Its not bull its pretty damn accurate. I agree women need a man to somewhat understand the importance of staying fresh within a relationship. I also understand women don't want to beg or be begged for sex. We need to wise up at times and try to make a women feel like they are number one no matter how long we have been together I get it but you gals take it to far.
I was simply zeroing in on cutting out some of the back and forth bull code women speak in. I guess you have made it perfectly clear a women needs to hide her innermost feelings with a bunch of mumbo jumbo that we should decipher to make her feel wanted or she'll find someone who will.
I supposes if you wanted to have a whirlwind relationship where no one just comes out and says what they feel please help yourself but there is no way any man is going going to want that kind of life or relationship. These are fundamental differences between men and women.
I give you the benefit of the doubt and agree we should do more and be better but like most women I'm sure it just isn't enough.
I just wanted to bring up that if a woman is said to be "nagging", then she's usually reminding you to do the same thing over and over again - in which case, why can't you just ing remember that whatever it is you are or aren't doing pisses off the woman in question? If it's something unreasonable then you need to talk to her about it, and if it's not an unreasonable request, then might it not be in everyone's best interest to just think about what you're doing before you get "nagged"?
No .
If it's gotten down to the incessant nagging stage, that's a good indication she's brought up the issue more than once. Just ing do it and STFU and you won't hear it anymore. Not a difficult concept to grasp, either.
Just because you are incapable of doing it yourself, doesn't mean the man should have to at your timetableNo .
If it's gotten down to the incessant nagging stage, that's a good indication she's brought up the issue more than once. Just ing do it and STFU and you won't hear it anymore. Not a difficult concept to grasp, either.
True True True. Women are equal right they can everything a man can do and do it better right.
I have no problem doing everything all by myself everyday...I have for years and years and years. But I'm only human ... I'm going to be really ing tired come bed time. And I'm going to be really ing tired when you need a dish for the office potluck, or cookies or WT ever special favor you want, too.
YKWIM?
What does that have to do with taking out the trash or not spending all of the rent money at the bar?
As someone who enjoys cooking, I'm am easily capable of making my own dish/cookies/badass potato soup.I have no problem doing everything all by myself everyday...I have for years and years and years. But I'm only human ... I'm going to be really ing tired come bed time. And I'm going to be really ing tired when you need a dish for the office potluck, or cookies or WT ever special favor you want, too.
YKWIM?
That's awesome ... seriously.
But do you pick up your own dirty underwear off the floor and put it in the hamper?
and with your avatar and your right hand, you'll never need a wife anyway.
I cook, wash dishes, clean the house, and do laundry. My girlfriend is so busy with her first year of teaching I decided to do what I needed to do so she doesn't have to worry about housework, she can just focus on her work.
I don't complain as long as she provides me with what I need in the bedroom. And if she doesn't about me doing all that work while I'm drunk.
I admit my job has gotten much tougher over the past decade or so.
I agree guidlines need to be set. I didn't go to the bar or breast lounge and in turn she stayed out of the clubs. I don't have a problem with picking up after myself or knocking out some dishes but I don't have to worry about picking up some undies because I don't wear any anyhow.What does that have to do with taking out the trash or not spending all of the rent money at the bar?
We just don't want to hear "clean out the garage" 36 times ok its a big job and we know it needs to get done we just need to find the right frame of mind to do it or its going to be half assed.
Yeah, someoneIknow has been avoiding getting in the right frame of mind for something for almost 4 months already ... and I refuse to say a word about it.
And it's sooooooo hard, trust me ...
I have never been afraid of things getting serious. I felt the exact opposite.
Damn right, if the man don't want to do it, he'll half ass it all the way.
Are not!
That's just too much. So true.I agree. I am definately not stating this is my situation. Yes it is a very broad stereotype but I do feel there is more than a shread of truth to it. I've been married twice when I was young and dumb and I'm sure I'll see a third sooner than later. I also have tons of friends and family members that have been or are married. Most guys don't have the sack to admit it but as a man gets older his disires for a stressless world grow.
We don't mind doing chores around the house and we don't mind dealing with your monthly visitor. Its the coded language you speak that drives us up a wall.
Example:
Messican Lover: Honey I finished the yard early and I cleaned the kitchen before you got up this morning. Some of the guys are going down to the park to play some ball about 3 today would you mind if I got a game or two for a couple of hours before we start dinner.
Messican Lovers Wife or Girlfriend(in a firm voice without smiling): You go ahead and do what you want. If thats what you would like to do on your day off since the chores are done you go ahead and play as long as you like. I guess your planning on drinking a few beers with boys to huh.
Sounds sweet and she said the right thing.
I don't have the Wife to real world handbook but let me translate this for you.
Messican Lovers Wife or Girlfriend: You go ahead and play with your little friends and see what happens next. I see that you got up early to finish you chores so you could go out and play but why the don't you get up early to knock out them chores so we can spend a afternoon together at the mall or the movies. Your busy all week long and on your day off you don't spend anytime with me.
Anyone who is married or with someone has been face with that quandry and then they wonder why when they get home the wife is all pissed off and not saying anything.
Man will say: whats whats wrong baby you don't feel good or something.
Wife: No I'm fine and you know whats wrong "how was your game".
Were ed right there
Wouldn't life have been much easier if she would have just said "can you play ball another day I would really like to do something together this afternoon babe its been awile since you took me to the mall or movies."
Lot less room for catastrophically bad decisions to make there. Clear cut demands are so much better than leaving us with a bad decision to accidently make. Quit letting us ourselves.
Most may deny it but this happens all the time.
maybe, it's because we don't want our sanchas to take up too much of our time bc then our real girlfriend will find out..
Not trying to change the subject here, but... you'd be surprised how many women are afraid of the same thing. It's not just a guy thing (even though I guess they're the majority).
The main problem is that the World is ed up
Truer words were never said! That sums it up perfectly. You'd think after about a THOUSAND times of going through this, it wouldn't be so hard. It's not rocket surgery in the first place. All they gotta do is THINK!
God, I am loving this discussion!!!!!!!!! That is SO right on the money!
Neither do I, I've been doing stuff for and by myself for about 36 years, since I left my parents' house. That is not the issue nor the problem.
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