He should have kicked her(wife) to the curb long ago.
You can’t eat your cake and have it too.
He should have kicked her(wife) to the curb long ago.
You can’t eat your cake and have it too.
I still think this is a joke he found on the internet.
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To all those women talking about this guy, let me ask you a question. Say two people are in a happy, healthy relationship. Now let's say that due to some freak accident one of those people is unable to have sex anymore. Should his or her spouse become celibate for the rest of their lives?
If you answered yes to that question you live in a fairytale ing world, let me tell you. I'm not saying what this dude is doing is necessarily right, and to be honest, it does seem like the dude has gone through a lot of trouble to make himself feel better about what is essentially good old fashioned cheating. Having said that, I can't imagine having to go through a whole year without sex, and then only once every three months. That's NOT healthy. ! Its downright painful!
I feel for both them really. The woman has serious psychological problems, and the dude is suffering because of them. Sure his solution is bull , but his problem is a very real one.
I'm just curious as to what people here would do in his situation. What would be the right thing to do here IYO?
IMOHO, seriously, if either of them have experienced the Big "O" with each other, we wouldn't be reading about it![]()
I don't think he's doing anything wrong. Everybody cheats. Not everybody admits it.
P.S. - PM me the phone numbers when you get them!
Maybe she's just not as active sexually with him!
While I think this whole thing is a joke of some kind, I will answer your question since it was posed seriously.
Not having sex or not having it frequently enough is a big problem in a marriage. However, if he was really her best friend and cared for her, he would have tried counseling before running off and sticking his nob in a bunch of pros utes.
His "solution" was no solution at all. A solution implies you tried to work out a problem. He did no such thing, he ran away from his problem instead like a selfish idiot who thinks he was the only one "suffering" from their problem. I would bet cash money the wife is suffering more.
Who the cares how you get it? Just do it, and then send me a PM.
I was thinking this too...she may know, and not care because a) he's still taking care of her and the kids and apparently "dotes" on her and b) he's not bugging her to have sex. It may suit her just fine, who knows.
According to the first post, they did go to counseling and discussed it "in-depth" and nothing changed.
For all of you bashing this guy, don't you think it's better that he's banging a couple of escorts a year (a professional arrangement) than having an actual affair with emotional attachment?
No matter how the numbers add up (up to four escorts and maybe 6 sessions a year with the wifey), he still is jerking off a lot.
Ditto.
That's pretty much SOP with long opening posts anymore.
I'm actually impressed the guy kept this under wraps for 8 years.
He definitely knows what he's doing.
Damn, I must have missed that part skimming for the cab to Bel Air ...
If that's true then I bet she knows, or maybe is stepping out on him, too. Some women turn a blind eye to that stuff.
And what is with all these guys wanting the information? I thought SpursTalk was full of playas who could get any hot chick they wanted ...
I'd say the probability is pretty high of this women not loving this guy anymore. Everything is great but no love or passion = chic bored and needs something new to feel better about herself. I wouldn't be shocked at all if she's cheating as well.
This guy went to a lot of trouble to fill a void in his life without sacrificing his wife to the fire by having a real relationship with either a local stranger or closer friend or acquaintance. He kept his extracurricular business just that....business. Its like needing a drink or a joint when your wife is a y bible thumper. I appreciate this guy having the mental for ude to do the right thing and find comfort without destroying the world around him.
You women are sure quick to burn this dude at the stake. There are meds for this his wife should have gone the extra mile for the marriage.
This is true.
I knew a guy through my old job who was not at all shy about the various affairs/girlfriends he had on the side. And I'm 98% sure that his wife HAD to have known what was going on, but they're still together because the financial aspects associated with a divorce are more than either of them want to deal with.
I sense a married woman!!!
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I've thought more than once reading this thread that damn, I'm glad I don't have to pay for sex with a young, hot thing.And what is with all these guys wanting the information? I thought SpursTalk was full of playas who could get any hot chick they wanted![]()
I'd say the probability of this guy not existing is pretty close to 1.
Small penises must pay for sex.
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