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It's not about trust - there are people, believe it or not, who have morals and ideals that they like to uphold.
Maybe it's not a problem of trust, but just that one (or both) just don't like strippers!
It's not about trust - there are people, believe it or not, who have morals and ideals that they like to uphold.
I agree but it is also, for me at least, a matter of respect for the future bride. Damn, do I sound wimpy or what?
But yeah, without trust the marriage is going to have many bumps along the way. My wife goes out with the girls on Wednesday nights while I stay at home with the kids and when I go to the GTG's our out wth the guys she mostly stays at home and she knows sometimes I go, because the other guys are, to a gentleman's club and doesn't have a problem with it...unless she's had a few drinks then she tells it like it is.
Maybe it's not about trust. Perhaps the fiancee would just consider it disrespectful.
Wow...I think there's an echo in here...
my fiancee considers it very disrespectful, and i respect her feelings about it. it doesn't really affect me since i rarely went to strip clubs even before we started dating. i only went to them in las vegas, the last time was 99 and we met in 02. i think it's a total waste of money.
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I'd rather completely trust my wife than worry about what her morals are. Hopefully I would have had a good idea about those morals were before the proposal.
The others re-iterrated what I said ... Not everyone is comfortable with strip clubs, and even if a guy is, his future wife might not be ... so do you want to go to the honeymoon with your new wife pissed you had strippers, or be glad that you respected her opinion and didn't. I think the latter would be a lot more fun and rewarding than one night of stupidity.
This disrespect angle is bull . If your wife-to-be doesn't want you going to a strip club for your bachelor party out of "respect" I can't imagine the restrictions you'll face after the vows are exchanged.
"Respect" would be letting your mate do what he wanted in his last night of bachelorhood, and trusting him enough not to do anything he'd regret later.
How do you trust someone with no morals?
What other restrictions?
It sounds like "YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO AROUND WITH OTHER WOMEN" would be one of them. Damn....God Forbid.
Actually it's not bull . It's the truth. LJ and I trust each other completely.
I can guarantee you that I trust him in any cir stance. He could have naked strippers all over him and I wouldn't worry he'd do anything. But I think it would be completely disrespectful to ME and our commitment for each other for him to partake in such activities.
If you really want boobs in your face on your last night of bachelorhood, then you probably aren't ready to get married."Respect" would be letting your mate do what he wanted in his last night of bachelorhood ...
LJ was telling me about that last time we went to Perfect 10....
I actually agree with that. Like I said, I really dont care.
We only went for the food specials....
This I agree with, but for me its not about wanting boobs in your face at your party, but being allowed to if I wanted them.
Good for both of you. That's something to be proud of.
Would it have been disrespectful the night of his bachelor party - after all, you trust he wouldn't have done anything. Or just now that you are married? And would you be pissed that he did something you don't approve of - when really you don't believe he'd perform any act of betrayal in the first place?I can guarantee you that I trust him in any cir stance. He could have naked strippers all over him and I wouldn't worry he'd do anything. But I think it would be completely disrespectful to ME and our commitment for each other for him to partake in such activities.
I'm half-assed convinced that women (and a few select guys) just don't understand this. Strippers and large quan ies of alcohol at the bachelor party is just as big a part of the event as the wedding shower.If you really want boobs in your face on your last night of bachelorhood, then you probably aren't ready to get married.
I wonder how exactly one-sided this whole "letting your mate do what he wanted in his last night of bachelorhood" actually is.
Would he end up having a hissy fit if she spent her last single night on Earth with some hot, sweaty beefcake rubbing his in her face? I just don't see any REAL man being cool with that.
Or maybe it's you that doesn't understand.
Just because you believe that doesn't make it true.
Isn't the traditional San Antonio bachelorette party held at Hardbodies anyway?I wonder how exactly one-sided this whole "letting your mate do what he wanted in his last night of bachelorhood" actually is.
Would he end up having a hissy fit if she spent her last single night on Earth with some hot, sweaty beefcake rubbing his in her face? I just don't see any REAL man being cool with that.
I trust my girl enough to let her go. She comes home to me anyway.
A club like Hardbodies might be okay with you. How about private male strippers at a house party, who lay your girl down on the floor and do pushups into her mouth ... she can choose to open her mouth or not ... but his is still all over her face.Isn't the traditional San Antonio bachelorette party held at Hardbodies anyway?
I trust my girl enough to let her go. She comes home to me anyway.
This thread is getting waaaay off track. Let's review the facts.
A) Dude is getting married and is going to his bachelor party.
B) Dude doesn't want strippers at said bachelor party.
C) Dude's Best Man gets strippers anyway.
D) Dude has hissy fit and bolts from his own bachelor party.
I conclude from points "C" and "D" that Dude is a loser.
Right after she stops by my house....Isn't the traditional San Antonio bachelorette party held at Hardbodies anyway?
I trust my girl enough to let her go. She comes home to me anyway.
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