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It's a good thing, I'm sure. Don't be so hard on yourself.I do
And I don't know if its a good or bad thing.. I'll find out soon enough!
I do
And I don't know if its a good or bad thing.. I'll find out soon enough!
I'm hoping there is a happy ending in it for ya.
It's a good thing, I'm sure. Don't be so hard on yourself.I do
And I don't know if its a good or bad thing.. I'll find out soon enough!
True, not like you had any balls to begin withFirst, you had to give me back my balls, then you kicked them.
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Online? Don't tell me It's a fool from this forum?I only have flirted.. but I'm getting mixed signals.. so hopefully some things can clear up when I talk to the guy online today... can't wait
Listen to Keda, the man knows of what he speaks! I read in another thread something someone posted similar to this. I unfortunately broke up with my first ex over the phone, it wasn't planned it just kinda ended that way, and my last ex broke up with me over the phone. It totally sucks! I'm glad you did it the right way.
Enjoy yourself while you're young. That's the frame of mind I've been taking lately. There's still a lot of things I want to do before settling down, and I'd like to get the experience of them as a single woman. Have yourself some fun!
ThanksListen to Keda, the man knows of what he speaks! I read in another thread something someone posted similar to this. I unfortunately broke up with my first ex over the phone, it wasn't planned it just kinda ended that way, and my last ex broke up with me over the phone. It totally sucks! I'm glad you did it the right way.
Enjoy yourself while you're young. That's the frame of mind I've been taking lately. There's still a lot of things I want to do before settling down, and I'd like to get the experience of them as a single woman. Have yourself some fun!
You know what llmads? You did the right thing...Cheating is a rocky guilt ridden road and it doesn't lead anyone, on any side, anywhere good. The guy might get mad or upset if you dump him but at least he'll respect you for being honest..you might even end up being friends.
Besides...it's not like you owe the guy your life or anything. And you'll probably have a lot more fun with the new guy since you have a clear conscience and aren't seeing that other guy anymore.
If you had cheated he probably would have been able to tell anyway, and if you want out of the relationship he can probably tell anyway, because if you have any kind of a conscience you'd have probably felt really guilty and awkward or something...drawing that kind of crap out for months on end is way worse than just making a clean break and it pretty much leaves both people with a bunch of hard feelings....that's kind of a ed up ending for two people that were once really close...happens all the time though.
for being honest and not cheating, not being in love with someone doesn't make you a bad person.
haha.. what about blow jobs?Is this cheating?
No your not cheating unless you him...
That's all I can say
Depends o what the meaning of IS is
"...it's not you, it's me..." a classic line....
"...it's not you, it's me..." a classic line....
The book of George Costanza...not that there is anything wrong with that
You gave him the typical Seinfeldian "it's not because of you, it's me" and he bought it?? Classic.
Anyways, Good luck. Stay single for a while and work out your options.
Being single sounds so good right now.
Flirting is not, in any way, cheating. If you are not happy, you should break it off with your boyfriend and give yourself some time to sort out your feelings before moving on to anyone else...or back to him. Make sure how you feel before you do anything else. Any kind of involvement can influence your feelings and actions and leave you more confused, insecure, and uncertain. Don't commit to anyone for anything until you are sure how you feel. I've been on both sides of this, and it's the kindest thing. No one likes to be strung along when there is no hope; no one wants to be cut loose and reeled back in over and over, either. It's just not fair. To either party.Now if i flirt back, is that cheating? my friend seems to think so..so confused
what do you guys think?
I wish you well. You deserve to be happy.
Edit: Sorry, guess I should have read the whole thread before I responded. This doesn't make much sense now.
I think it's semantics if you feel this is cheating or not. It sounds like you don't want to be with the guy you've been with for six years. Pity sex is bad enough, but staying with someone out of pity? As hurt as the guy will be, I'd be more hurt if I found out my girlfriend was with me only because she couldn't bear to hurt me. You'll end up resenting guy number one, and that'll ruin the relationship with more hurt for you.I've been with a guy for 6 years, he's been my only boyfriend... recently, i dont feel the same way he feels for me, so i really wanna break up with him.. i've done it but i ended up feeling sooo bad that i took him back.. and he thinks things are good...
Now a new guy comes along... a completely different one from this guy... he's really great and he flirts on and off...
Now if i flirt back, is that cheating? my friend seems to think so.. and he tells me to break up with my bf, and then i can do whatever i want... i really have no idea what to do.. i've been with this guy for soooo long that he's grown into my system... i know he's gonna be crushed... and if i do break up with him, do i tell him that i like another guy?
what do you guys think?
Or...
You'll look for those feelings you miss elsewhere, and do something that is considered cheating. Your best option is to rip the band-aid off.
dump the loser. but remember what goes around comes around. in other words the same exact thing might happen to you later
You should hang on to the old bf if only for the sex. Who knows if the new guy will "put out" anyway? Everybody knows that women can't go very long with "getting some."
LOL
I dont have to have sex with anyone! No new guy or old guy!
I broke up with my boyfriend. He's not asking me to take him back or any like that. I told him I want to be alone and hopefully he'll understand why.
As for the new guy, I really think he's nice and stuff... and even if nothing happens, I really don't give a crap.. I'm just happy for the moment
That's karma, and I can deal with it. I know if I'm making a mistake, I'll regret it, but right now, I don't. And that's good enough for me.
Just the other guy, videotape the deed, and mail it to your bf's parents. He'll get the point.
Good for you - I'm glad everything is working out.LOL
I dont have to have sex with anyone! No new guy or old guy!
I broke up with my boyfriend. He's not asking me to take him back or any like that. I told him I want to be alone and hopefully he'll understand why.
As for the new guy, I really think he's nice and stuff... and even if nothing happens, I really don't give a crap.. I'm just happy for the moment
Wow, turns out that guy #2 has a girlfriend... I don't know whether to be happy or sad because this guy's flirted with me... I feel so fricking confused right now... Did he ever like me or not?
We spoke last night and he's like just tell me, do you like me or not, and I told him I do... Straight and simple.. He apologized so many damn times saying I'm really sorry for hurting you etc... His other girl's back in India so he's like I could be two timing you but I really dont want to.. I really respect the fact that he was honest about it.
However, I did this crush calculator thingy, where they fill in the name of their crush, and the info comes back to me.. And surprisingly, he put my damn name... That's why I'm sooo ing confused right now...
Kick this #2 out of your head RIGHT NOW!! You'd find a better person.
a guy can never have too many sanchas... you will either always will be his sancha or if you are with him...he will have other sanchas....
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