In regards to the last part of your comment. I've been married 15 years and one of my husband's best friends is a beautiful lady he met back in college. She is currently divorced and always calls my husband to talk about everything. At first I was a little nervous about the whole situation because she is very pretty and currently single, so I sat down with him one night and asked him if he would ever leave me for Misty (not real name). He told me that Misty was in his life way before he even met me and that if he chose me to be his wife was because I was the one.
So, I don't think their should be a reason to get jeolous if your boyfriend has friends whether they are single or not. Just remember that if he is with you, it's because you're the one.Couldn't have said it better myself.
I'm still laughing at Los Spurs and her Misty counterpart. Like Misty, who is recently divorced and probably crushed, surely wouldn't turn to an old faithful for that extra pick me up and male attention she desperately needs right now. She's plotting. No women would disrespect the wife by not addressing her first before engaging in personal conversation. She should have cleared it with you first, a real women who's truely respectful of the marriage would have. Instead she's going for the slow poison kill. You should get your eyes checked.
This is what recently single people do. They jam up the phone lines trying to find someone anyone who still likes them because their self esteem is ing shot. Old flames always re-ignite a torn heart.
I thought you were going to turn into someone else?
I hear that all the time. Human nature also teaches that if you mess with fire you are going to get burned. You'd be surprised by the power of true love. It may sound sappy and ridiculous but true love does exist.
This thread has turned into a mushfest.
My SO had a female co worker became a widow x2 before age 30. My SO being a psychiatrist, would take phone calls at home from her to allow her to vent. I felt so sorry for her, we once as a couple took her out to dinner; she rarely spoke or made eye contact with me. One time after one of her phone calls I asked how she was doing and he said, "Well she said she wants me to meet her for a drink because she misses male companionship". Of course that sent up an immediate red flag to both of us; well less than one month later, another psychiatrist broke up with his wife and guess who was moving in?!
Not only that Los Spurs. He was smart enough to do it right in front of you. If I was a guy who was being badgered by an "old friend" I would either say
"hey I'm married this conversation shouldn't and isn't going to happen"
or
I'd eliminate the su ion or risk of getting caught by putting this right out there in front of you so I don't have to be sneaking around to find out if I
A. Want to cheat
B. Want to leave you for her
Doesn't sound sappy at all. I totally agree with you. Power of love can allow you the control over urges or better yet it affords you the luxury of not being tempted.
I know you'd prefer a "hit it fest".
But don't get me wrong. I'm married not buried.
Fall back guys are the backbone of any s self esteem. Good thing your SO bailed....or it seemed like he did.
I like your vision. I'm going to go ahead and move you up into my top 8 all time internet peoples who I like and respect. Glad to have you on the list.
I know I would.
I think he did, but that was a long time ago. I don't really care now!
I think he did, but that was a long time ago. I don't really care now!
that is good to hear
My best (girl) friend and I have been friends since we were 5 ... which makes that more than 30 years now. We've pretty much experienced every MIP, date, break up, marriage, child birth, death, divorce ... you name it. You don't change best friends with each new dating relationship you enter ... that's crazy. Especially if you're just talking about dating.
And all of our friends who we hung out with the most when we were growing up were primarily boys ... but I'm not quite sure that counts.
Don't be so quick to toast. Has Misty said two words to you? Perhaps you're the one messing with fire. You better hope he at leasts uses protection while he's boning this chic behind your back. I'm sure since he "knows her" he doesn't worry about things like warts and those strange red lesions all over her inner thigh. But hey they're just talking....your man is ignoring you to help out an old friend...who you probably didn't even know existed when you met your husband...who happens to be a crushed divorced female from the good ole days....because people don't their brains out in college....they were study buddies...the kind that don't get drunk and in the back of cars and dorm rooms...the kind that don't consider rekindling old hot sexy nights....the kind that don't dabble in threesomes with other lonely females...its just college...for an education not drunken orgies. You got nothing to worry about especially since she discussed this with you first, out of respect for your marriage...wait nevermind.
Last edited by BacktoBasics; 09-02-2008 at 05:02 PM.
out of site out of mind.I think he did, but that was a long time ago. I don't really care now!
Jackie Christie?
I wasn't exactly ready for this thread to end. Was it something I said?
I trust you, but you can't talk to women outside of your family.Jackie Christie?
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