Oh, yes. There will be lots of serious advice forthcoming here.
There's this woman at my wife's work that's into men and women. It's only a matter of time before she wants to have a threesome with my wife and I.
Has anyone had one before and if so, how did it turn out? My general feeling is these things always end the same....bad.
Any SERIOUS advice?
Oh, yes. There will be lots of serious advice forthcoming here.
Cue Cosmic Cowboy.
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^^I'll turn on my bull filter then.
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I did it in college with my 1st hubby (we were only dating at the time) and his brother. It went fine, nothing bad happened. I did feel kind of awkward around my bro-in-law after that, I think he wanted to do it again. There were others with people I didn't know so that was better. Unless you have a very solid marriage I wouldn't recommend it though.
If you have never done this before, I wouldn't start with your wife. No matter how much she says it's OK, one or both of you will probably feel twinges of guilt later and/or regret it. It's very rare that one or more parties involved doesn't have some level of regret later.
do it and damn the consiquences
are you being serious?
what in the ? you were in a threesome with your husband and HIS BROTHER? is anyone else disturbed by this? NASTY!!! brings a new meaning to "keeping it in the family"
Wow, what a ! ... um... would you like to go out sometime?
Well...there was this time with me, a sheep from down the road, and a shetland pony...
Only a matter of time? Bisexual =/= who will anything and everything with a pulse.
As for the advice... had my share of threesomes in the young & crazy days, and they can be great fun from a physical point of view, but I'd have to think long and hard before doing it again in a serious relationship. Too much baggage. No matter how "cool" you think you and your partner are when it comes to that type of thing, gleefully watching your mate get it on with another person goes against human nature.
advise my ass, you're just bragging
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I knew the ladies would say not to do it, this woman is the one pushing the issue.
BTW, it would have never came out about my scuba licence if ladies would not talk about their sex lives at work. Now this woman wants a round of diving lessons.
Did I mention she is 37 and hot as . It's gonna be hard to say "no".
Good god. I hope there was no sword crossing going on. This is pretty disgusting.
why would it be hard to say no? are you not happily married? and how does your wife feel about all this anyway?
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Bragging about what?
I haven't done anything yet.
She's pretty open about it. I think she wants to watch me nail her.
We have talked about it before and she says we should try it once. I however know what this could lead to and was hoping someone else would have a recent example of when things turned out fine. I guess in the back of my mind I want it to happen but I don't want all the baggage that might come along afterwards.
BTW, turns out (I just learned from this women) there's a "underground cult" of swingers and swinger bars in the SA area. Maybe it's my nieveness but I didn't know it was a big thing here.
It IS possible for 2 men to do 1 woman without any direct physical contact.
The ex and I did some swinging back in the day with some friends of hers and their husbands. As long as all parties involved are cool with it, it can be done with no lingering baggage. We're all still friendly with each other and there's no awkwardness.
(And no...our breakup had nothing at all to do with the swinging part.)
WHAT THE ?!
not a good idea for someone in a serious relationship. I did it back in high school with a close girl friend and her fine ass best friend. The uglier of the 2(the close girl friend) didn't like it after the fact because she thought I paid more attention to her fine ass best friend. Can you blame me!?!?!?
i will not judge kingsfan, as i would have no problem doubling up on two hot sisters.
yeah i think people pretty much know that, the ed up thing is that there are two brothers even involved in that. doesn't matter if they are not touching, it's disgusting, eww. it's kind of like watching your brother have sex or something. doesn't make it any better!![]()
I once imagined having a threesome with 5 chicks. It went really well.
You'd be surprised how many people automatically think you're a when you say you've done a three way with your wife and another man.
And I realize I'm a weirdo, but something about watching her with another guy just turned me on like you wouldn't believe...
If you are married you should remain faithful to your wife. Cheap thrills are not worth the inevitable regret to follow.
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