I've lived in San Francisco and San Diego, been all over LA. That is a whole other world than central Cali, totally different. In those big cities ya can blend in with your freakyness, nobody even notices or cares, it's not like that in these farm towns of 40,000. There a freak would get noticed and it wouldn't be good. A couple of gay men thinking they can pull that off in Tulare, ha~~~~~ It just wouldn't work, unless they don;t care about be stared at and ridiculed.
I used to change buses in North Hollywood, I had an hour lay over so I walked the streets. Dikes, hookers, pimps, drug addicts, drug dealers, trannies, freaks of all kind roaming the streets. I'd be offered pussy, jewelry, every drug there is, get my sucked, all inside and hour. That is not Farmersville.
Funny walking by a store window with dildos all standing tall staring at ya, hahaha!!!! Won't see that in Goshen.