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Do what makes the two of you happy. Don't worry about anyone else.
So my girlfriend and i were planning on getting married next summer. We found out a few weeks ago she was pregnant.
So we finally told her granmother she was pregnant. Now she insists we have to get married before the birth. She even said she would not come if we're still getting married next year.
I hate people like that, i mean WTF... ruining a moment like that. She's not even a religious person. She's just trying to piss us off.
She's the only person who doesn't like me in her family, i'm hoping it will not create too much drama.
Do what makes the two of you happy. Don't worry about anyone else.
You are not marrying her grandmother. It is your wedding so plan it and try, if you'd like, to accommodate your family but in the end you make the decisions.
That is how the wife and I did it. It keep those who have "suggestions" mostly quiet. Good luck!
word. the granny will be dead soon anyway.
Damn this might be the best advice you have ever given.
Joe hit it on the head. It's your wedding; the day it happens on is your decision. Call grandma's bluff.
Is grandma paying for this wedding?
+1you are not marrying her grandmother. It is your wedding so plan it and try, if you'd like, to accommodate your family but in the end you make the decisions.
That is how the wife and i did it. It keep those who have "suggestions" mostly quiet. Good luck!
And not even if Grandma is paying for it! It's YOUR wedding and YOU do what YOU want.
And congrats on both accounts ...
dude i told you to pull out....
now you see what happens when accidents happen which werent meant to occur,
unless she was filthy rich and you did it on purpose to marry into her family to get ur share of the fortune
I agree with everyone that you all should do what makes you happy. But just remember that no matter how unfair, illogical it may seem to you, she's probably just got her grand daughter's best interests in mind. Sure she may also be acting like a controlling , but considering how many engaged pregnant couples break up after the birth, maybe she doesn't want her granddaughter to end up a single parent. But yes, you should ultimately do what is right for you
thanks for the advicesYou are not marrying her grandmother. It is your wedding so plan it and try, if you'd like, to accommodate your family but in the end you make the decisions.
That is how the wife and I did it. It keep those who have "suggestions" mostly quiet. Good luck!
I'm still worried about her reaction though, i can see her coming to the wedding and ruining the day. I don't want her in the wedding but it's my girlfriend's call, it's her grandma.
god noIs grandma paying for this wedding?
dude i told you to pull out....
now you see what happens when accidents happen which werent meant to occur,
unless she was filthy rich and you did it on purpose to marry into her family to get ur share of the fortune
we've been together for 8 years (since highschool), so i'm surprised it didn't happen sooner.
oh. the ol' high school sweetheart thing. good luck with that.
Damn, everything you post is completely inappropriate and not funny.dude i told you to pull out....
now you see what happens when accidents happen which werent meant to occur,
unless she was filthy rich and you did it on purpose to marry into her family to get ur share of the fortune
Sonic, you and your girl should plan your wedding according to what Y'ALL want.
And congrats on the little one.
Say, "I'm sorry to hear that Grandma, we were really looking forward to having all of our family there." Then wait and see if she cracks or not.
exactly.... advice from us older guys here.... marrying H.S. sweetheart...
best to wait, the longer the better...
Does granny have a shotgun?
well we're living together for 7 years, i think it's enough time.
Damn, everything you post is completely inappropriate and not funny.
Sonic, you and your girl should plan your wedding according to what Y'ALL want.
And congrats on the little one.Thanks Summers! I haven't wanted to say anything because I thought he was a drug addict or re ed or something
ok, I guess 7 years is long enought to find out what each of you can't stand about the other!
Married my first major GF, lived together 2 years, then got married, divorced 3 years after that...
2nd marriage now... going on 17 years...
I called him a moron a long time ago, didn't do any good...Thanks Summers! I haven't wanted to say anything because I thought he was a drug addict or re ed or something
Congrats on the the newest Spurs fan.
17 years, nice.
so who couldn't stand the other?
You're never going to support a family and raise kids if you listen to other people's bull . Take a stand and tell her old ass to Walk if she doesn't like the way you two are doing things. Plus your chick will see you in a new light and know she will be taken care of.
and Lost fan, he/she will have to like this show.Congrats on the the newest Spurs fan.
I was fine with her, she decided after a while that she wanted to be free to go around and do whatever, at whatever time, with no responsibilities...so who couldn't stand the other?
luckily, no kids.
Have my one and only kid from my 2nd and current wife.
Absolutely!and Lost fan, he/she will have to like this show.
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