Amateur: I Have To Keep Reminding Myself.....

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On top of that he's claiming she called him a niqqer.

There is no need to even consider that, ill. It's a moot point at the video default. He was aggressive moving in...she was aggressive because she'd just been aggressive moving in. That's all it took. Less than a minute later their lives are changed forever. Whatever you put in there (your head) stays in there. Now? It's in there. Over a gd spot at a bar. [Alcohol] consumption has ruined more lives in this country than we can even imagine. Incalculable. Boundless.

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Of course, he's jockeying for position at the crowded bar. That alone raises a person's bp and puts that person on the offensive. Nobody likes doing that. I won't do it because I hate the feeling. Christ, even a half empty bar is a no-no for me. "They won't see me. They'll see me and ignore me. Do I pay now, or, later? Will they really pour Black Velvet, or, some other and call it that? If they do that will I call them on it, or, pretend like it's Black Velvet and then take it out on Girl later at the house? Can I order food from the bar, or, will they get mad?" You know, Inf, on & on.

That aside---him grabbing onto the bar to gain a hold isn't grounds for her to raise her fist at him. Be gracious when it's needed the most and when it's most difficult. That is the true calling of a gentlemen, or, lady. She crapped out first. You can't raise your fish to someone and expect that someone just to gamble you won't throw it. Their physical health is at imminent harm at that point.

& sure, if a female friend, wife, or sister were in that situation I'd respond in kind, but, only after I tried to diffuse the situation in a calm manner empathizing with both parties. He wasn't wrong. He just walked into a situation that fell apart swiftly. He was ed either way it turned out. Just ed. Now his life is topsy turvy. His only solace is he had no other choice at the point where he swung on her. None. I feel bad for him, right now. I sympathize for him. She's a for doing that, for causing all this misery, tumult and loss. Selfish human being.

Him grabbing her arm escalated the situation. That was the first physical action. A women raising her arm does not give you the right to grab her.

Let's be honest, those 'Hip Hop bars' are the definition of bottom of the barrel. It's obvious Tallahassee continues to learn the hard way that black males & white females don't mix. This might be the un-doing of what Jimbo Fisher created.

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I believe it.

Does it even matter when he acted like an N-word right after? Guy basically justified why the N-word exists

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Him grabbing her arm escalated the situation. That was the first physical action. A women raising her arm does not give you the right to grab her.

Let's be honest, those 'Hip Hop bars' are the definition of bottom of the barrel. It's obvious Tallahassee continues to learn the hard way that black males & white females don't mix. This might be the un-doing of what Jimbo Fisher created.

Coulda been anywhere, alcohol is a demon, a terrible thing and has brought catastrophe to this country. Their lobby like the tobacco lobby is a powerful one, backed by our gov't because the $ it draws from the populace can't be lost, can't be replaced so we sell our souls.