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X2.......... you fugged up by gettin close to a raggedy biaaaatch.
You know, it's worth something saying that if you are not angry enough with your fiancee that her just handing you a quote and you paying half without some going down hard, well... maybe it's best it never happened at all, eh?
X2.......... you fugged up by gettin close to a raggedy biaaaatch.
What is she gonna do about it if he doesn't pay?
Damn benefactor............you too? Ive been married a year. This better last forever. (In a keith sweat beggin ass voice)man...not again.
Just s man. It's much easier than being married. That's what I'm about to go back to when my divorce is final.
Judge Judy
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Pretty much that
The time for niceties is over. She's no longer your friend. Reference all the money you lost due to her thoughtless decision-making. If she wants to take it to small claims court, let her.
Can she prove you did it? If not then tell her to charge it to the game
Man i dodged a bullet looking back on my last relationship... i'd hate to have gone through all that bs you're dealing with.
There was no police report filed, it is basically my word against hers. The only thing she has tangible is a text message in response to her saying she wants to split the repairs from me saying "Let me know once you have an estimate so we can discuss further." That's not me agreeing or disagreeing to pay half, or acknowledging culpability.
I think I do owe her something for what happened, but there's also a certain point where if the repairs are too expensive she's not going to recoup what she puts into it, i.e if it costs $3k to fix but the value of the car only increases by $1k. I also never would've driven the car if I had known she essentially removed the insurance off the vehicle.
I looked up her vehicle and fed the relevant information into Kelly Blue Book. There's a $1500 spread between what it's worth in fair condition vs good. Her offering to split the repairs in my mind is acknowledgement she is half responsible for what happened. I am going to wait for the estimate and then offer her $750 or half of the repairs, whichever is less.
Oh, I'm very angry, given the spot that she put me in by encouraging me to move in and then immediately asking me to move out, the money I had to spend refurnishing my apartment, and at best I'll only be able to recoup half of what I owe on the ring, I would prefer her to take her lumps on the car and leave me alone...but she could probably win full cost of car repairs plus her court costs in small claims court. I'm just at this point trying to save myself the most money and limit the financial fallout.
That sounds like it would have been a caftatstrophe
Did she keep the ring
No, she gave it back. But there's a gap between what I paid for it and what it is worth after speaking to a diamond expert. Not a surprise, that's how the jewelers make their money, by marking up what they get at wholesale cost.
Last edited by Findog; 03-29-2016 at 04:34 PM.
K, sounds like you're both out of luck.
Not sure why you can't just call it a wash. Do you really want her to hand you cash while you write her a check?
I work with a lawyer. Going to talk to her tomorrow about how this would likely go down in small claims court.
So I'm guessing you think she owes you more than you might owe her for the car damage?
Keep it in safe deposit til the next flodie comes along
Well, it wasn't that bad i suppose. She could've been getting plowed by some other dude like your ol lady was while still with you.
True but it's temporary. Unlike permanent ink on calvesWell, it wasn't that bad i suppose. She could've been getting plowed by some other dude like your ol lady was while still with you.
If I damaged anyones vehicle it wouldn't matter what relationship we had or didn't have, it's my responsibity to get it fixed. Emotional ties of no ties at all a total non factor.
The minute you get in someones else ride you become responsible to bring it back the way it was given to you. This could be your worst enemy, it doesn't matter.
Last edited by Avante; 03-30-2016 at 01:34 AM.
If change is inevitable then nothing is permanent.
Are your Spur tats permanent?
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