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    Let me start off by saying that we are 100% sure that I am not the father..

    I love my girlfriend very much..

    But after 2 years she had a one night stand with an ex after we got into a fight and is now pregnant with his baby (And she no longer keeps contact with that ex). She says that she will never do it again and that she regrets it very much. She also knows that if it happens again I will leave without a second thought..

    Now, my problem isn't that she cheated...it's that she's pregnant with his baby..
    I could eventually move past the fact that she cheated on me..

    But I have a lot of anger towards the child..
    And I'm not sure how to get past that anger and think logically..

    As I said I love her very much and don't want to leave her..
    But I'm not sure how to move on from all of this and let go of the anger..



    On a side note, I get people right and left saying "leave her, once a cheater always a cheater." I don't want to hear that. It just makes me doubt everything all over again. I made my choice to stay with her. All I need now is some advice on how to handle this..

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    My Name Is Mitchell Brown
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    cuck

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    silverblk mystix
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    Well, now there are two.


    Cucks, that is.

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    Let me start off by saying that we are 100% sure that I am not the father..

    I love my girlfriend very much..

    But after 2 years she had a one night stand with an ex after we got into a fight and is now pregnant with his baby (And she no longer keeps contact with that ex). She says that she will never do it again and that she regrets it very much. She also knows that if it happens again I will leave without a second thought..

    Now, my problem isn't that she cheated...it's that she's pregnant with his baby..
    I could eventually move past the fact that she cheated on me..

    But I have a lot of anger towards the child..
    And I'm not sure how to get past that anger and think logically..

    As I said I love her very much and don't want to leave her..
    But I'm not sure how to move on from all of this and let go of the anger..



    On a side note, I get people right and left saying "leave her, once a cheater always a cheater." I don't want to hear that. It just makes me doubt everything all over again. I made my choice to stay with her. All I need now is some advice on how to handle this..
    My specific recommendation for you:

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    Robert Horry mode ohmwrecker's Avatar
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    Why are you angry at the child?

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    Orange Whip? Orange Whip? Viva Las Espuelas's Avatar
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    Man, if you've already decided that you want to stay with her then you're a bigger man than me. I wouldn't put up with that. If you have anger towards the kid then that ain't good, either. Make sure this is what you want then go through with it. Are you sure this other guy didn't give her an STD, also???? Good luck, man.

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    silverblk mystix
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    This relationship will last 50 years - at least.

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    Controversy Koolaid_Man's Avatar
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    Let me start off by saying that we are 100% sure that I am not the father..

    I love my girlfriend very much..

    But after 2 years she had a one night stand with an ex after we got into a fight and is now pregnant with his baby (And she no longer keeps contact with that ex). She says that she will never do it again and that she regrets it very much. She also knows that if it happens again I will leave without a second thought..

    Now, my problem isn't that she cheated...it's that she's pregnant with his baby..
    I could eventually move past the fact that she cheated on me..

    But I have a lot of anger towards the child..
    And I'm not sure how to get past that anger and think logically..

    As I said I love her very much and don't want to leave her..
    But I'm not sure how to move on from all of this and let go of the anger..



    On a side note, I get people right and left saying "leave her, once a cheater always a cheater." I don't want to hear that. It just makes me doubt everything all over again. I made my choice to stay with her. All I need now is some advice on how to handle this..
    first off I believe you're a nothing but a letter writer playing games with the peons of ST... but I hope this is true....you deserve such a fate

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    silverblk mystix
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    first off I believe you're a nothing but a letter writer playing games with the peons of ST... but I hope this is true....you deserve such a fate

    Obvious troll is obvious - but I agree with you lol

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    Veteran Wild Cobra's Avatar
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    Well, you can be a cuck and a by living off his child support!

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    Rum and Coke SupremeGuy's Avatar
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    That actually happened to a friend of mine back in college. lol

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    Harlem, did you get this off reddit, tbh?

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    俺はまんこが大好きなんだよ baseline bum's Avatar
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    That actually happened to a friend of mine back in college. lol
    Was the father black?

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    All Hail the Legatron The Reckoning's Avatar
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    obv troll thread is obv tbh

    but as koriwhat once said

    "can't turn a ho into a housewife!"

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    at least your girl didn't steal several millions from your bank account to by a gym for another dude who slept with her. No woman would feel happy living with a bi-sexual, even if he was 6'11 tall and strong as . And you really have no right to complain about your girl's affair imho, when you're cheating on her all the time. You hang out with guys ing up each other's butts, what else do you think that is if that's not cheating?

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    Eat it as it's born.

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    Rum and Coke SupremeGuy's Avatar
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    Was the father black?
    Yes.

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    Believe.
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    Make her get an abortion.

    Then dump her.

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    Rum and Coke SupremeGuy's Avatar
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    Make her get an abortion.

    Then dump her.

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    Eat it as it's born.


    That is ing funny right there, I don't care what you say, that is ing funny!

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    I get people right and left saying "leave her, once a cheater always a cheater." I don't want to hear that. It just makes me doubt everything all over again.
    Also, be prepared for this EX niggra to always be in yalls lives. That child is his and he has every right to see the child. Also, if she banged him and got pregnant with his child when yall were together, what would make her not bang him again? Dont be a fool man. Leave this woman. There are plenty of FAITHFUL fish in the see niggra.

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    Also, be prepared for this EX niggra to always be in yalls lives. That child is his and he has every right to see the child. Also, if she banged him and got pregnant with his child when yall were together, what would make her not bang him again? Dont be a fool man. Leave this woman. There are plenty of FAITHFUL fish in the see niggra.

    I have to agree.
    The problems will only get worse.
    And a resentment of an unborn child will escalate.
    There are more and better women out there.
    If you think you have problems now, wait until she has the child.
    There is someone out there for everyone.
    But you might want to get a paternity test done first.

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    Scarlett our Goddess4ever
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    they're always risks like this when you're in a relationship with a that's why smartest guys like me, Jacob and Isaac Newton all choose to be lifelong celibates imho. A smart man would always think with his brain, instead of his or ball sack

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    Believe..I'l Have another Biernutz's Avatar
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    You resent the kid now. Will it get any better raising another mans kid?
    Unless she has tons of money Move on!

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