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I already have sided with them, asswipe. You need to learn to read, too. And you're still wrong.
I'd rather be a ing asshole getting my buddy lapdances at the strip club on his last single night on Earth than sipping chocolate milkshakes at EZ's with a bunch of pissed-off groomsmen secretly plotting later to go without him.No, maybe it's because you and Dan and j-6 and tlong and everyone else who think like you are just a bunch of pricks who have to pay for it because no woman will be seen with you.
Bunch of ing assholes. But knowing the posting habits of some around here, it doesn't surprise me in the least.
Side with the womenfolk and the caring, sensitive types, Travis. With a statement like yours, you belong over there. We pricks know we're right on this one.
I already have sided with them, asswipe. You need to learn to read, too. And you're still wrong.
Maybe some guys are actually happy it's their last single night on Earth, because they think being single and having to pay for it, in reality, sucks.
For starters, I'll admit my bias on the matter - I've never been to a bachelor party that didn't involve strippers. Sue me.
Whether they're happy or not, considering the marriage is imminent, is irrelevant. I don't expect any of the women (or the men siding with them spewing out insults) here to understand that a bachelor party is just as much about the groom making sure the groomsmen a good time as it is the groomsmen showing the groom a good time. The groom did invite everyone, after all, and should know what the mob is going to want. They had to sit thriugh tuxedo rentals, a rehearsal dinner, bridesmaid pairings, et al. After that, it's time to party!
Usually when you get a bunch of guys together that either don't know each other very well or haven't seen each other for a while, a strip club is both an equalizer and an icebreaker. Not to mention a longtime tradition.
Excuse me...but the best man throws the party for the groom...not the other way around.
And I don't care about whether there are strippers or not...what is so ing hard for you to understand?
It's all about what the groom wants. If he wants strippers, fine. If he doesn't...then don't have them.
"STATED WISHES" are for men that wear capri pants. Strippers and hundred proof liquor are for those of us that pee standing up.
I didn't even have a bachelor party. Didn't see the need.
STATED WISHES are for human beings. I don't need hundred-proof liquor and strippers to have a good time. Obviously you do. But then I'm not surprised.
And I pee standing up and don't wear capri pants. REAL men are good friends and give respect.
Oh my, you must be about to get a divorce!
Seriously, if my bachelor party does not consist of hookers going down on each other and using different toys then I will be extremely disappointed.
No, real men are alcoholics and have to pay for attention.
You hit the nail on the head.No, real men are alcoholics and have to pay for attention.
If that's what you want, then fine...
Soooooooooo....are you saying that User isn't a real man?No, real men are alcoholics and have to pay for attention.
Soooooooooo....are you saying that User isn't a real man?
If he feels that real men need strippers and 100 proof liquor at a bachelor party, that's fine ... but it also needs to be understood that real women need lots of umbrella drinks and someone to dance with at hers. No woman at a club gets hit on more than some drunk with one of those stupid veils on, who just got finished with her own mini-strip show on the bar.
I'm glad I didn't go to your bachelor party. Booooooring.
I'm glad you didn't too...
Gayest post ever.
If my fiance wants a stripper for his bachelor party, I will be more than happy to give him a private show.
I usually never participate in this sort of thread. Gets too...wierd.
But I am recently engaged and am going thru the same ing argument right now.
First, I dont have any friends. None, nada, zero, zilch. Not a one. Nope, dont think for a moment there is even a singular person I could ask to be my best man. I have a very large family.
I have 2 brothers, so I asked one of them based on a compe ion (drinking contest, middle brother won, I am the youngest).
Of course, my bachelor brother wants to get me strippers (didnt matter which one I asked). I am the youngest so really, they dont give a what I want or dont. Women have a hard time understanding that about men. It doesnt matter what you want, its what they want. You relinquish control of yourself to the best man for one night. It is tradition, make no mistake.
But above all else, and this is the sticky part...your Father-in-law is going to be there.
I have been to a bachelor party with my father-to-be before. He was a great sport about it, truly he was. But my brothers can get waaaaaaay out of hand. Thats the only part that scares me.
Of course, my fiance' doesnt want me to have strippers in the worst way. Personally, I seriously dont care one way or other honestly.
Either way, I come off looking p-whipped or pissing off my fiance'. Its this kind of situation that always encouraged destination weddings.
Nope. Never been happier in my life.Oh my, you must be about to get a divorce!
Not knocking bachelor parties, I just didn't want one.
I know a lot of guys in this thread think that it's the friends of the groom's right to get strippers, that the groom really wants it, blahblahblah. But the bottomline is that the person that the groom has to live with the rest of his life isn't his brothers or friends, it's his wife.
So if the bride-to-be really feels strongly about it, then if the groom really loves her and respects her, he automatically doesn't even consider it. If the groom himself feels really strongly about wanting strippers, then he probably shouldn't be getting married.
I concur.
If that's the scenario, the prospective couple needs to focus more on trusting each other and less on what the groom can or can't do at his bachelor party.
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