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Break up with the first guy first. Its not your problem if the guy can't take it, you shouldn't be with someone simply because you feel sorry for them.
I've been with a guy for 6 years, he's been my only boyfriend... recently, i dont feel the same way he feels for me, so i really wanna break up with him.. i've done it but i ended up feeling sooo bad that i took him back.. and he thinks things are good...
Now a new guy comes along... a completely different one from this guy... he's really great and he flirts on and off...
Now if i flirt back, is that cheating? my friend seems to think so.. and he tells me to break up with my bf, and then i can do whatever i want... i really have no idea what to do.. i've been with this guy for soooo long that he's grown into my system... i know he's gonna be crushed... and if i do break up with him, do i tell him that i like another guy?
so confused
what do you guys think?
Break up with the first guy first. Its not your problem if the guy can't take it, you shouldn't be with someone simply because you feel sorry for them.
^ Exactly... And I'm Indian.. for some reason, it's always stricter being Indian.. my parents dont know I still have a bf.. when they found out, they flipped on me...
Life's a !
If you have doubts as to whether or not it's cheating, then for you it probably is.
the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence...
If he asks for a name, tell him Tony Parker.
He will understant.
If the 6 year deal feels like it isn't going anywhere, just tell the guy you want a break. That way you can pursue the second guy with a clear conscience.
If you hook up with guy #2 while you're still with guy #1 it is essentially over with the first guy anyway at that point.
You had to get your so called little GF to open up a thread about me flirting with you...I was just being nice to your wimpy ass.
There is only one guy I really like to flirt with on this forum... and It's all good!
Is this cheating?
No your not cheating unless you him...
That's all I can say
You should end this relationship before pursuing any relationship with anyone else. Besides being the right thing to do, it will give you the opportunity to make sure you are really interested in someone for who they are and not just because of the excitement of the fact that it is hidden & forbidden. But be fair to your boyfriend and if you end it, then end it for good this time. Don't keep stringing him along.
Bill Clinton said it was not sex so it's not sex!
That's what I'm talking about...
Life is too short to be wasting it with someone you no longer feel anything but sorry for...
Let him go and move on. Just don't try to date someone from the Troll forum or you will end up stuck like Hooters Girl did last night on her date with the so called Messican
She controls your wimpy ass... What a shame^you should have figured out that my little gf knows all my passwords
My husband also posts here and I don't need to know all of his ...
lilmads, IMO you are on the road to cheating, so it's best to get out now. Yes, he'll be hurt if you break up with him, but it's better than all the drama that will happen if you actually cheat.
And just so you know, you might not even really like guy #2. He might just look good because you aren't happy with your current man. So, get out of the first relationship and then see if you are still interested.
Good luck.
Is this cheating?
No your not cheating unless you him...
That's all I can say
Plus, lilmads aren't you 16-17 years old?? When'd you start dating this guy...at age 11?
I'd dump that first guy also. He needs to understand that life is filled with disapointments and you're going to get hurt every now and then. And you need to stop feeling guilty...what's worse, breaking up with him or staying with him out of pity? How would you feel if someone stayed with you out of guilt?
Um, not that I watch his show or anything.....
Um, not that I watch his show or anything.....
lilmads.
I have to agree with what every poster has said .. (except Vashner & Chooper
1st issue is that you need to break up with guy #1 weatehr or not you feel interested in someone else. I knwo that at this point your relationship with him is a familiar habit. And everyone likes the familiar - it's easy. But your not happy adn you don;t feel the same about him. So it's not fair to either of you to continue.
2nd. Just as Jekka said - if you are even questioning it , then for you and your consionce it;s cheating. stop & desist until lyou are free of guy#1. then take a 2nd look at guy #2 before you proceed.
Depends on what IS is...
Listen to the ladies. Lil. They speak true.
I'll say a prayer for you.
I agree with Angel...(just could nt resist the IS thingy
I always knew you were brilliant.
I always knew you were brilliant.
I think I will have a GUINNESS!!!
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