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Where do you meet your friends?! I have some really close girlfriends and have been privy to some pretty insane antics and emotions, but never have any of us played up cheating to be "cool".
Ok I'm a bit laid back on alcohol and got a Q, Why is it that nowadays it seems cool to cheat on your man? I mean I have not been with a girl since my daughters mom left me over 7 years ago because she wanted to party still and up and left one day. I think it mess with my mind bad cuz I was under the impression I was gonna marry and grow old with this girl.
So, fast forward a bit over 7 years and I'm still single, and it seems every girl I know as a friend makes it out to be that if you don't cheat on your man at least once your not cool. WTF when did this happen? I know guys are pretty much the same but screw that, I don't want games.
When did cheating become the "in" thing?
I ing hate my girls mom not because she left me but because my daughter cries to me that she wants to see her and I have no way of reaching her. My daughter is lucky if she sees her once a year now.
I know my daughter needs a female in her life, I shave my head and my lil girls gets mad I can't fix her hair,I don't even have hair so I don't know about fixing hair. I try and it looks crappy and she tells me it look pretty but I won't send her in public with one of my hairstyles on her.
Life's a and my daughter the rails that lead me on.
End rant. I'm blown and don't really care what any one thinks so flame the on.
Where do you meet your friends?! I have some really close girlfriends and have been privy to some pretty insane antics and emotions, but never have any of us played up cheating to be "cool".
I don't know over there but over here I'm yet to meet a woman who thinks or at least has told me that cheating is "cool". I dont think its cool.
Where you meet your women?
You need better friends. If EVERY female you know as a friend thinks cheating is cool, then ask yourself why you are friends with these type of people. Sometimes good people mess up and cheat, but I don't think a single one of them would explain the experience as "cool." Where on earth would you meet a set of friends like that?
As for your daughter's hair, do you have a mom or someone who can teach you? Learning to braid hair or pull it back with barrettes is not that hard.
Whoa, I kind of remember posting that. Got back from dropping my daughter at school and saw my post and was like huh.
As for the question about where do I get that from, is from my job. I go to work and on my break there a few girls in the break room talking about how they were with some guy last night and told there boyfriend they were somewhere else and then the group laughs like the jokes on him.
I find that most females my age (28) and younger make it out to be a normal thing at my job, Older females don't as much. Allot of my co-workers are couples and they always mess around and both talk about it like getting away with it is cool. Not even realising the other is doing the same thing.
I'm going back to bed. Got a headache.
My mom was a tomboy growing up and to this day just brushes her hair she don't even know how to braid, but she does a better job than me trying to fix it. My daughter fixes her hair better than I can. I tell her there is nothing wrong with shaving it and she gets mad.(joking of course) The older she gets the better she does it on her own so it's not as bad as when she was younger and pointed to a girl and said "I want it like that"
I shouldn't have really said "friends" more like girls I know from work, I'm pretty much a loner and keep to myself. My phone has less than 20 numbers in there that are not family. That's how much of a loner I am. I'm cool with that tho.
I bet half the these girls are talking isn't even true. People (both women and men) do this all the time. Most outgrow it in high school, but some mature a little (or a lot) slower than others. Of course, whether its true or not if they think it is funny or they lie about it, that is obviously still very shady.
Just ignore those people at work, an incestuous workplace is NOT the place to make decisions on women or love. I used to work at an HEB where everyone was sleeping with everyone, and I made judgments on people based on that. In retrospect, I realize now these people were just idiots. With unplanned pregnancies and UTI's.
I'm going to take into consideration that you said you are a little laid back on alcohol and not interpret that you mean literally every female you know feels that it is cool to cheat. I think you probably mean you know a couple of women who have given you the impression that they think it's cool to cheat. And probably those women stick out in your mind because of the situation you are in. Most women are not like that. But there are lots of manipulative, game playing girls out there, so you do need to be careful. Right now your daughter is the only girl in your life and that says so much about you. About the only thing you can do is not rush things, continue to concentrate on your daughter and the right woman will find you. And it might be fun for your daughter if you make an appt for a hairstyle at a family type salon, go with her, and have them teach both of you some things to do with her hair!
you just need to wax it right.....and have a lotta money
How many of them have done it though?
because you want their names and phone numbers
I was gonna pass the digits on to you, cause that's how us former apaches roll
I'm no woman but my wife has told of some of past friends who cheat on their boyfriends and think nothing of it. They use them to get material things which also blows my mind that guys are stupid enough to fall for and will give these women money and "gifts" just because they are getting some sex.
I don't know if it is considered cool or not but it does happen.
We got that FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT
I do need to warn you though, they have a history of cheating on their boyfriends
We got that FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT
I know. I was the one they cheated on with.
Orion, I thought you are married?
But I always called them the next day .............to get their friend's number
we are talking about high school ! Trainwreck wanted to be like me so he decided to follow in my footsteps. I wonder if he is my child .....
all women are evil... jesus i thought you re s knew this.
I think that's implied
I definitely don't think this applies to everybody, as I'm sure there's probably a scoundrel man for every woman, but I think Sly seems to be on to something here.
Not only do you seem to just see and hear more about it as a general rule, but I also know plenty of people who have cheated before and don't seem to be particularly beat up about it. Making mistakes is one thing, but these people seem to think they're ahead of the curve like the rule doesn't apply to them. My last two serious relationships were both ended because the girl decided it would be easier to cheat and let me get over it, rather than trying to just stay monogamous in the first place.
I don't know how old you are but women usually take cycles from the time their 18 until they've been through 1 maybe 2 divorces. The cheaters may always cheat but most women that hit that second marriage and watch it fail take a real abrupt about face and change their ways in their late 30's. Trying to be serious with someone in their 20's is real tough. You have to let the cycle run it course. Women always need to know someone wants to them. Until reality sets in. Which might or might not happen.
Cycles -
Party in teens and early 20's.
Marry for sport and daddy issues.
Divorce for more partying and to "find themselves"
Remarry to a safe but bad fit counter weight after running a course that leaves them feeling empty and used, possibly with a child.
Second divorce
May or may not have found a way to be more self sufficient.
Will start to realize that life can be lived with many different types of people not the best looking one or maybe even the most well off.
A realization that they're not as tight and sought after like they were in their 20's.
Conclusion that fairy tales don't really exist.
Possible damaged goods
3rd marriage because of good fit and a true apprecitation for someone not annoying the ever living out of them. Probably not for deep hard passionate love they had in their early 20's...its different love.
A different kind of fairytale is realized. Not so much a fantasy as a realitytale.
Either it works or they're so damaged from life that they'll remain single or bounce from bad relationship to bad relationship trying to rekindle original fairytale and passion.
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You gotta find a someone ready to come to terms with the rigors of life not some made up story. They need to know who they are and they need to be willing to compliment someone not own them. With kids involved the relationship needs to be viable for the long haul with a sane person. Then you can bring the passion based on appreciation and trust along with all the other reasons like nice s, good wet pussy, sucks a good knob...
Excellent idea.
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