Cop Issues Speeding Ticket, Asks Driver for a Date and She Sues Him

rascal · 01-05-2012

Wow. Just scrolled up to see the woman. She is very unattractive.
What was that guy drinking to be interested in her.

rascal · 01-05-2012

Police officers are privileged with a lot of private information about the people they ticket, such as their home address or phone number. That information is confidential and should not be used by the officer in any manner other than what their job dictates. This cop taking that information, and using it for his own private motives of tracking her down and asking her out is not only creepy and stalkerish, but it's also a breach of confidentiality.

Now if the girl had tracked him down, she's not obligated under any confidentiality agreement. She would just be seeking him out under her own free will, and I think that would be considered okay. What's not okay is the officer forcing her, by law, to provide her home information, and then him using that information for his own stalkery purposes.

You are going too far calling it stalking. He wrote 1 single note asking her for a date.

Had he repeatedly been asking after she refused or was following her around a number of times then you can call it stalking. Women nowadays can use the stalking accusation for almost anything.

cantthinkofanything · 01-05-2012

Originally Posted by rascal

You are going too far calling it stalking. He wrote 1 single note asking her for a date.

Had he repeatedly been asking after she refused or was following her around a number of times then you can call it stalking. Women nowadays can use the stalking accusation for almost anything.

the more I think about it, the more I agree with this. In fact, it probably shows some consideration on his part that he didn't ask her while he was in uniform which could have been perceived as threatening and in exchange for the ticket. Not saying it was smart (and she sure is too ugly for "love at first sight"), but maybe not as psycho as I first thought.

DMC · 01-05-2012

Originally Posted by mrsmaalox

I once had a cop pull me over for an expired inspection sticker; he waved his ticket book at me and said "We can do this one of 2 ways----I can give you a ticket or you can join me for a cup of coffee". So I giggled a little and made some flirty eye contact and said "Gimme the ticket". He acted pretty surprised as if he was used to women choosing the coffee date. Anyway, he just gave me a warning and I never suffered great fear or anxiety.

It was your husband... right?

DMC · 01-05-2012

Look, the cops in this issue. They are there to enforce the law, otherwise leave people the alone. You don't use the legal power over people's daily lives as a means to access and use their private information.

Imagine some TSA agent doing that: "Hi, Julie? Hi I don't know if you remember me but I patted you down last week at the Austin airport, near gate 11 and found the small fingernail file? Yeah well I really thought you had a tight body and since I pulled your information from the screening we did and wondered if I can take you to dinner tonight? I know where you live, so I will just swing by if that's ok with you"

No.

Blake · 01-05-2012

Originally Posted by rascal

You are going too far calling it stalking. He wrote 1 single note asking her for a date.

Had he repeatedly been asking after she refused or was following her around a number of times then you can call it stalking. Women nowadays can use the stalking accusation for almost anything.

Who cares what name you give it.

It's creepy either way.

Koolaid_Man · 01-05-2012

Originally Posted by Blake

Who cares what name you give it.

It's creepy either way.

no it ain't either ...

weeeaweeee weeeaweee weaaweee

Blake · 01-05-2012

Originally Posted by Koolaid_Man

no it ain't either ...

weeeaweeee weeeaweee weaaweee

Creepy post.

resistanze · 01-05-2012

Originally Posted by DMC

Look, the cops in this issue. They are there to enforce the law, otherwise leave people the alone. You don't use the legal power over people's daily lives as a means to access and use their private information.

Imagine some TSA agent doing that: "Hi, Julie? Hi I don't know if you remember me but I patted you down last week at the Austin airport, near gate 11 and found the small fingernail file? Yeah well I really thought you had a tight body and since I pulled your information from the screening we did and wondered if I can take you to dinner tonight? I know where you live, so I will just swing by if that's ok with you"

No.

QFT

ing idiot gives her a ticket and thinks she won't find the next opportunity to screw him over.

HarlemHeat37 · 01-08-2012

agree with the posts above, tbh..

Going further, that note is on a different level of White Knight..there's nothing I hate more than White Knights, tbh, it hurts me.."a girl like you wouldn't be interested in a guy like me"..what kind of pussy is that?..are you trying to guilt her into giving you a chance?..

White Knights induce excessive anger from me, tbh..