That's partially why programs such as affirmative action were instated... to help level the playing field again.
But yes... if you could do that you would. Unfortunately it is not a pratical, feasible, or beneficial venture.
Look, I lived amongst the poorest of the poor, amongst theives, violence and drugs... my dad's salary was no more than $10,000 per year (during the late 80's and through the 90's) and he supported a family of five. You know what though?? Our family persevered without government assistance and managed to get a decent crack at life. Both of my siblings, like myself managed to graduate from college (all on scholarships) and attain 'higher' paying jobs. We now own our own homes... and are financially in a much better position now than we were when we grew up.... If my family managed to escape the grips of poverty, by the Grace of GOD; I'm sure others could too.
So many factors enter the fray though... we didn't have top of the line clothing, or Air Jordans, or the lastest Nintendo game (for that matter we never owned a game console), we didn't own new bikes (we built our own)... We didn't eat at restaurants every week or buy eccentricities for our vehicles or 'bling-bling', no one in our family had a vice that would hamper our budget, we always had a used car, and even had enough for an annual vaction to the Mexican Caribbean Riviera.... We worked hard at school and had fun at home... most importantly we didn't care what others said because we found support and confort in our family. That's all that mattered.
Bad parenting, and pitiful financial decisions greatly contribute to the reasons why the poor stay poor in today's society. Then again, those who are already 'well-off' don't even have to worry about that burden to begin with. So I rarely expect them to understand.