Dry humping hurts, I haven't dry humped since high school. OK OK IM LYING it was a few weeks ago.
Another good point. IM SOOO CONFUSED!!!
Dry humping hurts, I haven't dry humped since high school. OK OK IM LYING it was a few weeks ago.
I was dry humping my pillow this morning.
I was dreaming of Scarlett.
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was this before or after she announced she was getting married?
I'd say it all depends on the relationship and what people's comfort levels are. I have guy friends who aren't even allowed to talk to or look at another woman, even innocently, without the wife getting pissed. At the other end of the spectrum we know other couples who swing and seem completely ok in their relationship.
In my opinion you have to trust your spouse to make good decisions and keep the lines of communication open. If porn becomes a replacement for your relationship with your spouse I'd say why even be married. And I have seen a situation where someone we knew became addicted to porn and it essentially ended his marriage. But if a couple uses a little porn as a way of ing things up, and are both on the same page about it I say why not?
Does your friend happen to be Doug Christie?
I got the news this morning.
Never will I dream of her again.
That was crazy.
Close.
Personally I don't believe in being jealous or setting any rules on things that don't really matter. My philosophy in relationships has always been that if your significant other seeks out someone or something else, that you have a problem with your relationship to start with. Setting rules isn't going to change anything, it's just going to make one or both of you miserable and wishing for things you can't have.
What was it, Christie family tradition or some crap....![]()
I personally don't have a problem with porn. I think it can even enhance a couple's love life, used sparingly. But I also think that if either person in the relationship has any kind of objection to it, it should be tossed right out the window. The porn, not the objection.
You Liar, its not too late you can break up the wedding.
LOL glad you specified what could be tossed out the window.
Excellent point.
I believe you when you say that high school was a few weeks ago...
I think it all comes down to the relationship and what you're comfortable with. If it's a distraction and takes away from the relationship then yeah, that's a problem, but if not, I don't see anything wrong with it. I think most mature, healthy men know the difference between a fake ted, bleach blonde who fakes 34 orgasms before finally taking a load across the face and a woman in the real world.
I'm secure enough in my relationship to not let it bother me, and he rarely watches porn anyway. He likes his PS3 and Call of Duty too much to watch much porn.
I wish, I would love to live my late teens early 20's again with what I know now.
You say that as if you can't give it up and still wash dishes at the same time...![]()
Exactly.
If a guy prefers porn to his wife, then there's a problem.
I always rag on the guys around here about strip clubs, and pin up girls just to stir things up, but I really think most guys are smarter than they get credit for. They can fantasize over the porn girls all they want, but in the end it's a picture in a magazine or on a screen. "We" ladies on the other hand will you, raise your kids and fix you a decent chicken fried steak......the choice is obvious!!!![]()
So does that interfere in your relationship or does he play late at night. I always wondered about my online buddies that are married that always play, its like damn bro go take your woman out or something.
I would seriously be a freakin' millionaire by now.
Stupid 19 year old me. I wish I could kick his ass and knock some sense into him.![]()
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I'd be okay just with the chicken fried steak.
But, it has to be some good steak.
I would've told myself to let go of the bottle.
Bingo. Thank you. A good relationship has LOTs of dimentions.
It reminds me of a one liner from "Futurama", where one of the human characters thought he was a robot, and the no-nonsense woman of the show was getting ready to kiss him to remind him he was a man.
(Leela) "I'm gonna prove to Frye he's human in a way that only a woman can."
(old guy)"You're going to do his laundry?"
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