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Have you ever used or heard the phrase, "CALM THE DOWN!!!" ???
Why Men Are Afraid of Women
LAST UPDATE: 4/26/2005 5:55:55 PM
Posted By: Karina Cardona
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Marriage & Family Therapist Dr. Patricia Love (author of "Hot Monogamy" and "The Truth About Love") explains why some men are afraid of women.
1. Bottom line: women do not understand how important it is to a man to please the woman in his life.
2. His self-worth is in her hands. If she is unhappy, he feels like a failure. When a woman talks about her problems or unhappiness to another woman, this is an invitation to come closer. When a woman talks about her problems to her mate, he hears it as criticism of him.
3. At one time a man could feel secure because a woman was dependent upon him for economic security. This is no longer the case.
4. Words hurt. Women don't understand how threatening their words are and how their criticism can overwhelm a man. The man who looks like he is uncaring, withdrawn or stonewalling is often overwhelmed by a woman's demands and expectations.
5 Anger stays in a man's system longer. When he is angry cortisol is dumped into his system rapidly and it stays in his system for a long period of time.
Tips for women:
Accept the fact that the man in your life is not like your girlfriend.
Beware of your tone.
Make sure your voice is calm and kind.
Curb your criticism. It hurts more than you think.
Be more understanding of his need for time alone and a cooling off period.
Use appreciation generously and often.
Dr. Patricia Love, Marriage and Family Therapist
www.patlove.com
Who the flip is this moronic woman?????? Be aware of your tone???????? HEY........YOU BEWARE MY TONE AND THE FIST THAT COMES IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING!!!
Have you ever used or heard the phrase, "CALM THE DOWN!!!" ???
I'm afraid of that avatar.
And that's me on one of my better days!
Probably because he isn't listening. "Uh, huh". "Yep".
If he's listening he won't here it as criticism but there are too many guys who need to learn how to listen and care enough to put-aside what they are doing for a moment. It's not always that easy to do, but it's necessary.
[Raises bull flag]
Tips for women:
Accept the fact that the man in your life is not like your girlfriend.
i don't want to go shopping and would you shut the up about your day...
Beware of your tone.
don't sass me woman...
Make sure your voice is calm and kind.
who you yellin at gilrl?!
Curb your criticism. It hurts more than you think.
you hurt me...i'm going to the bar...
Be more understanding of his need for time alone and a cooling off period.
and don't give me when i get back...
Use appreciation generously and often.
get down and suck my $#@!.
Dr. Patricia Love, Marriage and Family Therapist-Old School M.D.
interesting article.
If that aint the biggest load of I've ever read.Anger stays in a man's system longer
No doubt!
I will remind people of how they pissed me off like 8 years later too! And everyday in between.
I was wondering who the heck was that ugly B*tch!!
It's not nice to make fun of pseudo's looks. Being married to Sequ for years will do that to you.
Personally, I think she HOTTT.
this one scares me more....
Tips for women:
Accept the fact that the man in your life is not like your girlfriend.
i don't want to go shopping and would you shut the up about your day...
Beware of your tone.
don't sass me woman...
Make sure your voice is calm and kind.
who you yellin at gilrl?!
Curb your criticism. It hurts more than you think.
you hurt me...i'm going to the bar...
Be more understanding of his need for time alone and a cooling off period.
and don't give me when i get back...
Use appreciation generously and often.
get down and suck my $#@!.
Dr. Patricia Love, Marriage and Family Therapist-Old School M.D.
interesting article.
this one scares me more....
You don't think Dave is pretty????
Dave needs to hurry up and release his damn music. I need MORE.
Dave makes a HOT B*tch compared to the drugged out skank in pseudofan's avatar!
DUDE....!!!! IF YOU CALL ME ONE MORE NAME........YOU ARE GOING TO PAY!
I don't know who you think you are GA A.....but you shouldn't be talking about me when I haven't even done anything to you!
*crawls away whimpering
I don't know who you think you are GA A.....but you shouldn't be talking about me when I haven't even done anything to you!
sorry, but we are not all just born beautiful. this is me and i can't do anything about it, calling me a drugged out skank is not helping my self esteem........
nor your looks
"Anger stays in a man's system longer..."
Damn straight, ever heard of "Blue Balls"?
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