, it's a field full of arrogant people, but I just ignore their social flaws and fake interest, tbh, you have no choice..
Tbh the only way to get over that jealous feeling is to become the guy you're worried about. Worked wonders for myself.
You need to work on your self confidence. People can smell out your fear and insecurity. Try feigning interest in these people. Find a common ground.
That way when they think of you they don't remember you as Ashley's loser bf but the guy with similar tastes and interests as them. They'll like you.
Also make people laugh. People like the lols, tbh.
Lol taking it personally that you indeed, DO have to catch up in education to your girlfriend. You shouldve countered with an interesting skill youve been honing in the meantime instead of just being another face in the school crowd... you DO have one, dont you?..
Ask lebomb for advice on how to win them over, he's a pro at kissing ass I hear.
should've told them he has 5,643 posts here on spurstalk.
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