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    Are women attracted to married men? I was wondering because I have a lot of friends who are youg women and single. They always seem to be attracted to men who are married. Is it just me or is this true? If its true, why? What is it about a married man? And, would any of you single women flirt or start something with a married man?


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    Gone Crazy, be back later CrazyOne's Avatar
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    It's because we're already housebroken.

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    subconciously many women are attracted to married men. often without know they are married. mostly becasue a married man has a different baring, a different sense of priorities... he has an at ude that says he's marriage worthy. It's damn attractive.

    but to actually take that step and seriously go after or date a married man atuomatically negates everythign you liked about him. He instantly becomes some thing you don;t want. He's crap casue he's willign to cheat on his wife.

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    It's because we're already housebroken.


    short and succinct.




    side note: lately my husbands getting hit on all the time. Even when he's eating lunch all sweaty and nasty ass dirty in his grungy work uniform and he hasn't shaved in days.
    I swear these chicks can just smell the stable/settled down/i love my kids/and have a job wafting off of him like CoolWater or some .

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    Gone Crazy, be back later CrazyOne's Avatar
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    You tell 'em, ObiWan!

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    He's crap cause he's willing to cheat on his wife.
    Unless she's really hot. You get one mulligan.

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    but to actually take that step and seriously go after or date a married man atuomatically negates everythign you liked about him. He instantly becomes some thing you don;t want. He's crap casue he's willign to cheat on his wife.
    Makes a lot of sense. I can see that.

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    Totally. I couldn't get a girl's attention with a gun when I was single...but as soon as I put on that ring, I was getting hit on by waitresses, cashiers, bosses, wife's cousins...it's crazy. I know for damn sure it ain't me, it must be the ring.

    ...but ObiWan's completely right: you can flirt back a little, but you lose all your mojo if you don't play the "I'm sorry, I'm a happily married man" card. That's the hook, and the irony. They're only attracted to you if there's no chance they can have you. It's something about the respect that attracts them. They respect you because you respect your wife and the sanc y of marriage.

    Marriage is cool, I like it. All the attention I wanted when I was single, none of the bull . I can flirt (because my wife is really cool and super secure), but don't have to deal with dating or drama. Like my wife says, "I don't care where you get your appe e, as long as you eat at home."

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    Makes a lot of sense. I can see that.

    of course some women are really stupid. and those are the ones you see on Dr. Phill and Oprah crying thier eyeballs out about their awfull marriages and how they were cheated on ....

    and all thier story's start out: well when i met him he was married to his 1st wife....
    well there you go you freakin re !

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    Chicks dig the wedding ring. Grab one of those and a Purple Heart next time you head to Cooleros for a drink. I have no idea how to spell that place.

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    Chicks dig the wedding ring. Grab one of those and a Purple Heart next time you head to Cooleros for a drink. I have no idea how to spell that place.


    I was thinking about getting a fake ring to see if it works, but that would put me in the "Desparado" list.

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    There is a bar called "culeros"? Is it a gay bar? A "culero" is your ass, or someone who takes it up there, FYI.

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    Can I join the "desperado" list?

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    many chicks like married men and guys with gfs.. i think it is because they know they can hook up with no strings attached... another reason is... the same reason he has a wife or gf is the same reason this new chick wants him too

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    women don't seem to care if a guy is married or not...that is my experience.

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    There is a bar called "culeros"? Is it a gay bar? A "culero" is your ass, or someone who takes it up there, FYI.
    Yeah, I've heard that word from family members about a million times. I think you have to be married to go to this club though. It might be a requirement.

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    may the force kick yo ass ObiwanGinobili's Avatar
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    i thought that was coolo (colo?)

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    mostly becasue a married man has a different baring
    A married man gets undressed differently?


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    My friend just got married. It was my other friend, the married friend, and myself at this gambling boat in New Orleans and all these hot chicks (females) kept hitting on him. I was in shock. This guy is 23 and some of the women were like in their mid-30's and very attractive. All I could say was, "Luckeeeeee."

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    culo maybe?

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    See you when it burns SWC Bonfire's Avatar
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    i thought that was coolo (colo?)
    A culo is an asshole.

    I'm sure both words have multiple meanings.

    You learn a lot going to school in Gonzales, Tx.

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    subconciously many women are attracted to married men. often without know they are married. mostly becasue a married man has a different baring, a different sense of priorities... he has an at ude that says he's marriage worthy. It's damn attractive.

    but to actually take that step and seriously go after or date a married man atuomatically negates everythign you liked about him. He instantly becomes some thing you don;t want. He's crap casue he's willign to cheat on his wife.
    I don't think that is completely true. I believe in order to judge a man to be "crap" just because he went outside his marriage you must first take a look at the nature of his marriage. Perhaps there are reasons for his "fooling around". He could fall in love with another woman because his wife and him just don't love each other anymore. You can't just say "its wrong to date a married man".

    Personally I don't believe in marriage. I believe a couple can coexist in a loving relationship, commited to one another without having to enact a contract to enforce the very things the relationship is supposed to be about. Marriage puts restraints on a relationship, not necesarily legal restraints (although...) but restraints pertaining to the matter of the heart. Back in the day, marrige used to be a symbolic ceremony with which to declare your love for one another. Nowadays it has become more about ensuring that we don't get the short end of the stick if and once its over. I find the whole thing very hypocritical.

    Point is a relationship is based on love and trust, and its rules are arbitrary at best, in which both sides are to blame for its failure. It doesn't matter if a guy is married, what matters is how well you trust in his and your ability to make YOUR relationship work.

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    A culo is an asshole.

    I'm sure both words have multiple meanings.

    You learn a lot going to school in Gonzales, Tx.

    yeah, thats it.
    culo is the asshole/anus
    and cola is tail or ass as a whole

    thats why Coca-Cola is basicly ass juice.

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    I don't think that is completely true. I believe in order to judge a man to be "crap" just because he went outside his marriage you must first take a look at the nature of his marriage. Perhaps there are reasons for his "fooling around". He could fall in love with another woman because his wife and him just don't love each other anymore. You can't just say "its wrong to date a married man".

    Personally I don't believe in marriage. I believe a couple can coexist in a loving relationship, commited to one another without having to enact a contract to enforce the very things the relationship is supposed to be about. Marriage puts restraints on a relationship, not necesarily legal restraints (although...) but restraints pertaining to the matter of the heart. Back in the day, marrige used to be a symbolic ceremony with which to declare your love for one another. Nowadays it has become more about ensuring that we don't get the short end of the stick if and once its over. I find the whole thing very hypocritical.

    Point is a relationship is based on love and trust, and its rules are arbitrary at best, in which both sides are to blame for its failure. It doesn't matter if a guy is married, what matters is how well you trust in his and your ability to make YOUR relationship work.


    oooooooook..............

    but the subject here is why women may feel an initial attraction to a man who is married or otherwise taken.
    not if it's ok to cheat, when it's ok to cheat, marriage, principles of marriage etc etc.

    so yes. if a women is attracted to a man because he's married then she's gonna ruin it forherslef if she actually persues and gets involved.

    lets stick to the topic.

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    The bar is spelled "Cool Arrows" and has a picture of a silly indian out front.

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