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Only by reputation....You know some expensive hookers!
Chopper, what price range are we talking about here? I am sure that I am in the ballpark.
Now the women will really be pissed at the poor bas .
"He is spending that much to ?!!!!!" " , that is a couple of Coach bags or a pair of Jimmy Choo shoes."
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I didn't know only guys with below average lengths, fake hair, and skin problems could patronize their services.
Wow, I have found a sense of humor in you....wonders.......
blackmail him to pay for your monthly escort.
this thread is staying on topic about as much as possible....I'll give it that.Thread hijack!
They would be lining up at johnsmith's door, if that were the case.
BTW, this thread is worthless without pics.
btw, for less than $1,000 you could have a 2 night binge in Costa Rica trip/hotel included. that's what I heard....
these aren't strip clubs girls
Yeah, they are all Richard Gere.
No you are right. I started to post that and agree with baseline_bum and then had to run into a meeting.
I don't think he's unreasonable for wanting more sex. I think she should try and accommodate him. That's her part of the compromise I was talking about with my original post.
He's still a ing asshole.
i'm sure their client base is pretty diverse, actually.Yeah, they are all Richard Gere.
As long as their client list doesn't include my husband, I honestly don't care what skeeze is throwing money at them.
As long as their client list doesn't include my husband, I honestly don't care what skeeze is throwing money at them.
I have married friends that are faithful to their wives, and I have a few that cheat. I guess it depends on how much you love your wife. And that's all encompassing from sexual intimacy to friendship. The one's that love their wives don't cheat.
And by the way, some men have small penises but some women have huge vaginas.
Sticking your penis in someone that isn't your wife is still cheating (unless she are you are both 100% no bull okay with it), no matter how you justify it.
Last edited by DieMrBond; 01-18-2008 at 07:45 PM.
We do not know the real details of what goes on in this relationship. This story is one-sided coming from the man who is cheating and justifying it to himself. I am guessing she might tell a different tale of their marriage. How do you know how he treats her otherwise? This situation is probably a lot more complicated than a man who wants sex and a wife who does not.
2Blonde-- I did not mean that medical care had not been mentioned in this thread; I meant that the OP did not mention that they ever did seek medical treatment- only therapy.
Yes, we need Dr. Mrs. Chopper to get the other side of the story and get it posted here. I'm sure it would be enlightening.
I think there are two distinct types of people in the world when it comes to committed relationships, and SW's quote sums one of them up. I am in her camp and believe that if you are in a committed relationship with someone (ie. you have agreed to be monogamous with them, which for me goes along with the friendship/spiritual attachment in a relationship), then cheating is the WORST thing you can do to the other person because it is the most sacred trust, and once it is broken everything else will eventually unravel.
The other main camp is the pragmatists, who believe that relationships have fluid boundaries and that sometimes lies are necessary in a relationship to keep it working for a greater good (the kids or whatever). A third small group (tlong and someone else) takes this to extremes by assuming that all men are cheaters and that's the way the world is, which is bull . Many men are faithful.
As for Chopper's scenario, the guy's deluding himself, and he' a lying bas , but if everything is working in the family it may be the bigger evil to bring it all out into the open and break the family up. I say he should STFU, never see another pros ute in his life, and re-commit himself to what is REAL in his life - his wife, his kids. He should remind himself of the ty thing he's done (betrayed the people he loves the most) every time he thinks about hookers, and hope that the shame of that will become associated with the thought of hookers thus breaking his compulsion. I still feel sorry for the wife, but is it better to get your husband back, or to punish him for past misdeeds? But then again, what the do I know?
Oh, and as for what Kori said about going "months on end without sex" - in a relationship, I agree that it's unreasonable, but when single, for some of us at least, it's a lifestyle!
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