Question for women

[Slomo]

I'm hoping her next hair cut she wants the Dora look again. That was so easy, I'm going to buy her some more Dora dvds.

My personal situation can in no way be compared to yours, but I'm the one who takes care of our daughter in the morning and drops her off at school - so hairdressing is a skill I have had to add to my already impressive resume

Seriously though, as years go by you get better at it and I think I'm going to miss that chore, when she won't need my help anymore (we're almost there now - she's 9)

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When I think of trust, however, it usually has more to do with the stuff that leads up to the cheating. I've been cheated on before, and I've been hurt by it, but more because it was a sign that the person I was with didn't trust or respect me enough to bring up the issues they had with the relationship before they went looking for something else. That's the kind of trust that I think is important, and also the kind of trust that's really hard to find. Tell me when I'm pissing you off, tell me when I'm being too clingy, tell me if that hot girl who hit on you in the club was a temptation -- no one wants to hear that , and it will possibly lead to an argument, but it's a of a lot better than hearing about it after it's too big of a problem to solve.

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While I wish you good luck, I also think you might want to go into UFO chasing - just because the odds of actually finding one are better.

[ploto]

I grew up with lots of guy friends. In general, I think that men actually make better friends than women do. That being said I have learned the hard way that it usually does not work. I lost two very dear male friends because they crossed that line. Unfortunately, I now agree with Slomo.

As to young women today, I have to say that I understand why young guys feel the way they do about them. Based upon my conversations, these women have little self-respect, no self-control, and many are medicated.

About her hair- without seeing it, it is hard to make suggestions. If it is curly and thick, you might want to try a shorter hairstyle that is easy to take care of- sort of wash and wear. If it is straight and fine, she can wear it longer and just pull it up or put it in barrettes.