Is this cheating?

[KEDA]

just as long as guy #2 inst a bowling alley mechanic, everything should be ok!

[SequSpur]

Tpark is available, that's if you like nice restaurants.

[lilmads]

You guys rockkk... After reading what everyone wrote, I agree with you guys. It's gonna get done today.

Thanks everyone.

[lilmads]

That's what I was thinking.

Plus, lilmads aren't you 16-17 years old?? When'd you start dating this guy...at age 11?

I'd dump that first guy also. He needs to understand that life is filled with disapointments and you're going to get hurt every now and then. And you need to stop feeling guilty...what's worse, breaking up with him or staying with him out of pity? How would you feel if someone stayed with you out of guilt?

Nah, I'm 19... he's been my only bf ever really... Thanks for the advice.. It really is worse staying with him outta pity...

[hussker]

Nah, I'm 19... he's been my only bf ever really... Thanks for the advice.. It really is worse staying with him outta pity...

BRILLIANT!

[TDMVPDPOY]

so this guy is a flirter, um who knows if his goin out with u and flirts to other ppl

what goes around, comes around, dog eat dog world

[v2freak]

If all you're doing is flirting back, then I wouldn't consider it cheating per se.

[lilmads]

I only have flirted.. but I'm getting mixed signals.. so hopefully some things can clear up when I talk to the guy online today... can't wait

[KEDA]

its an online flirt??



my advice is to stay single for a little while, you got youth on your side, dont let it go by!

[KEDA]

Oh, and have the balls to break up with him in person.

I was with my girlfriend for 4 years, and all I got was a ing phone call!

if you are going to do it, do it the correct way by doing it in person!

[lilmads]

Yeah I will do it it the right way. It's gonna happen today.

As for the other guy, I can't wait for him to get online Even though it's nothing serious, he's really nice to talk to... And no, it's not an online thing.. He came to see me while I was at class yesterday... I didn't even ask him to... Plus I've spoken to him on and off on the phone since yesterday.

Anyway, I'm still young, I have a lot ahead of me, and I'm happy with it that way

[KEDA]

cool

good luck with everything!

[MannyIsGod]

Dude came to see you while you have a boyfriend?


Oh man, I feel bad for the poor schmuck thats getting dumped.

[lilmads]

So I broke up with my boyfriend. I told him I dont want to be together anymore and it's mainly because of me (which is the truth) and not him.

Now he's just pissed.
Ah well...

[T-Pain]

break up with the first guy

[lilmads]

^ I did.
Amen.

[Guru of Nothing]

So I broke up with my boyfriend. I told him I dont want to be together anymore and it's mainly because of me (which is the truth) and not him.

Now he's just pissed.
Ah well...

Be firm!! If he comes begging, kick him in the balls and walk away.

[1Parker1]

Be firm!! If he comes begging, kick him in the balls and walk away.

Precisely. That's how I dumped Shoogarbear.

[angel_luv]

Yeah I will do it it the right way. It's gonna happen today.

As for the other guy, I can't wait for him to get online Even though it's nothing serious, he's really nice to talk to... And no, it's not an online thing.. He came to see me while I was at class yesterday... I didn't even ask him to... Plus I've spoken to him on and off on the phone since yesterday.

Anyway, I'm still young, I have a lot ahead of me, and I'm happy with it that way

Sounds like somebody has a crush...

[hussker]

Yeah I will do it it the right way. It's gonna happen today.

As for the other guy, I can't wait for him to get online Even though it's nothing serious, he's really nice to talk to... And no, it's not an online thing.. He came to see me while I was at class yesterday... I didn't even ask him to... Plus I've spoken to him on and off on the phone since yesterday.

Anyway, I'm still young, I have a lot ahead of me, and I'm happy with it that way

SO...basically it is an online, phone, one visit thing.

I have prisoners who do that! NOT KIDDING, FOR REAL....

[ShoogarBear]

Precisely. That's how I dumped Shoogarbear.

First, you had to give me back my balls, then you kicked them.

But I aint' mad at ya . . .

[ShoogarBear]

WTF is it with this rash of relationship threads, anyway?

Guess it's true that post-Valentine's Day really is Breakup Season.

[lilmads]

WTF is it with this rash of relationship threads, anyway?

Guess it's true that post-Valentine's Day really is Breakup Season.

[lilmads]

Sounds like somebody has a crush...

I do
And I don't know if its a good or bad thing.. I'll find out soon enough!

[GrandeDavid]

I've been with a guy for 6 years, he's been my only boyfriend... recently, i dont feel the same way he feels for me, so i really wanna break up with him.. i've done it but i ended up feeling sooo bad that i took him back.. and he thinks things are good...
Now a new guy comes along... a completely different one from this guy... he's really great and he flirts on and off...
Now if i flirt back, is that cheating? my friend seems to think so.. and he tells me to break up with my bf, and then i can do whatever i want... i really have no idea what to do.. i've been with this guy for soooo long that he's grown into my system... i know he's gonna be crushed... and if i do break up with him, do i tell him that i like another guy?

so confused

what do you guys think?

No, that does not cons ute cheating, in my book.