I normally avoid laying out my personal stuff on the internets, but , I'm reeling so much right now, I'm asking everyone/anyone in sight what to do.
I had some nukes dropped on me this past week regarding the wife, which after looking back the past 1-2 years I should have seen it and I realize I am a ing idiot. I've mulled over everything a billion times and there's no where to go but to get a divorce.
I have a 7 year old and some have already told me I need to go all out to get full custody. Any other practical advice? Step 1? Step 2?
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Yeah, sit down with her and find the way back to marital harmony. "For better or worse." You walked the walk & talked the talk. Prove it.
Don't scar your 7 year old with another "dad." He's gonna put his hands on your blood...probably in kindness, but, possibility in discipline. You can stop that probability/possibility now. This is this child's only childhood. Don't compromise it, hate. Don't do it. Let this child have his childhood unen bered sans the catastrophe of divorce.
Your marriage was pure once upon a time. If you thought you were going to go 50 years and have it pure at the end you were mistaken. Divorce now and the next woman you find you'll have problems with, maybe the same, maybe different, but, you'll have problems, dire ones, like you have right now. You gonna divorce then too? Make your fight now, on the sacred ground where you exchanged vows with this woman.
Swallow your pride and take it upon yourself to heal your marriage, to do everything in your power to save it. Don't keep count. Throw the count out. You, not her, you. Look at yourself and take responsibility for your failings here. Don't look at her, hate. Just you.
Marriage was a mistake in the first place, and that's exactly what the smartest man should try his best to avoid tbh.
How do you feel about pros utes, Frank?
I'm a lifelong celibate so I don't know how other people feel about pros utes, but I don't see no sin in pros ution if marriage and relationship are accepted in the society. For me, a relationship is just a long term pros ution deal, and I ain't never gonna touch none of them tbh.
1. Do not move out if you are buying a house.
2. Move your money into another account
3. Cancel your credit card.
3. go get a lawyer. Quick.......
Bad news is the state of Texas wont take kids away from a unwilling mother unless she is a Ax Murder..
I think the child can choose who they want to live with at 13 years old...If i am wrong correct me!
The original cuck.
looks like Steve Kerr is the one being cucked...
Lmao b-but only m>s and gtown think the cuck meme is funny![]()
And Kawhi and Ice Cube are getting sucked off by the Wendy's girl
Blake
The reason why 98.7% of ST users have cuck in their vocabulary.
I see now why Wendy's has a gazillion chicken sammiches. Get the black in so she can be bukkaked.
Duncan. Barry. Porker.
Kerr used to work as a staff member for the Spurs, no surprise if he was cucked tbh.
I would take threads advice. You went all in. You stay all in. You make that change...make sure its logical.
Kind words, O.
& hater, give up your::: hobbies, drinking, smoking, fast food,,,(((even friends/for awhile.))) Put nobody, NOBODY ahead of her and the child ever again. Cut your TV watching in half, don't eat in front of it, EVER. Eat at the table as a family. Cook for her, or with her. Don't come here. Keep clean shaven & groomed, shower daily, brush your teeth, then floss, then take the Water Pik out from under the sink, cut the seal, take it out of it's box, plug it in, and use it twice daily. Smile at her, play with your child, force yourself to play with him/her and force yourself to enjoy it, no matter what you feel. When you're old you'll both remember. Practice patience, whether it's at a traffic stop, light, or line in a store, or, bank. Wait your turn with dignity and confidence. And when calamity hits don't judge, don't go crazy, calmly work your way out of it. There is a solution to every problem. Don't go on a URL that you wouldn't mind her sitting next to you when you light it.
Provide for, protect & lead your family.
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