Risky for a man in this day and age, tbh.
Is it worth it?
tbh
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Risky for a man in this day and age, tbh.
I used to love the idea of marriage. But, things are so much different in this ed up world. Women have become the aggressive, dominate, more likely to cheat ones now. I blame the men to a point, because we really started the big time screwin around. BUT!!!! then on the other hand. A woman was the first one to bite that gattdayum apple and ruined it all for us niggras!!!!!
only if your ugly
You better have all that running around out of your system if you do plan on getting married. I didn't and it cost me two marriages. I was more concerned with what my buddies thought than my wife, that will not work.
Once hanging out becomes a bore and you do prefer the compainionship of a female over your friends, then get married. I met Judy when I was 33, I was tired of the one night stands, the unemotional sex. The parties, the drunk, ending up in jail.
This marriage is about as solid as it gets, we are madly in love, never fight and respect each others wishs. If I would have met her at 23, no way it would have worked. I wasn't ready.
Marriage is great once you grow up.
Good stuff.
Get it out of your system - all the whoring around - and then - take the time to get to know the person you want to live with for a long long time.
Observe her. Pay attention. What does she do when things don't go her way?
You got it bro, if you're still thinking about what your buddies are doing or making moves on that nice ass at work, forget marriage.
Been happily married for 8 years in October. In general I would recommend it. I've also seen enough good friends go through divorces out of what I thought were strong marriages to urge caution before diving in. Honestly it's not rocket science. It's a little more complicated than some other life changing decisions (buying a house for instance) but the process should really come down to the same basic principles. Take your time, do your research and ask some questions, and if you have doubts you're probably better off not pulling the trigger.
Exactly why my marriage failed. I was like "niggra, I will call her and go home when Im ready", hand me another Vodka tonic niggra!!!"
Roll into the house tore up and my woman asleep. Niggra could have had some good loving and not be all hung over the next day hangin out all night.............DUMB!!!!!!
you sound like a ing redneck drunk...Judy deserves better...let her have me for X-Mas Avante...she needs a bull treat...
I really do respect my g/f now like "Truth Bombs Avante said", and it works so much better. I cater to her as well. I rub her pretty feet, give her hugs and a kiss when I go to work, and when I get home. Ive learned how to be good to a woman, and they return the favor. I know she isnt my wife, but she thinks about me all the time........ asks if I need anything when she leaves or is out shopping...whatever. I KNOW what it takes now. Just wish I knew better years ago.
I lost a great wife.
Remember this if nothing else. She is a human being, she has feelings. Make sure you are good to her........... that is all.
You know how a newborn isn't at all concerned with anyone else? We start seeing that sort of behavior lessen as we mature. Some never outgrow it. You will have to out grow it if you plan on a marriage working.
She's already raised two kids I seriously doubt she wants to raise another.
You guys are ing pathetic....it's good you guys finally learned it but the is common ing sense anyways....[email protected] Avante gettting drunk, landing in jail and not knowing how to treat a pussy until he met Judy...you guys may not realize it but yall just pussy whipped
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What is funny Avante? All the fools that told me to man up and control that relationship are all still married and go home now. I lost mine over these fools.
she doesn't have to raise me...I just want 1 night as her B-day or X-mas present...I won't even charge Avante this one will be on me...
I got married 15 years ago when I was 31 years old (wife too). It's been great but you definitely have to wait until your done thinking with your . Sex is still good but after banging the same person 10000 times you definitely will roam if you haven't gotten it out of your system before you get married. Everyone I know that got married young got divorced and everyone I know that got married after they were done chasing pussy is still happily married so that should tell you something.
Yep HAPPILY pussy whipped!!!! I dont listen to niggras like you anymore. Thats why my got fugged up. Its all good playa, do yo thang.
Dude stick to what you know, ok? Whatever that might be, this isn't it.
Adults talking here son, run along.
you are clowning yourself dawg....it is sad you're just figuring it out....don't get your hopes up to high dawg..she could be treating you so well because she's ing someone else...if seem predictable Lebomb and if she knows you are she's gonna play all over you dawg....you're setting yourself up for a MAJOR EPIC fall...
PS: Avante is gonna lose Judy to Spur talk...
You've never listened to a like Kool because had you..you wouldn't just be finding out how to treat a woman...you're perceptive powers are not where they should be...and I can tell...
WRONG! Thats all I can say mayne. I thought just like you.......got on. Women want a bad boy that treats them good. Thats me playa!
So you've been through 2 divorces..you're a self admitted druken brawler likely to land in jail....found yourself a low self esteem woman with 2 kids previously divorced and now you're the old wise owl? Get the outta here...you're just an old dude who drinks beer living off his ing wife and bull ting with s online all day.... I got you pegged dawg
I listened to plenty niggras like you............ended up divorced. LMAO!!!
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