Question for women

[jman3000]

guys have become bigger pussies or maybe feel bad about all the cheating men have done in the past and forgive cheating s easier. kinda like white folks and slave reparations i guess.

if i ever cheated on a girl i would never expect them to forgive me and vis versa.

[Trainwreck2100]

I don't know how old you are but women usually take cycles from the time their 18 until they've been through 1 maybe 2 divorces. The cheaters may always cheat but most women that hit that second marriage and watch it fail take a real abrupt about face and change their ways in their late 30's. Trying to be serious with someone in their 20's is real tough. You have to let the cycle run it course. Women always need to know someone wants to them. Until reality sets in. Which might or might not happen.

Cycles -

Party in teens and early 20's.

Marry for sport and daddy issues.

Divorce for more partying and to "find themselves"

Remarry to a safe but bad fit counter weight after running a course that leaves them feeling empty and used, possibly with a child.

Second divorce

May or may not have found a way to be more self sufficient.

Will start to realize that life can be lived with many different types of people not the best looking one or maybe even the most well off.

A realization that they're not as tight and sought after like they were in their 20's.

Conclusion that fairy tales don't really exist.

Possible damaged goods

3rd marriage because of good fit and a true apprecitation for someone not annoying the ever living out of them. Probably not for deep hard passionate love they had in their early 20's...its different love.

A different kind of fairytale is realized. Not so much a fantasy as a realitytale.

Either it works or they're so damaged from life that they'll remain single or bounce from bad relationship to bad relationship trying to rekindle original fairytale and passion.

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You gotta find a someone ready to come to terms with the rigors of life not some made up story. They need to know who they are and they need to be willing to compliment someone not own them. With kids involved the relationship needs to be viable for the long haul with a sane person. Then you can bring the passion based on appreciation and trust along with all the other reasons like nice s, good wet pussy, sucks a good knob...

That's a long way of saying they are s till they're all used up

[BacktoBasics]

I have a tendency to take the long way of making a point.

[mrsmaalox]

I have a tendency to take the long way of making a point.

[Richard Cranium]

I have a tendency to take the long way of making a point.

I'm sure your wife wishes you'd take that route during sex.

[BacktoBasics]

I'm sure your wife wishes you'd take that route during sex.

Everytime she see those commercials warning of the side effects associated with male stimulation drugs I get the look.

"If you have an erection lasting more than 4 hours seek medical attention"

Her: wish you had that side effect

Me: Find a muzzle for these kids and we can talk.

[Ronaldo McDonald]

I don't know how old you are but women usually take cycles from the time their 18 until they've been through 1 maybe 2 divorces. The cheaters may always cheat but most women that hit that second marriage and watch it fail take a real abrupt about face and change their ways in their late 30's. Trying to be serious with someone in their 20's is real tough. You have to let the cycle run it course. Women always need to know someone wants to them. Until reality sets in. Which might or might not happen.

Cycles -

Party in teens and early 20's.

Marry for sport and daddy issues.

Divorce for more partying and to "find themselves"

Remarry to a safe but bad fit counter weight after running a course that leaves them feeling empty and used, possibly with a child.

Second divorce

May or may not have found a way to be more self sufficient.

Will start to realize that life can be lived with many different types of people not the best looking one or maybe even the most well off.

A realization that they're not as tight and sought after like they were in their 20's.

Conclusion that fairy tales don't really exist.

Possible damaged goods

3rd marriage because of good fit and a true apprecitation for someone not annoying the ever living out of them. Probably not for deep hard passionate love they had in their early 20's...its different love.

A different kind of fairytale is realized. Not so much a fantasy as a realitytale.

Either it works or they're so damaged from life that they'll remain single or bounce from bad relationship to bad relationship trying to rekindle original fairytale and passion.

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You gotta find a someone ready to come to terms with the rigors of life not some made up story. They need to know who they are and they need to be willing to compliment someone not own them. With kids involved the relationship needs to be viable for the long haul with a sane person. Then you can bring the passion based on appreciation and trust along with all the other reasons like nice s, good wet pussy, sucks a good knob...

Or you can just marry some really fat chick who knows she's lucky to be with you and knows she's got no to hardly any chance of having a lasting relationship with anyone else and avoid this huge problem.

[SpursWoman]

Then you can bring the passion based on appreciation and trust along with all the other reasons like nice s, good wet pussy, sucks a good knob...

At first I thought this was the part Angel_luv quoted.

[Jekka]

How many of them have done it though?

Only one has outright and unashamedly cheated, but she also needs to be medicated. The others have made it through long distance relationships, financial difficulties, school and work stress, etc., without falling into that hole, and that's a lot of work.

[SpursWoman]

guys have become bigger pussies or maybe feel bad about all the cheating men have done in the past and forgive cheating s easier. kinda like white folks and slave reparations i guess.

Or, maybe it's just women in general getting so ing sick and tired of hearing how it's physically impossible for a man to keep his in his pants that *they* started breeding a new generation of women to equal out the playing field.

Women that are physically incapable of keeping their legs closed.

[BacktoBasics]

Or you can just marry some really fat chick who knows she's lucky to be with you and knows she's got no to hardly any chance of having a lasting relationship with anyone else and avoid this huge problem.

A lot of men have bought into that program. Promblem is you end up resenting fatty for...well...being fat.

[2Blonde]

Sly,
As far as your daughter is concerned, you might want to consider asking a teenage girl (niece, daughter of a friend, babysitter, etc...) to spend some time with your daughter as a mentor/friend. Teenage girls love to fix hair. When I used to babysit, we always had fun playing beauty shop.

Getting your daughter an older friend can reap many rewards. It gives her someone to aspire to, learn from, spend time with, help her understand the changes she will go through. Another option is to contact the the Big Brothers/Big Sisters organization.

Here is their link... http://www.bbbs.org/site/c.diJKKYPLJ...FR0RnQodjySBRA

[BacktoBasics]

Sly probably could use a teenage girl of his own...you know for mentoring.

[mrsmaalox]

[jman3000]

Or, maybe it's just women in general getting so ing sick and tired of hearing how it's physically impossible for a man to keep his in his pants that *they* started breeding a new generation of women to equal out the playing field.

Women that are physically incapable of keeping their legs closed.

im all for girls not being able to keep their legs closed... in fact id prefer it... but just be my dirty and not a bunch of other guys' too.

[BacktoBasics]

im all for girls not being able to keep their legs closed... in fact id prefer it... but just be my dirty and not a bunch of other guys' too.

This post might belong in the "Cake And Eat It Too" forum

[SpursWoman]

This post might belong in the "Cake And Eat It Too" forum

Yeah ... that kinda defeated what I meant. Which was, girls are becoming just as big ing untrustworthy assholes as boys.



But, more than anything I was just being a smartass. It wouldn't surprise me at all if more and more girls are becoming more blatant about being cheaters/hoes just like guys, just from witnessing the amount of selfishness and laziness and the sense of en lement that abounds these days ... at least more than I ever remember there being. Everything is just too easy.

[jman3000]

i know what yall mean...im just speaking for myself.

if a girl is acting dodgy or su ious i just say it and move on.

fish in the ocean and all that jazz.

[BacktoBasics]

Yeah ... that kinda defeated what I meant. Which was, girls are becoming just as big ing untrustworthy assholes as boys.



But, more than anything I was just being a smartass. It wouldn't surprise me at all if more and more girls are becoming more blatant about being cheaters/hoes just like guys, just from witnessing the amount of selfishness and laziness and the sense of en lement that abounds these days ... at least more than I ever remember there being. Everything is just too easy.

I wrote out a very very long thread about the en lement at ude we see today. I didn't feel like posting it so I erased it. That mentality along with the blame game people play is quickly becoming the norm in our society. I ing hate it.

[JoeChalupa]

I still believe in rock solid relationships and I don't play the cheating game.

[CuckingFunt]

im all for girls not being able to keep their legs closed... in fact id prefer it... but just be my dirty and not a bunch of other guys' too.

This post might belong in the "Cake And Eat It Too" forum

No. Those girls exist.

[CuckingFunt]

But, more than anything I was just being a smartass. It wouldn't surprise me at all if more and more girls are becoming more blatant about being cheaters/hoes just like guys, just from witnessing the amount of selfishness and laziness and the sense of en lement that abounds these days ... at least more than I ever remember there being. Everything is just too easy.

I wrote out a very very long thread about the en lement at ude we see today. I didn't feel like posting it so I erased it. That mentality along with the blame game people play is quickly becoming the norm in our society. I ing hate it.

The sense of en lement is really out of control these days, and I think it's got a lot to do with how people view relationships. I don't know a lot of girls who think cheating is cool, but I do know a lot of people who have done it and don't think it's a big deal. In fact, I think I'm the only person I know who doesn't regularly overlap relationships and start ing the new one before I've completely broken up with the old one.

But, I really don't think it's about cheating. Or sex. I think it's about selfishness. No one cares if they're wasting someone else's time. No one cares if they're hurting someone else. It's all about what makes my life easier.

[BacktoBasics]

No one cares if they're wasting someone else's time.

You just described my work environment. Its why the turnover in retail is astronimically high.

[SpursWoman]

It's all about what makes my life easier.

There are so many more avenues of meeting people than there used to be, too ... internet dating & hook-up sites for one, that have opened up a whole new world (literally!) of new people to cheat with. That can't help.

[BacktoBasics]

There are so many more avenues of meeting people than there used to be, too ... internet dating & hook-up sites for one, that have opened up a whole new world (literally!) of new people to cheat with. That can't help.

and to think

I'm still having trouble finding those people. This place really needs to start producing more nudes.