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I'm too pissed off at you to tell you right now.How long do you hold a grudge?...
If you and a friend have a disagreement, arguement, a falling out or whatever you want to call it. How long do you hold a grudge?
I for one don't hold grudges very often. After a disagreement or agruement, and many times it is my fault, I apologize for my error and try to smooth things out and get back to being friends.
Reason being is that I had a melt down with a friend, a verbal melt down, and have not been able to smooth things out. Should I just say oh well I tried?
More often than not we remain friends but this hasn't been the case.
Oh well, just wondering and apologize if this is showing too much of my softer side.
What say you?
I'm too pissed off at you to tell you right now.How long do you hold a grudge?...
Until he/she buys me a beer.
I hate that I can't hold grudges.
Most often than not, people walk all over you because of it.
That's what I would do.
Then it is done.
mouse, Joe melted down on you...he apologized. happens. if things were said that hurt, then maybe they were true. both of you guys look in the mirror and think about what you can do to make things better. then give each other a call, get some drink, some smoke, and party like it's a few weeks ago before the ever happened.
I hardly ever hold a grudge.. most of the time I let stuff go.
except when peopel are totally unapologetic A-holes... liek my brother in-law...what a .
I'm generally the peacemaker. I always try to make things right. Probably because I'm usually the one who stepped in it to begin with. I can't stand fighting. But putting that aside, I have 2 long standing friendships that have ended. One I don't miss (she was a anyway) but the other I never figured out why she was even mad. We were friends since the 3rd grade. She was my maid-of-honor at my 1st wedding, godmother to my daughter, best friend, etc... and then one day she got upset over something minor (I don't even remember what). That was it, 30 years of friendship down the drain. I tried calling several times and apologizing to make things right. She was nice on the phone and then called my sister and told her to tell me not to contact her ever again.
I know it's easy to say that people who do that to you aren't worth it, but sometimes losing a friend can be like cutting off a leg or an arm. You are always going to miss it. So I would make damn sure you have done everything you can before you give on a friendship that means a lot to you.
I'm still holding a grudge against that blackbar friend of yours...i'll never ever forgive that piece of ing ...
personally? i never hold grudges anymore...maybe there was a time when i used to, but that's history...
i am the kind of person that likes resolution/closure though...so if someone was to resist that, that might make me irritated...but oh well, life goes on...
That's what I'm lacking....Closure !!!! Damn
When I see you and LadySpur at the same GTG, then you can talk.
they don't have a place big enough...
but i've never met the woman...i just didn't like her insecure overbearing mod tactics...nothing more, nothing less.
don't look now, but it sounds like your holding a grudge
she knows where to reach me...phone goes both ways...people can change...it's not like we ever hung out or talked in the first place mouse...IT'S NOT LIKE WE WERE FRIENDS THAT HUNG OUT, TOKED AND DRANK A FEW BEERS, IT'S NOT LIKE WE HELPED EACH OTHER OUT WITH HOOKUPS FROM TIME TO TIME....
but i'll gladly buy her a diet coke to go with her Mc5pounder and SupaFries if the occasion should ever arise...
Ok cool I will set it up. when you comming back to SA?
Less than 24 hours.
Less than 24 hours.
That is to soon, The Zoo requires a 48 hour notice before you can take out one of their Hippos.
Dammit....that's how long I usually hold a grudge.
who knows...tell her christmas seems like a lock...
hey man, i need you to put a USB in the computer for me...my friend Al is gonna bring the comp by the diamondshamrock by your house, pick you up, drop you off with the computer and card and you work your magic.
When done? Call him and he'll come pick it up. gimme holla on the cellie when your phone is up and running...
the longest i held a grudge was 2 weeks, but most of the time 3 days.
I never hold a grudge. If people stay mad at me or whatever, then that's their problem. I don't have time to deal with that .
I think my husband secretly likes it when when we fight because I vent my rage by cleaning house. It's either that or choke the living crap out of him.
Luckily for me we don't fight too often.
My phone stop ringing again, It's a dollar store phone and it sucks, I can call him from a pay phone if you e mail the #who knows...tell her christmas seems like a lock...
hey man, i need you to put a USB in the computer for me...my friend Al is gonna bring the comp by the diamondshamrock by your house, pick you up, drop you off with the computer and card and you work your magic.
When done? Call him and he'll come pick it up. gimme holla on the cellie when your phone is up and running...
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Will I get a six pack out of the deal?
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