Here's what John Kerry did:

Former U.S. presidential candidate, Senator John Kerry (D-MA), lays flowers on the casket of U.S. Marine Lance Cpl. Dimitrios Gavriel during his military funeral at Arlington National Cemetery near Washington DC, December 2, 2004. Gavriel, from Haverhill, Massachusetts, died November 19 while fighting in Al Anbar Province in Iraq (news - web sites) and his funeral is the 99th 'Operation Iraqi Freedom' funeral at Arlington National Cemetery. REUTERS/Jason Reed
Bush hasn't made it to a single funeral of a soldier killed in HIS war.
I think it's commendable that Kerry attended, and I think it's deplorable that Bush hasn't attended a funeral.
Didn't Bush say at the first debate that he met with the wife of a fallen soldier and "I tried to love her as best that I could"? Pass the Pepto. I'm sure that made it all better. What arrogance.