Dudes, have you ever loved a girl who had a boy friend?

[Rapper]

How old are you?

I'm 23, a university senior student and i 'm working at a small company as a clerk

[DisAsTerBot]

but one thing i can make sure is that she was unwilling to tell me she had a bf, the reason why i finally knew she had a bf is a friend of mine saw her with a guy on a street hand in hand

Women are sneaky.

[mingus]

i feel you, rapper.

i'm going through the same thing right now at my work. the problem is her bf works there as well, but only on certain weekends, while we both work every weekend.

needless to say, when he works, we both sort of stay away from eachother. however, there's definitely something b/w us when he's not there.

i guess i'll just let things take its course; hopefully it leads to intercourse.

[BacktoBasics]

You got yourself a grade A there. Wear a rubber dude. You know she ed Lumburgh.

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

This ain't the movies. rarely will work in your favor.

You'll just end up beating yourself up over something that was never in the cards in the first place.

Let it die.

[I. Hustle]

Where is the Rick Springfield troll when you need him?

[MiamiHeat]

find another girl, too many out there lookin for a good guy.

[MiamiHeat]

Where is the Rick Springfield troll when you need him?

shouldn't you be out snorting coke?

[florige]

Man , she already had a bf when the first time i met her, but i didn't know that. she is very pretty, kind, gentle,active,positive,smart, the greatest girl i've ever seen.we had had a good time during this summer, we experienced the ups and downs to each other.when i knew that she had a bf i was extremely shocked by that,i choose putting this secret inside my heart over telling her cause i'm afraid of losing her

I just wanna be her best friend even though i love her very much.

Yeah I totally hear you and that sounds like the way to go. I would still start looking around and just exploring other options in females so as to at the very least keep you occupied and keep your mind off of her. Its tons worse when you just sit around alone thinking about it all the time. Once you find another girl it shouldn't be as hard. Sometimes friendships do lead to relationships, but like I said I wouldn't put my love life on hold waiting around for something that may or may not ever come to fruitation.

[florige]

You do know that JT is the one that rode in the trunk of a Mustang, not thinking that his high friends would try to break the speedometer.

[Viva Las Espuelas]

i feel you, rapper.

i'm going through the same thing right now at my work. the problem is her bf works there as well, but only on certain weekends, while we both work every weekend.

needless to say, when he works, we both sort of stay away from eachother. however, there's definitely something b/w us when he's not there.

i guess i'll just let things take its course; hopefully it leads to intercourse.

man, is she worth losing your job over? those usually don't end good.

[mavs>spurs2]

Rapper, I was once in this same situation. It never ends well. The fact that she's been concealing her boyfriend from you should be a red flag. I'd consider just walking away, the longer you wait the bigger it's going to eventually blow up in your face.

[Ed Helicopter Jones]

Dudes, have you ever loved a girl who had a boy friend?

I married one.

[The Franchise]

You probably will just have to wait it out man. But the only thing of it is, you might find yourself waiting around for them to break up which may or may not happen, then in the process selling yourself short of someone else you may be missing out on because you are waiting around for something that in all likelyhood may never happen. Also whose to say that if they do break up that you two will wind up together? If you love her that much I would just continue being her friend keeping in contact with her, but at the same time still do your thing with other girls.

I agree with this unless the boyfriend is a piece of crap. Then by telling her you might be doing her a favor.

[JamStone]

I've been that girl. I wish the guy never told me. But that's because I'm selfish.

You Pinays are all selfish. That's why I've always stayed away from yall. :P

[J.T.]

i feel you, rapper.

i'm going through the same thing right now at my work. the problem is her bf works there as well, but only on certain weekends, while we both work every weekend.

needless to say, when he works, we both sort of stay away from eachother. however, there's definitely something b/w us when he's not there.

i guess i'll just let things take its course; hopefully it leads to intercourse.

You just got elected mayor of the Friend Zone.

Really, it's not even worth trying to hook up with someone at work. It's bad end every time.

[The Gemini Method]

Never trust a bi$#h...

Hah, no...it's usually not good for business when I deal with a girl that has a boyfriend, but right now I'm embroiled in a conflict where a friend of mine is in the final stages of her relationship (or so I think at this point) and we've been kind've hooking up. Mind you, I have liked this girl for so long that I held back from pursuing her and perhaps it is a subconscious thing that I am hoping to not mess with this woman anymore...but in the back of my cluttered mind, I think we'll end up dating. However, I don't know if I could really trust myself to stay loyal since the whole thing has been built on deception--something I don't really feel particularly good about.

[Leetonidas]

I thought I loved this girl when I was like 14 who had a boyfriend, but I didn't know any better. She was just hot as , nice big ties, nice little ass, cute little vajay. Eventually I said her and started ing her best friend and she dumped her boyfriend but by that time she was old news.

[tlongII]

I married one.

I'm still pissed off about that.

[Sancha]

I always know what I am getting into

[florige]

I agree with this unless the boyfriend is a piece of crap. Then by telling her you might be doing her a favor.

Very true!

[TDMVPDPOY]