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Hmm. So it wasnt his birthday and he just started getting physical with her without any outside influence because she wasn't told happy birthday? Hmmmm.
dateFORT LAUDERDALE — A marital spat that began when a Plantation man didn’t wish his wife a happy birthday and then escalated into a domestic violence charge, resulted in an usual bond court ruling by a perceptive judge.
Instead of setting bond or keeping Joseph Bray locked up, he ordered him to treat his spouse to dinner, a bowling date and then to undergo marriage counseling.
“He’s going to stop by somewhere and he’s going to get some flowers,” Judge John “Jay” Hurley said during the first appearance hearing. “And then he’s going to go home, pick up his wife, get dressed, take her to Red Lobster. And then after they have Red Lobster, they’re going to go bowling.”
Hurley emphasized that he would not have ordered such whimsical conditions for Bray, 47, if his domestic violence charge was more serious, or if his wife appeared to be injured or in danger of being harmed.
“It was a minor incident, in the court’s opinion,” he said. “The court would not normally do that if the court felt there was some violence but this is very, very minor and the court felt that that was a better resolution than other alternatives.”
Reading from an arrest affidavit, Hurley said Bray pushed his wife onto their couch and put his hand on her neck. He held up his fist to hit her, but never struck her, Hurley said.
A woman who identified herself as Bray’s wife attended the hearing and explained that the couple’s argument started on Monday after her husband didn’t acknowledge her birthday.
Hurley asked her is she was hurt or in any fear of her husband. After she said she wasn’t, and Hurley confirmed that Bray had no prior arrests, the judge continued his questioning with a lighter tone.
“Do you have something you like to go to?” he asked. “Is there a restaurant you like to go to?”
The woman answered that she enjoyed bowling and eating at Red Lobster. And so the judge made his decision accordingly.
“Flowers, birthday card, Red Lobster, bowling,” Hurley said. He also ordered that the couple begin seeing a marriage counselor within a week.
Hmm. So it wasnt his birthday and he just started getting physical with her without any outside influence because she wasn't told happy birthday? Hmmmm.
Red Lobster and bowling. Nothing better. Poor bas .
I'd have opted for jail...
You never, ever forget your wife's birthday.
Well yeah, but that's not what I'm getting at.You never, ever forget your wife's birthday.
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