Shut up, got.
...you decided to spend the rest of your life with.
Running the streets, hitting the bars looking for Miss Tonight is totally different than what I'm talking about. If the goal is to get your wet, it, whatever it takes will work. The stories I could tell and all of you have yours. Obviously the one big bummer was there you sit on her couch as she slips into something more comfortable, then in walks her husband. Yes size does matter, being a biggie saved my ass more than once. When I'd hear.."leave"...it was always.."yes sir".
Anyway...
Once you decide to settle down you better have all those thoughts of strange pussy out of your mind, you best have satisfied that hunger before you decide to tie the knot. Money is huge, if you don't have any forget about it, nothing sucks more than being poor and stuck with one woman. If you're poor you'll need that strange pussy to cheer you up. I'm dead serious.
If you guys have money, very cool, yes $$$$$$$$$ does buy happiness anyone saying it doesn't is stupid. You want to keep her you'll need to buy her things, satisfy her materialistic wants and needs. Your cute little dimples only last so long.
You treat her like she is your prized possesion, because she is. You make damn sure you put her first and she knows this. Your buddies, football, hobbies are what you do after she is taken care of. Do all you can to make her life as easy/enjoyable as you can. Be neat, help with the house chores, none of this silly ass..that's woman's work. That will not work.
Listen to her, there is nothing more important in a relationship, not even that $$$$$ I talked about. Women simply adore a man who listens, they will gobble you up because it's so rare and they know it. Little things are big to a woman, little love notes, gifts for no reason other than you love her.
Those of you still at the...women are hoes/ es...stage of life are too immature for a serious relationship with a full grown woman, stick to running the streets, sitting on bar stools checking out that nights potenial Miss Tonight, which is fun for awhile, until sex without emotion starts becoming a drag.
Find a lady then treat her like one, listen when she talks, make her feel important. Life can be great, nothing compares to making love.
Last edited by Avante; 11-15-2012 at 03:33 PM.
Shut up, got.
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I've never been with a full grown woman before, I have sniffed my sisters painties however, she weighs 300 pounds.
Words of wisdom.....if you plan on being happy with a wife or significant other. I royally ed up my marriage. She left me for half the reasons you talk about. I lost a really, really good woman. Tossin her salad couldnt keep it together. Sadly, I admit that as well. BUT!!!! There is light at the end of the tunnel. My new g/f of almost a year is my top priority. I learned from all the in up I did in my marriage. Gonna love this one, treat her like she should be treated, listen to her, cater to her...........toss her salad. You know, the things a niggra should do.![]()
Didn't read. Shut the up got
Wow, yall had some great input on this thread![]()
I will beat your ass with your own 2" ............ johnny
Well, we can't all be expected to ruminate on the value of licking assholes.
Dont hate because Im a lil nasty in the sack............![]()
As all us men know, women are strange, so you have to anticipate things, put yourself in the best position to get the reaction you want. You cannoit survive in a relationship being lazy and taking things for granted. It does take creativity and work, you have to plug in to what it takes to make it work. It all starts with communication, listening.
Last edited by Avante; 11-15-2012 at 03:35 PM.
Don't read.
BINGO!!!! When my g/f vents......I sit there and STFU. When she is done, she gives me a hug and says thanks for listening. I didnt hear half the she said.![]()
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Never been with a woman.
My feelings about you as a poster have nothing to do with what you claim to do in the bedroom.
"being a biggie"![]()
I make a point to pick sometime during the day to ask her...."what's up?" Most the time she'll smile.."not much"....then a few little nothings and we are both off into our own little worlds. Then there are those times she does want to talk about something so I give her 100& of my attention. I know she loves that about me because she shows it.
I was just kidding........... I do listen. Its very important to actually HEAR what they are saying, not just sitting there listening. I learned that as well
So many relationships go down the drain because he didn't pay attention to her. That is without question the most important element in a relationship.
johnsmith
I usually play along with you because it's funny. Not really in the mood today little fella, ok? Maybe later, we can play me vs the dummy, ok?
Last edited by Avante; 11-15-2012 at 03:50 PM.
When and if the woman does decide to bail..........typically there is a dude on the other line that is listening to what she has to say. And usually he is giving her some advise that will destroy yall two. So yeah, pay attention to her.....and her needs. Otherwise some other clown will.
So true, so very true. But he isn't the one paying the bills, cleaning the house, seeing her at her worst, dealing with her moods. He sees her at her best and in a whole different setting. She sees him at his best, not all laid out in front of the TV.
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