How long do you hold a grudge?...

[mouse]

I never hold a grudge. If people stay mad at me or whatever, then that's their problem. I don't have time to deal with that .

so you have forgiven FEMA already?

[Shelly]

I think my husband secretly likes it when when we fight because I vent my rage by cleaning house. It's either that or choke the living crap out of him.

Luckily for me we don't fight too often. Although the house could use a good fight right now.

It's a good thing we don't have a gun. I might be in jail right now!

[bigzak25]

My phone stop ringing again, It's a dollar store phone and it sucks, I can call him from a pay phone if you e mail the #

[email protected]

Will I get a six pack out of the deal?

it can be arranged...seems like you need a phone more than a sixpack though...if we have one laying around the house, i'll tell him to bring it too...

i'll call you for the next 5 minutes...keep picking up the phone til i'm on the other end...

[CosmicCowboy]

Minor arguments and beefs I get over immediately. I am usually the one to make peace even if I need to "apologize" and still don't think I did anything wrong.

Betray my friendship and me over and its another story. Those are lifetime things. There are two people I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire.

Betray my friendship and REALLY me over and it's lifetime and potentially deadly. There are another two guys I would supply the gasoline and match if I was sure I could get away with it.

[JoeChalupa]

Wassup BigZak!? Thanks bro.

Ah...the old broken phone.

[2Blonde]

There are another two guys I would supply the gasoline and match if I was sure I could get away with it.

I like your thinking. I have someone in mind right now.

[CosmicCowboy]

I like your thinking. I have someone in mind right now.

hehehe...your cleaning therapy doesn't work for me when someone finally pisses me off. I could clean up New Orleans, Mississippi, and Alabama by myself and STILL be pissed off...LOL

[CharlieMac]

I can't hold grudges.

Unless it results in the loss of life or a pan of boiling water being thron in someone's face and/or penis.

[JoeChalupa]

I concur.

[CosmicCowboy]

You guys are either really really nice or else you have never been really really ed over.

[Sportcamper]

Aa attractive blonde who gets so angry she cleans the house? Your husband is a very lucky man... (He should take you out for a nice dinner tonight)....

CC- Everyone has been raked over the coals or suffered adversity at some time in their life...When Rudy Tomjanovich was asked if he held a grudge against Kermit Washington for almost killing him & ruining his NBA career Rudy said, “I let go of the anger & forgave him a long long time ago...I needed to do it for myself so I could move on & live a productive life”...

Rudy’s philosophy may not be easy to live by but I think that it is very sound doctrine....

[CosmicCowboy]

Rudys situation was different. It was a heat of the moment compe ive thing.

But you are right. Most cases fall in that category for me as well.

[SpursWoman]

I think my husband secretly likes it when when we fight because I vent my rage by cleaning house. It's either that or choke the living crap out of him.

Luckily for me we don't fight too often. Although the house could use a good fight right now.

Oh, and I do this too.


I realized the day I started turning into my mother when I cooked a special dinner as sort of an olive branch without having to actually say anything. That's exactly what she used to do.

[midgetonadonkey]

I'm still holding grudges against people eventhough it has been over 15 years since they wronged me. I never forget when people piss me off.

[MannyIsGod]

Grudges are for heads

[pooh]

How long do I hold a grudge...lets see. People are like potted plants...they all have to go into the ground soon. You figure it out.

[Fonzie]

Holding grudges ain't cool.

[angel_luv]

Holding grudges ain't cool.

Well Said

[jochhejaam]

Me and a couple of the guys at work get into impassioned discussions (no profanity) at times (I"m impassioned, they're out of control ) and I'm ready to laugh about it and move on almost as soon as the discussion is over. At times it'll take my coworker a couple of days to get over it. If you've apologized that's all you can do. The bigger man initiates an attempt ot work it out but you can't force someone to reconcile. Depending on the seriousness of the fallout it usually works itself out. Good Luck.

[JoePublic]

Grudges? I stopped when I was about 12.

[Banjo Boy]

Grudges? I stopped when I was about 12.

I can fix that, spot me 800 bucks

[David Bowie]

Sometimes Ill hold one forever. I can still be real good friends with a person, but still not forgive them about something. But I usually don't let that influence the friendship.

[Vashner]

Till they shovel dirt on my coffin.

[mookie2001]

in the year 2000 cant be faded told his mom I gave him a joint she found in his car
him and his mom have hated me ever since

[MsMcGillyCutty]

I don't....I like make up sex too much.