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hey dude if you need a lawyer....contact this guy
Thanks for the advice and opinions. I wasn't looking for validation. The congratulatory high fives and hand shakes I got from friends and family were enough.
There are no right or wrong opinions, although the whole donkey show, back to the future, taco bell thing was a bit disturbing. I was just looking for a little advice. The whole "quasi-married limbo" as Professor put it is getting tired.
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hey dude if you need a lawyer....contact this guy
Great idea. I'll end up in jail!hey dude if you need a lawyer....contact this guy
hey if ur on the rebound, maybe you should hang out with one of the posters on here....who hang around with young single moms....
Of course you're allowed to see other women, you're marriage is over for all intensive purposes.
I can hook you up with a lot of fine chickens from the Portland area
No single moms.
You appear to have a sound handle on the situation. I suggest acting swiftly on filing for divorce, as it appears there isn't a need to further try nor reconcile. Good luck to you.
so atm ur not interested in chicks, single moms....
how about ladyboys?
Man you are long overdue for a new adventure. You don't have to be in a relationship to have relations.
alright bud, just compelled to read this story. Here's an unmarried mans advice who has seen a lot of relationships but been thru few that have lasted more than say 6 months. Be warned, lol.
Alright i read the first few sentences that your wife moved out because of HER infidelity. Lets remember that here!
The next part i can relate to, a girl wants you back-she made a mistake-of course she texts you all the time-and i bet you were like=see a text, whatever-ill deal with that later. Right or wrong? Cuz on a more basic level a chick would always text me who i didn't like but we hooked up, but she didn't get the point so kept on doing it and doing it and when i wouldn't respond for awhile she'd be like "oh you have a new girl", lmfaoooo. I was like wait were not together, your crazy, and i only hooked up with u drunk. But i digress. Your on a diff level
on the accusations, why didn't you just say "what, who is the ones fault we are at where were at". I believe what you say you didn't do anything after she moved out but that wouldn't be cheating imo, your wife started that, remember, SHE broke the vows. You owed her nothing at that point.
Now onto the getting home and texting her, c'mon, you know she's shady, she's moved out, text u all the time, it seemed like a comfort thing for you , right? to here her saying im sorry and like that? Bro, F her she's playin with ya, i know you were married to her and care for her deeply but you should never text her and should be onto your own thing.
She owes u honest explanations, but a woman who cheats while living with you , then moves out and acts all weird is exactly a woman who id expect to give me a lie. Shes shady, you know that don't convince yourself otherwise, remember the first few sentences-she cheated.
But, the question is do you still love her, from your post it seems as though you have moved on, but is that really how you feel? If it is, yes go to a strip club immediately, go to a bar, start meeting women there's a ton of ladies out there-but if you still love her, your going to have to talk this out with her and come to some type of peace, agreement, whatever. Hopefully your done with her, sounds like a ty situation, sorry to here it man, but you can move on. IDK if that all made senese, kind of buzzed, but good luck, things will work out!
I know I am in the minority here, but I wish more people would take some time when a long-term relationship ends and be alone to sort through things and deal with things. It is healthy that you can do this. Good luck.The fact that I haven't sought out new companionship is not because of any attachment to her. I just have no desire to be in any kind of relationship right now.
As to the hypocrisy, it has been my observation that people who accuse you of cheating are cheating themselves.
How good of a job/career can someone have without a license, if any? Good riddance.She doesn't want the car and she doesn't have a driver's license anyway.
Same thing happened to me stike........wife was cheating.......filed for divorce, she bothered the outta me from then on. She really got pissed when I started dating. She said......... "well if I cheated, then you cheated too, because our divorce isnt final yet".......... in psycho babble bull . Anyhow, my EX didnt leave me alone until she got remarried. Bothered the out of my new wife and I. Callin all times of night and . Anyhow, the cheater always freaks out when they are busted, and their spouse throws in the towel and moves on with their life. Expect her to be a until she actually gets remarried. Hopefully you dont have kids...........sounds like you dont. That will be a much cleaner break. I have to see my EX biatch every other week. in !!!! Anyhow, I dont hate her anymore.
Has nothing to do with being interested in chicks. I'm not interested in dating or being in a relationship. A random hookup would be cool but I'm not looking for anything right now. I'm happy being by myself right now.
And no single moms because I don't want to have to deal with/hear about someone's kid.
Just be happy you're not my parents who took 5 years to agree to a divorce once they separated. Those were a rough 5 years
unless its for evidence in the legal proceedings.
That sucks. Knowing my ex, she'll get served with the papers, freak out and try to avoid the whole thing. Good for me since the divorce goes through if she doesn't respond or contest it within 30 days.Just be happy you're not my parents who took 5 years to agree to a divorce once they separated. Those were a rough 5 years
Wasn't the point at the time but I did save the texts where she told me she was with the guy a few days ago.unless its for evidence in the legal proceedings.
Just be glad you don't have kids with her. Almost all divorces that get really ugly and start getting expensive are because of kids.
That's your answer right there.Strike, if you live in Texas and have no kids go for it Brah. Screw her Mamma, her sister, whomever. She's still going to get 1/2 of what ever you aquired together in the last ten years, debts included!!! If you do have kids, Keep your "Johnny Joe" clean, cuz if she gets custody, she'll run you over!
No, actually. I live in Oregon, not Texas. Oregon is a "no fault" state but not a community property state. And there's nothing of any value to split up, anyway.
Sounds like your on the ball, Strike!!! Good luck to you, man!
Strike,
Please tell us you have contacted an Oregon atty who can tell you what the exact laws are in Your City, OR.
I'm making that call tomorrow.
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