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Cheating is cheating ... I have no double standard on that issue.
In a perfect world, divorce is the obvious answer. If he made her sign a pre-nup, then he is an idiot for not divorcing her.
Cheating is cheating ... I have no double standard on that issue.
So, what would have been his solution outside of divorce? The counseling didn't work because she was happy as is, which of course trumps all. Constant masterbation? Hoping things would get better?
When a man isn't happy, he's supposed to deal with it. When a woman isn't happy, they need to deal with it. Notice the difference?
Ever notice when a man needs to talk to you it usually starts, "I need to talk to you." Simple, right?
A woman, OTOH, will start the same conversation like this, "We need to talk."
I could ramble on and on, but will choose to do it over several posts. Grazie.
Bat. . Crazy.
Bingo! Why would she want to have sex with a guy who is cheating on her with pros utes? I am sure he is making his wife feel really special, loved, and cherished. Wouldn't you want to curl up with this sleeze?
And he is NOT doing some service to his children by keeping together this fraudulent marraige. Kids know more than their parents think. If he can't be faithful to their mother, he should divorce her. She deserves the opportunity to be with someone who can be faithful.
What is he teaching his children about relationships and how to handle problems. Does he hope his daughter grows up to have a husband who cheats on her with hookers?
Truth be told, he "left" his wife years ago. He just didn't tell her.
I'm just glad you guys aren't here to find a girlfriend. Because this thread effectively weeded out quite a few of you.
we're on the lookout for s lady! this thread gets the word out!
did you think i started posting as bigzax for fun?
Gets the word out that you're all s, what?
Last edited by SpursWoman; 01-18-2008 at 03:39 PM.
speak for yourself!
I see you quoted my post, but I don't necessarily agree with your response.
He's an asshole for cheating on her for eight years, but if everything is actually as presented in the opening post, he's not the only one who's ed up. If she knows what's going on, and I'd have a hard time believing that she doesn't, then she's every bit as much to blame for not confronting him and moving on.
See?
Now it's his fault, even if she was the one who turned him away. Multiple times. After he said he wasn't happy. After tennis elbow. After counseling.
Truth be told, he probably would have divorced her ass long ago if he didn't have to give her half of his .
I was 90% sure you were being your usual snarky self but I just wanted to have my bases covered.
And I got tricked into watching The Bridges of Madison County. I thought for sure that ol' Clint was going to blow them up.
Since I highly doubt he was loaded when they first got married, that's half of their .
But I still think she knows. I honestly can't think of any other instance that would turn me off of my husband for any period of time than if I knew he were being unfaithful or if I had any other reason not to trust him.
Of course, I make my own money ... so there would be no "period of time" other than the time it takes him to pick his up out of the front yard.
Once he decided cheating was an ACCEPTABLE solution for him, he destroyed any chance of working out a REAL solution.
With 8 years of cheating with hookers, she will get even more money from him.
Well, this is speculation, but the original post indicated that the sex life began to go downhill after the birth of the third child.
Is it worth pointing out the myriad conditions besides a newborn infant and two other young children that could lessen her desire? The toll childbirth takes on the vagina (even in a c-section) and the period of recovery time that some women require?
If they went to counseling and things didn't change, I would (and do) assume she bears some responsibility - but there are physical conditions which may cause a period of no sex or low sex drive.
The solution she worked out was to not give him what he needs and what any man expects in a marriage.Once he decided cheating was an ACCEPTABLE solution for him, he destroyed any chance of working out a REAL solution.
With 8 years of cheating with hookers, she will get even more money from him.
I am guessing his extensive cheating would impact that pre-nup, it one exists.
Except they are still having sex. The frequency is the question; she's not completely shut him down. She didn't kick him out to the couch - they just aren't having as much sex as he wants.
I think that is a distinction worth noting. A man expects sex in marriage - and this is getting it. Just not as often as he would like. There should be some room for compromise - no is joined into marriage with the idea of being their spouse's sex toy.
That's not a reasonable sex life. Wanting it more than bi-monthly isn't treating your woman like a sex-doll.
And maybe she was incapable. I bet she was not this way intentionally. Maybe she needed MEDICAL help. I never saw that mentioned- only counseling.
How about all those men who can not get it up for their wives? Let's not give them any medical help either.
There are medical reasons for low sex drive- not to mention the exhaustion of taking care of 3 little kids.
again with the generalizations!!?? speak for yourself lady!
you know...nobody is considering the high class hookers feelings in all this...
i would really like to know how she feels...
Has Ten Buck Tammy chimed in? I'm sure she considers herself high class.you know...nobody is considering the high class hookers feelings in all this...
i would really like to know how she feels...
hey, if i can't put a bucket of chicken on a hookers back? then she's got too much class for me...
It sounds more like semi-annually ... bi-monthly doesn't sound all that bad in comparison.
We don't need to kiss; we don't have to .
I'll pull out my ,
You can suck
Or at least a hand job.
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