He wasn't "aloud" to drive through the lane after game two because the Lakers changed their defense. They started doubling him off pick-and-rolls and made it impossible to to get into the lane. You can cry that there weren't enough foul calls, but that wasn't the case. It's just the case of you being a whiny fan.
Do you have a link on the Pop quote you are talking about? Didn't think so.
Okay if it wasn't the refs who lost the series, then why are you whining? The Spurs got outplayed and outcoached. End of story. Even if the refs tried to help the Spurs win that series, they were shooting so bad that it wouldn't have helped.