And tell Guy #2 to watch his as well.
Is that a threat toughguy?
My wife has male friends who call her and I have no problem with it because I know and trust her. Without trust?....
^ Guy #1 doesnt trust me apparently... Guy #2's girlfriend I'm sure is jealous...
That's the way it also works with my hubby and I. I trust him and he trusts me. I think about it this way. Every person is a different world. I can't control my husbands actions 24/7 Life is too short to be worrying about stupid like that.
I've learned that love and trust is the best combination for an ever lasting relationship.
I know that he loves checking out beautiful ladies and I love checking out beautiful men, but at the end of the day, It's just about us...And that, is a wonderful feeling
He has a lot of female friends just as much as I have male friends... Just the other night I met with someone from this forum to have a cup of coffee and just chat as friends... Well, this guy seemed to be uptight about the fact that my husband would come around and beat him up.
So, we just chatted for awhile and he went home (FAST)
My husband knew who I was going to go see and was fine about the whole thing. Well, since this guy left so fast I called up my hubby and told him what happened so we ended up having some delicious pancakes and coffee at the IHOP by my house...
I'm single and have yet to be able to test any of these ideas, but here they are.
I agree that you can't control another person and that trust is absolutely necessary.
I would hope that my man would be courteous to female co-workers and aquaintances, but I don't think I would want him to be too buddy buddy with them.
For example, I would have no problem with my guy going out to lunch with a bunch of co-workers, even if he was the only male in the group.
However, I would not him going out regularly to lunch with just one particular female, except me, of course.
As for after hour get togethers:
(Again this is my personal preference. Every one has the right and should come to their own understanding as a couple.)
It would make me sad if my man left me home alone to go out for coffee with another woman. I would like to be included in the evening and don't see that as being at all unreasonable.
^ I do agree with what you say Angel Luv. I'm pretty much like that too.
I met Guy #2 today... I tried to get something outta him but to no avail. He has his girlfriend and I'm truly happy for him. I don't want to come in the way of that.
I'm gonna try my best to stay frenz with Guy #1, because I want to. And for Guy #2, I do wanna stil be frenz even though I know I can't have more. He's just driving me crazy right now. He likes talking to me I know and I still have a gut feeling he likes me, but whatever. Until he says something, I'm gonna back off and just be frenz wit him.
^^^ I just realised your age ^^^
You are too young to be worried about guy 1 or 2...
Live life to It's fullest
^ I agree OSC... I truly do.. That's why I got out of my relationship, it was too much for me.. I regret staying in it for so long.
Sweetie,
Don't feel bad about the fact that you stayed in that relationship for so long, instead learn from it so the same mistakes won't happen again in the future.
And like I said before, enjoy life and when you least expect it...True love will come your way...
God bless and the best of luck to you
Another thing my wife forgot to mention is, never let your new love know anything about the past relationships you had. It's no one's business but yours and that other person. Therefore when arguments errupt, there won't be any of this No wonder that left you or something like I know you still have feelings for that "That's the way it also works with my hubby and I. I trust him and he trusts me. I think about it this way. Every person is a different world. I can't control my husbands actions 24/7 Life is too short to be worrying about stupid like that.
I've learned that love and trust is the best combination for an ever lasting relationship.
I know that he loves checking out beautiful ladies and I love checking out beautiful men, but at the end of the day, It's just about us...And that, is a wonderful feeling
He has a lot of female friends just as much as I have male friends... Just the other night I met with someone from this forum to have a cup of coffee and just chat as friends... Well, this guy seemed to be uptight about the fact that my husband would come around and beat him up.
So, we just chatted for awhile and he went home (FAST)
My husband knew who I was going to go see and was fine about the whole thing. Well, since this guy left so fast I called up my hubby and told him what happened so we ended up having some delicious pancakes and coffee at the IHOP by my house...
Good luck Lilmads
^: lol Thanks Cage
Another thing my wife forgot to mention is, never let your new love know anything about the past relationships you had. It's no one's business but yours and that other person. Therefore when arguments errupt, there won't be any of this No wonder that left you or something like I know you still have feelings for that "
Good luck Lilmads
I would imagine there is such a thing as too much information.
But I also wonder-
Wouldn't it help to know at least a little of someone's past partner history- i.e. stuff that hurt or helped them- so you can avoid some of what ruined their previous relationship?
Angel,
Just remember that a new relationship is a new begining...
Past should remain in the past... If you want the past experience to help you with your new relationship then just remember the do's and dont's but don't share them with your new love.
Aye, I'm in such a bind and so confused. I'm trying to keep my distance from Guy #1 because every time I talk to him he's like when last did you speak to Guy #2, does he look better than me, etc... It's really annoying...
As for #2, he's being a jerk... Ever since I saw him yesterday and asked him straight out why did he flirt with me and stuff if he had a gf and if he didn't care about me in that way, he's like 'I don't know.' Even this morning when I asked him what the is wrong, he's like 'I don't know.' That's the one answer that I hate. I'm backing off until he approaches me first to talk to me, because the more I try to talk to him, the more he confuses me.
Ever heard of that book " He's just not that into you."?
I recommend you read it and then, for fun, throw it at guy number two.
I'm gonna get my hands on that bookEver heard of that book " He's just not that into you."?
I recommend you read it and then, for fun, throw it at guy number two.
I spoke to Guy #2 today again.. he's like I liked you.. and I'm like liked in what sense, as a friend or more.. he doesn't wanna answer... So I have a gut feelings its more, but he doesnt wanna leave his girl... So whatever... I'm fine with it either way
I'm gonna get my hands on that book
I spoke to Guy #2 today again.. he's like I liked you.. and I'm like liked in what sense, as a friend or more.. he doesn't wanna answer... So I have a gut feelings its more, but he doesnt wanna leave his girl... So whatever... I'm fine with it either way
Pump up the drama with a Guy #3!!!
Don't be a home wrecker!
I'm not... That's why I'm backing off of Guy #2.. He has a girlfriend for the past 3 years...
It was so much more fun when we were flirting.
You had to go and mess that up didn't you.
I liked you in the sense that i could flirt with you and maybe we could hook up no strings attached. You know, cuz i have a girlfriend and stuff. But now you want to get all clingy, so screw that.I spoke to Guy #2 today again.. he's like I liked you.. and I'm like liked in what sense, as a friend or more.. he doesn't wanna answer... So I have a gut feelings its more, but he doesnt wanna leave his girl... So whatever... I'm fine with it either way
Annoying? Why don't you love me!!! He does look better than me doesn't he?
I hope your happy. I'm crying right now. You ruined my life!
Things keep seeming to get worse. Guy #1 and Guy #2 met today. They spoke for over an hour about my relationship with Guy #1 which was just sooo ed up and I got sooo uncomfortable. When Guy #1 left, Guy #2 is like that was a waste of my time
After that though, Guy #2's gf broke up with him... Why I have no idea... I hope to find out soon though...
I doubt anyone cares anymore so I'm gonna shut up now
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