Dude, the longer this thread goes the bigger your vagina gets. Dumps this . Forget about her and get on with your life. She's nothing but aggrivation and trouble. She's replacable and even worse she's in your head and thats the last kind of woman you need.
+1, dirk4mvp listen to this man.
the way she played you with the text message bit, you should have shook the out of her and walked out right then. You know what happens when my girl asks me about my cell phone? She gets a "mind your own ing business" and we go on with life. You need to remember where your balls are.
It's always tough.
Basically from what you wrote, she kind of dictated the terms.
, I wish I was 18 again.
Don't worry about it at all. If you were a good guy, then it's her loss. If you weren't, then it's what you deserve.
And like TimVP said.
M.O.B.
It took me a while to subscribe to that. But it ends up being the truth
/throw phone
Well you just gotta tell her (which im sure you've done by now). If she doesnt accept it, then too bad for her. Its not your problem, as you have done all you could to this point, and whether she accepts it or not is completely up to her (easier said than done, i know). If she is a total psycho, she will never accept it. If she actually has some brains (which not many people, much less women have these days), one day she will realize you were telling the truth, and realize how she was the one who ed up, and may even try to get in touch with you to apologize, who knows.
I know a situation similar to that happened to me. I really wasn't expecting the apology either, as i thought she was actually one of the total psycho crazy es. So you never know. Its almost impossible to know with women, because as i said earlier... they never know what the they want (well about 98% of them anyways. There are a few gems out there with some brains).
at some posters in this thread who seem to underestimate the power of the pussy
and this was your biggest mistake. you can be nice to an ex, friendly to an ex, but being bff with an ex pretty much confirms to her that you're a .
just delete her number from your phone and move on.
Your girl doesn't think something's going on when you say that?
She trusts me and I trust her. She knows I'm not going behind her back on anything. Occasionally she pulls that stuff cuz, well, she's a female and females do that stuff from time to time. But I regulate and that's that. I don't feel the need to check out who she's been calling/texting because I trust she's not doing anything behind my back either.
I spent a few hours last night trying to tell her that. Maybe she'll come around some day and realize she was being an ass about it, cause she changes her mind every 5 seconds.Well you just gotta tell her (which im sure you've done by now). If she doesnt accept it, then too bad for her. Its not your problem, as you have done all you could to this point, and whether she accepts it or not is completely up to her (easier said than done, i know). If she is a total psycho, she will never accept it. If she actually has some brains (which not many people, much less women have these days), one day she will realize you were telling the truth, and realize how she was the one who ed up, and may even try to get in touch with you to apologize, who knows.
I know a situation similar to that happened to me. I really wasn't expecting the apology either, as i thought she was actually one of the total psycho crazy es. So you never know. Its almost impossible to know with women, because as i said earlier... they never know what the they want (well about 98% of them anyways. There are a few gems out there with some brains
If you've never done anything to break her trust, then for her to demand to view your texts like that screams "controlling psycho" in my opinion.
you're both still young so things could definitely change as she matures. but as for right now, be done with her.
Damn dude, where can I find one of those girls at?
..a few months ago she ing blew up after I called her friend to try to find out where they were at a baseball game.
They're not common but as you get older you'll find them more often. I've gone through plenty of girls like the one you're dealing with right now, I've been in almost that exact situation, we probably all have in this thread. Just part of life. It really sucks during the moment but it's a good thing cuz you'll learn from it.
I guess that's the best way to look at it. Still, it ing hurts while it's going on.
Then she needs to grow up and mature.
You just gotta find ways to stay busy to keep your mind off of it. Perhaps take up a new hobby. Go to the gym more. Play basketball (which is what I would always do, and would usually play my best games because I was having a lot more fun than usual cuz it was keeping my mind off of whatever was bothering me)
I'm gonna take this back a bit for the sake of this guys manhood.
Pussy is great. We all love it. Nothing better than parting the legs of some swuut swuut vagina that just glistens in the glow of a drunken evening. Something very magical happens when you lick that little bulb and she begins to leak from the very hole you're planning to go balls deep in.
Even more powerful is the dependency men build into the idea of having that swuut swuut pussy around at any bekoning call. Its nice having in house pussy and lets face it we're all better off rolling around in the same familar vagina than going through the motions of finding and working for fresh poontang....its purely the work envolved in earning new pussy and yes a little bit about the attachment to previous vagina. So don't get me wrong fresh new pussy > pretty much everything else but in house pussy is where the male power begins to breakdown.
Early pussy is pretty powerful . Any man over 26 would trade just about anything to go back in time and lay some pipe to old loves or lost opportunities. That never fades. You just have to realize that yes....I'm about to say it.....there is more to it than just some wet hot beautiful sweet tasting tight juicy pussy. You need to be with a woman that compliments who you are and where you're going not some who's out to help herself, her ego and own personal agendas. If this loved you she'd stay or find a way for you to come with her and attend Comm. College in her area. Real love finds the true common ground and right now buddy you two don't have any powerful common ground other than you guys don't like to be alone and she needs to have more power than you.
You'll get over this the sooner you seperate yourself from her. It will haunt you for eternity of you let her linger around yanking your leash.
As I said earlier...dude has Madden '09 in hand. Pop that sucker in and play until your fingers hurt.
Well put.
She's an 18 yr old chick.
If you turn your head you “break her trust” If you see chicks on t.v. you “break her trust”. If she is like that then take what you’ve learned from her and use it on the next chick. You have to take something from every encounter with women, use what you’ve learned from them and start to weed out the bad ones. This process will take years so don’t worry about this one. She was a learning experience and that’s it. Now you know not to be a dumbass and show the next one your phone.
When I was 18 my girlfriend of a couple of years broke up with me. I was ruined for about two months. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, all that gay . Then it dawned on me, I'm 18 years old and I'm sweating some skank from High School?
I then proceeded to run through as many women as I possibly could over the next five years while in college and I had the time of my life.
Point is, don't sweat any one female, they aren't worth the time you should be spending moving on to meaningless one night stands that you can laugh about with your friends later.
God I miss college.
they're obviously in the palm of her hand.
The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one. Stop yer snivlin and get back in the game.
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