The bachelor party has always been for the entire group of friends. The groom is simply the guest of honor. His wishes should be considered but he definitely doesn't have the right to call all the shots. If he doesn't want strippers, then he should just ignore them at the party. Just because he wants to be a prude doesn't mean the other guys have to also. Bachelor party isn't like a birthday party where it's all about one person, it's about all the guys having one last crazy ride together. I guess that concept is too big for some people to grasp, however.